Need advice please

  • Okay so I have NEVER dated a scorpio man....I am a cancer and my last two long term relationships have been a libra and a leo.....libra married for 14yrs leo engaged for I met this scorpio and wow I like him.....but I don't know what scorpio men are all about?? I have a female friend that is scorpio and she is one of my any advice would be great!


  • oh my I am a Leo and my oldest son's father is a scorpio we were together for 3 almost 4 years and this was a rollercoaster omg we first started out grrrreat and I mean scorpio's can b unpredictable possessive jealous but will take on man they have 2 sides so watch not get stung lol but may happen to work out fine. everyone is different it may work out they have a sweet side of luck for you both...

  • My husband is a scorpio we have been together for 16 years and i agree with Moonraiz they defenetly have 2 sidesto them, i find that he is very obstinate about certain things, he cant accept change yet he is a very responsible person who is very private doesnt talk much at all which drives me crazy as i am a nonstop chatterbox . I also have female friends that are scorpios and we can chat all day long, yet they still have some of the same traits that my husband does but we are all unique in our own way . Good Luck Many Blessings2u Lilac

  • thanks for the advice!! I appreciate your time!

  • Hi, I was wondering if you couldhelp me, can someone help an give insight on what this scorpio of mine is thinking and doing please tell me.

    Well here it goes.... i have know this scorpio guy for many years but he was married and has two little boys but knew him through family and hi hello and that and we know all his family, well lest year his wife died which was very upsetting... this year end of August we were at two weddings we were both attending he was being very friendly with me and started to get close but i didnt think anything of it i didnt realise what he was doing to be honest and then he started texing me and after that we got involved how it happened i dont know we also see each other every week at this congregation we go to, well he was on text to me 24/7 on my case asking everything where im going, who with, why and all that and even asking me if i ve ad breakfast lunch and dinner every day and said he wanted to get to know me i said fine as i started to like him..... he then asked me if down the line we wanted to get married would it bother me as he has two kids I said NO and then he said what about my parents (by the way i am an indian and our parents have to agree to marriage aswell) I told him they would never accept. Even after that we still continued as i couldnt back off and he was still on my case and when he wouldnt see me he would be missing me and saying this on his texts he would also say to me " you will end up falling in love with so be carefull lol" also what was strange when he was swimming lessons with his kids for few hours and i wouldn text he would say "did you not miss me"and things like that then he wanted to meet up and we decided a day, day before we were going to meet up he cancelled it saying that " i dont think we should meet as if down that line we want to get married we cant coz of my parents and we would both end up hurt" so he broke it off I said fine, he didnt text me and i didnt text him after a week we saw each other at the congregation that we go to and he then sent me a text afterwards saying " it was nice to see me today and that he didnt realise how much he missed me" we started off again with texting and that and getting close we then finally met up and were trying to find the solution of what to do with my parents and the situation but werent able to solve it after that on the 31st october it was his wife's first death anniversary and i saw him that congration i was feeling abit embarrased because day before i went out with my friends and drink and that i texted him sayin " I love him" but he was responding very well on that day as i wasnt to sure how he would react as he hasnt told me he loves me. The next day he didnt text and i didnt as he was grieving coz of his wife and taht i though not good to text plus i dont think he wanted to either .... eveentually taht nite i texted himto ask if he was ok, he started to ask me if i was drunk when i sent him that text of i love you and i told him i wasnt he said okay, i then changed the subject after that for few days we werent in touch he wasnt in the mood to text then he texted it was baiscally on and off last week aswell, he had told me he was going away on holiday for 4 weeks so he said would be nice ot meet up before going he were suppose to meet me this monday as he was flying on wednesday this week, well just before that on text he started asking me that he wants a mother to his kids who treat them as there own and someone he can relate to as i asked what he wants......... to which i told him i will and he can judge for himself he then said " he knows i will" I then said to him as what situation hes goign thorugh my dad went through the same I also lost my mum and he knows that, i can understand very well what the kids are going through and him. well just for my reassurance and said to him end of the day i need to have a place in his heart he said " YES I DO" which i was very happy about, but i had to ask him he then just said that " I have to get your parents to agree and thats it". In his texts it always seems as he is aksing me qusetions to see how i feel and think about him WHY? cant he see it in my actions?. he als came around my house on saturday for tea with his cousins, generally as my family and his family know each other, but the reason he came over was just to start getting close to them if you know what i mean coz its my parents that will have the issue, which was very nice of him...... next day on sunday he cancelled the meet up for monday sayin hes busy and has alot of things on his mind, i was upset as you can imagine. I didnt text him on monday and tuesday, late on tuesday nite i texted him as he was going away next morning saying wish him safe journey and all that he responded to that, the next morning i didnt text at all and he texted me saying " Hey u okay, we about to take off, will see you when im back, you take care" and then another texted message saying " be good lol, bye " what did he mean by be good lol?????????. he has gone away now for 4 weeks.

