In continuation hanswolf please



  • hi hans, u remember i told u about a guy in my class who was married.

    i say a seldom hi or hello, n how u doing once wen his wife hadnt come to the class.

    this time also his wife dint come.

    i think from what i felt i saw him looking at me when we ended our group discussion, then the class ended and everyone started leaving , he left too, i left after him thinking he had already gone, but i saw him standing there just close by as if he was waiting for someone. i just went ahead on my way, turned back n he left after a while.

    was he really looking at me in the class?

    why was he waiting? for what?

    does he know im attracted to him?

    what do u see in the situation between me and him?



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  • drgagannagi,

    was he really looking at me in the class? no.

    why was he waiting? because he did not feel his own pain.

    for what? someone which he could not abdicate.

    does he know im attracted to him? yes.

    what do u see in the situation between me and him? the princess bride dresses humbly, out of respect for her commoner groom. Her bridesmaids outshine her by far. She is a treasure.

    If you look and search, then you come to

    understand that a shadow is a shadow; it has no

    substance in it. There is no need to drop it; in

    understanding it and not finding it there, it is

    dropped.



  • 1. does he know im attracted to him? yes.

    what will he do about it if he knows im attracted to him?

    2. what this means, ?

    what do u see in the situation between me and him? the princess bride dresses humbly, out of respect for her commoner groom. Her bridesmaids outshine her by far. She is a treasure.



  • drgagannagi,

    what will he do about it if he knows im attracted to him? nothing, the way is blocked.

    2. what this means, ? he is moving to someone else, offering her his heart.

    Why are you wasting your life and your time with these insane men?



  • Why are you wasting your life and your time with these insane men?

    because there is no one in my life.

    Where do i find a perfect sane man, is there noone God made for me?



  • Try not to look for men who are married. That is asking for trouble.



  • gypsy dreams: im not trying to have anything with a married man, i just sensed something going on between me and him, SENSED, so I was clarifying with HANS : ) im not trying to date him or have anything, i just want to know if the feeling is MUTUAL.



  • drgagannagi,

    Where do i find a perfect sane man: on this earth, down to earth, not in the heaven, lying flat on the earth.

    is there noone God made for me? yes.

    But first you have to be perfect sane. Live in and with all your dimensions.

    These are your three dimensions: being, feeling,

    action. Action contains all creativity, all kinds of

    creativity: music, poetry, painting, sculpture,

    architecture, science, technology. Feeling contains all

    that is aesthetic: love, beauty. And being contains

    meditation, awareness, consciousness.



  • im wondering hans: all other people who r married or committed were perfectly in tune before they met someone, why do i have to go in side me n then only i will meet someone?



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  • drgagannagi,

    why do i have to go in side me n then only i will meet someone? because you are rejecting every offer.

    If you can learn that, going inside, you will have entered into the

    temple of love. Forget about love, remember bliss. If you

    can be blissful love is yours. Whether you remember love

    or not does not matter: if you are blissful love is

    bound to remember you.



  • oh is that so... hmmmm.



  • drgagannagi,

    and this is then the beauty of it: if you are happy and a

    relationship happens, you feel good, you share, but you

    are not dependent on it. You don't become a slave, you

    don't become addicted to it, because you can be happy

    without it.



  • when will i know and how will i kno that im happy now.



  • drgagannagi,

    when will i know and how will i kno that im happy now: when you see the interconnections.

    Safari. Africa. Big-game hunting -- and the woman (someone like you) was

    driving the handsome white hunter crazy with her

    barrage of questions.

    'How will I know if I trap a tiger?' she asked.

    'By his yellow coat and stripes, madam.'

    'And how will I know if I trap a lion?'

    'By the brown colour and his flowing mane.'

    'And how will I know if I trap an elephant?'

    'That, madam' sighed the white hunter 'is the easiest

    of all. By the slight odour of peanut on his breath.'

    Don't be too worried. This happiness is such a

    big thing -- like an elephant -- you will not be able

    to miss it. You will not even be able to escape it!

    Once it happens it is self-evident: it needs no other

    proofs of what it is.

    But don't be calculating:

    An elderly couple went to a doctor. The man said, 'We

    want to know if we are making love properly. Will you

    look at us?'

    'Go ahead,' said the doctor. They made love.

    'You are making love perfectly,' the doctor said. 'That

    will be $10.'

    They came back six weeks in a row and did the same

    thing. On the seventh visit the doctor said, 'What are

    you coming here like this for -- I told you you are

    making love properly!'

    'She can't come to my house,' said the man, 'and I

    can't go to her house. A motel costs $20. You charge us

    $10 and we get $8 back from Medicare.'

    Don't be calculating, don't be cunning with life. Now

    what kind of love will this be? Business and business

    and business...


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