Scorpio man likes me? Or just likes the sex?
km12 last edited by
I have been dating a Scorpio man for 2 weeks now. When we first met we hit it off right away. He was very funny.. Nice. Welcoming. Called me a lot. Wanted to spend time with me ect. We had slept together and the sex was out of this world. I was a little weary about how soon we had sex together but the next day he was still very into me. Now about 4 days ago he took work off for me because he wanted to spend the night with me. I said ok. So I went over that night and everything was going well till one of my friends called me drunk needing help. I told him I was gonna go (being that it was 1230 am) and he got very upset. Telling me he's not down for games and he's been threw enough BS in his life. I told him that wasn't what I was trying to do. He didn't believe me. I decided to pick up my friend real quick and drop her off at home and than come back to his place. Which I did and he seemed fine about it. But since than he has been very stand offish with me. Like if I tell him I miss him he goes no you don't. I'll ask if he misses me and he says he does. I told him I think he's very good looking and he said "don't play me". I told him I was lucky to have him and he says "yea right I'm the lucky one". He told me I'm gonna have to put in work cause his love don't come easy. Which Is fine but since the other night I feel like I'm the only one working. When we have sex it's very sensual. Like he holds my hand and caresses me like he's really into me. But the moment after he puts his wall back up. Like it's hard for me to connect with him. He wasn't like this when we first met. I asked if he was done with me or not into me anymore and he said no it's just not going to come easy. I'm afraid I did something wrong. How do I fix this? How do I get him to open up again like he was? He told me he has trust issues and he's had a lot of BS relationships. I feel like I'm being tested. Should I leave him alone or should I continue showing him I care? I feel like I'm nagging cause I'm the only one calling or texting or asking to hang out. Although he never denies me he still leaves the ball in my court. What should I do?
P.s. When we have sex it's the only time I feel like he's into me or communicating. I know scorpios are known for sex so is that just a game he's playing on me or does he really open up that way?
mzosorio last edited by
I knw how u feel.Im a Gemini married to a scorpio.We are separated at the momment. Wat i have learned in the last 15yrz is that they expect alot of attention,and the momment they think ur not giving it to them,they change and want u to beg.My advice to u is bring it to his attention and let him knw how u feel.It takes 2.Let him tx u and call u.Dont do all the work,cuz i promise u he will get use to it and expect it all the time.