    Could you please tell me what his going on thorugh his mind, what his feelings are and what he is doing exactly? i cant understand???

    I know it is bad phase at mo as its his wifes first death anniversay and probably having flash backs and that but still woudl be good to know what his going throught this Scorpion males mind and heart, as I have fallen in love with him.

    Oh also my parents and his family basically no one knows we seeing each other but if we wanted to get married his family would have no issues just my parents that is the problem.


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  • I am a Gemini Woman and I am very attracted to a Scorpio man. Funny thing is that I have had monthly interactions with him (work related-but not a coworker) for the past four years. Although I foud him to be attractive, I just didn't either catch on or notice him. He was always very nice and attentive and sometimes said some things that made me wonder later if he was being sexual. He would even ask me personal questions. All the while, I never payed any attention. I just wasn't interested b/c I didn't catch on I guess. In the past year, I somehow started to become attracted to him. He seems very attracted to me. I am not tooting my own horn, but I am definately not unattractive. He has complimented me on my heels, the color i wear, etc etc. I am not imagining that he is interested. He stares at me and I can see it from my peripheral vision. One time, I actually looked him STRAIGHT in the eye and he just gave me the deepest look ever I have ever been given and it sent nice chills down my back, but it only lasted a second or so. When he leaves, he looks back at me before he walks out the door. A few times, he has even sat very close to me and literally spreads his legs eagle in my personal space. Even though I really like it, I will not make the first move while I am in his presence. So, this is where the confusion begins. After all the body language he gave me, I emailed him and I told him I was wildly attracted to him, told him that I would love to have lunch or dinner with him and just left my phone number. I kept it simple. HE DID NOT RESPOND. When I saw him again, I was embarassed and to keep my dignity in tact, I didn't mention anything. I left it alone as if nothing happened. Again, he got into my "personal space" with legs spread showing off his goods.....literally. He was kind, attentive, again, turned to look at me just before he walked out the door. He has been doing this for a year. And in this year, I have fallen hard. I have always texted him first or emailed him first-never him to me. But when he is in my presence, he DEFINATELY shows interest. He leans in to me, he touches my shoulder or leg, and he tells me I look good in whatever I am wearing. What the hell? I am pretty intelligent and I have dignity and I will never beg so I guess the game will continue. Is he just teasing me to be an asshole and to lead me on?

  • With Scorpio, you have to really sensitive. He may act as if he is insensitive and aloof or as if he does not care about what you said or think. But he is putting up a front. Inside, he is a pretty sentimental and sensitive guy. It took a me while to realize. I admit I find it exhausting being with him at times as he never ever opens up. If he opens up just a little, he holds back immediately and does the disappearing act. Very strange and challenging for me as I am an open and friendly person (Aquarius with Leo rising, Scorpio moon). But he is a very sweet man who always remember what I said and seek to do very thoughtful things. Oh! When the chips are down, he will be there immediately. I love this about him despite his shortcomings. Sadly, we broke up as he gets more secretive and disappear for weeks. I just cannot deal with it.

  • Foolosopher....that's one of the coolest forum names i've ever seen, definitely stealing this one thanks ! :):) the other one was Cereal Killah.... least i should contribute something to this thread......

    So 6des9, just a Sun Sign doesn't mean much, it's the chart as a whole that's important, and from what little i know the 7th house and the planet Venus placing is very important for relationships...but better ask someone knowledgeable.....and of course trust your female gut instinct first and foremost 😉

    Gone to register as Mistah Foolosopher in every forum i ever posted har har har

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