PLEASE HELP!!!....Scorpio enlightenment
Hi! I'm new here and I need some advice. I hope I don't bore you to tears; I also hope you don't think I'm completely crazy. LOL...I'll try to condense the story as to not write a novel.
I'm a Capricorn, 47..met this Scorpio, 48 and it was instant connection. Fact is..in all my 47 years I've NEVER felt such a connection with anyone...and it was mutual. He's from another state and working in the state where I reside. Not a day went by in the beginning that he didn't call or text just to let me know I was on his mind. When we were together it was like we'd been together forever. One day he told me that there was a possibility that he would be transferred and after this he became distant although we still communicated and saw one another, it was different. However, whenever I did see him he would say he loved me and that he wanted us to be "like this" for the next 50 years etc. etc. A few weeks ago he called and wanted me to come over so we could chat. Our chat led to him telling me that it was over because he would be leaving and he didn't want to be attached to someone then have to leave and feel the hurt. Then he said he didn't remember saying he loved me. In the next breath after I'd relived all the things he'd said he replied..."I'm not saying those things are not true"...so, I got up to leave and he questioned how I could just get up and leave and never look back, asking "I thought you would follow me to the ends of the earth and fight for me?". Four days later he's texting me just to ask if I'd gotten a job that I had been trying to get. The last time I saw him I was in a local club (we were no longer together, so I figured I'd have a good time), I ran into a man who turned out to be his boss and we were talking as guess who walks in. He totally ignored me and started flirting with all the girls in the room. I left. 3 days later I get a text from him saying that it was his boss's birthday and that the boss wanted him to call me for him...he said the boss told him that I wanted to have **** with him (as a birthday present I guess Ha). BTW..I don't believe the boss said anything..I believe my scorpio made all this up. My question is WHY?
I've never been involved with a Scorpio before. I'm so confused. Is this some sort of game? Is he testing me and if so...what's my next move? I don't know how to play these games. Or, three...is he just a nut case that I need to do my best to forget? This one will be hard...as I said..I've never in my life felt like this about a man before. NEVER!
It is a game. Ignore him completely. Do not even bother to read his texts. He is wasting your time.
That's easier said than done. I so wish I could close my heart off like that.
Update: He called last night and told me there was a change of plans and he's back in my state. He said, "Everything happens for a reason" his favorite quote. He asked how I was and so on and so forth. We had a nice chat but, I made a point to keep it cordial and I ended the conversation rather than doing what I normally do...letting him end it. I hope I did the right thing.