CAN ANY ONE HELP PLEASE
MY HUSBAND IS GIVING ME VERY MIXED MESSAGES, HAVING BE MARRIED FOR 32 YEARS HE LEFT WITH NO WARNING 18 MONTHS AGO, HE HAS NOW TOLD ME HE DOES NOT WANT DIVORCE, BUT IS STILL WITH ANOTHER WOMAN. i LOVE MY MAN TO BITS, BUT WHAT IS HE SAYING.
He is saying "I want to have my cake and eat it too. This other woman satisfies my need for excitement and proves my virility but I also want you to provide a comfortable home and food for me when I feel like visiting or need my 'mother'. We may have sex but I will go back to the other woman when I get bored."
Don't put up with this garbage.