A Gemini and Sagittarius R/S! I NEED ADVICE AND HELP :(
I've been in a relationship with a Gemini for almost 2 years. And yes, I love him so very much.
I realised that our relationship have started to take a turn for the worse.
We have been arguing a lot recently.
Reason being, he started to showed me very little care and concern these few days. We would meet less often, maybe once or twice a week?
He always complains he's tired and we would end the day just like that.
His calls have lessened, sometimes just once a day? He takes ages to call me back. I would see him using his phone all day and get distracted.(he said it is for work)
Trust issue? I don't know.
And everytime we argue, he won't get what I'm unhappy about and that would lead to more arguments. Its like he is in his own world?
But he did tell me that he loved me so much and he wondered if I love him back?
He told me he wanted this relationship to work out and us to focus on work so we will have a better future and not worry about money and be able to afford everything we need and want.
He said once he made money he will pamper me with gifts and bring me out for an extravagant dinner and shopping. I was thrilled obviously.
But time and again, I would see him messaging girls saying that he wish to know them more and would give out his msn.
Once I find out, he would stop messaging the girls again. Is this a good thing cause he is listening or should I be more wary?
Sometimes he calls them darling and he said it was for fun, just disturbing.
He said 'I may be a bastard but i'm not cheap, you don't know me well enough.', he said he only loves me and maybe his mistake is that he is too flirtatious(cyberly) and overly friendly.
When I asked him what was this about? He said it was nothing and kept saying that he wasn't guilty about anything and that I was thinking too much.
Sometimes I would wonder what is this Gemini thinking? Why is he so flirtatious?
I realised that he can't live without socialising and his friends but everytime he goes out, he would be afraid of my reaction and that causes him to hold back a bit.
He have not cheated on me but keeps messaging girls on facebook secretly? What is this about?
Is this how a Gemini should be like?
I can't understand him at all. I'm helpless!
Should I give up on this relationship or still fight on?
I've heard that we both are total opposites in terms of our horoscope.
You and Maygem should talk - http://www.tarot.com/forum/topic.php?id=10130&replies=1
Well “AngstyV” Forgot his Gemini but still they seem to behave all the same it’s starting to be so hilarious in way.
Instead on trying to adapt to whatever his doing try to focus on what you want and what you can handle
For my part for example I couldn’t handle a guy that txt other girls etc, I don’t care what the excuse is, if you txt other girls or chat to other girl in dating mind and then telling me its nothing then I have a question to ask, why are you doing it??
And Whats Wrong with the way I LOVE YOU????
And I will ask him another question: if there is something wrong with the way I love you then tell me so I can learn and improve thing, if you want thing to work out then work it with me instead of going out there and look for a new girlfriend.
How would he feel if you were doing this too? Apparently flirting for Gemini are not cheating but in my view it is cheating because you exchange conversation with this person, dreams, picture and video with this person and maybe meet up with this person.
Someone that drink coffee and tell you : No it’s not coffee really it’s not, Is taking you for a fool
Also if someone keep denying or ignoring your need each time you trying to share it, is someone that don’t really care for you
Make some rule girl, if he want to contact other woman, in real life or on the net, then both of you need to be single and then he can do it
If he doesn’t take the time to understand you and stop the things that hurt you is not worth your time
You need to start looking closer to what is happening inside of you when all this happening in order to know what to do about it
If your fear to lose him or end the relationship is bigger then the love and the concern for yourself then you are not going to be able to find a balance with him at all.
Sometimes and a lot times this day, LOVE is simply not enough and Simply no good enough if you don’t get respected or valuate for the person that you are.
You know what to do, don’t get yourself brain wash and don’t try too much to understand and analyse his move
His moves are crystal clear, simply wrong toward you so do something about it for yourself.
When the person that you love doesn’t love you , you need to not let yourself down and LOVE yourself more