Captain could i have a reading please
im expecting my first grandchild in 5 weeks [girl] i would love to be in the labor room and watch her come into this world the thing is this is my sons child if the girl mother doesnt go in i can
only 3 people can go the other grandma said she didnt know if she could handle watching i dont want to step on no toes so im just wondering if its going to be me ? if you can answer thank you .
This is something you need to talk out between you all so that there is no confusion or upset. Make sure the other grandma really doesn't want to go in - you could always alternate if there are some parts where she wants to be in and others that she can't handle.
Make sure someone films the event if possible, too so no one will miss out seeing it.