Hanswolfgang, may I bother you with a question pls?
I feel he is coming around again, but can't tell if it is for me or is his job?? neither nor.
can you pick up what is up in his mind right now regarding me? he sees you going on your own way.
are we going to be in a relationship this year?? yes.
Watch.... Don't renounce the world, and don't try to
drop the mind. Just become more alert. In that
alertness, suddenly mind disappears, and with the mind
disappears the whole world. And when there is no mind
and no world, Tao is.
are you saying if I focus and whatever I want, I can attain, including this gentelman I am dating?? no.
Man keeps on moving -- without thinking why,
without thinking where from, without thinking in which
direction. He does not even think 'Who am I?' but goes
on running. What will the result of this hard running
be? What will we get?
what rhyme or reason in going on like this?
Stop a little. Reconsider it for once: 'Who am I?'
have patience and everything will come in its place? yes.
During the second world war, Paddy, Sean and Seamus
are fighting against the Nazis in France. Unfortunately
they are captured and sent to a concentration camp. On
Adolf Hitler's birthday, the camp commander is in a
good mood, so he calls the three Irishmen to his
office. "Okay, you dumbkopfs," he shouts, "as it is
Adolf Hitler's birthday, I am going to give you your
freedom if you can tell me the sex of the bird on my
Sean goes first and says, "Female."
Seamus agrees that it is female, but Paddy insists,
"Good," says the commander to Paddy, "you are right.
But how did you know?"
"It had to be male," replies Paddy, heading for the
door, "with a prick like you under it!"
I'm wondering what you can tell me about my relationship with Z, and where you see it heading in the near future and the big picture: this is a frustrating relationship, expecting, demanding, but no one is ready to give anything. No love, no exchange, just hoping for security. If you openly admit your mistake, you humbly and nobly will return without a blame.
Unless you can enjoy
yourself you cannot help anyone to enjoy. Unless you
are really contented with yourself, you cannot serve
others; you cannot help others toward their
contentment. Unless you are overflowing with your own
bliss you are a danger to society, because a person who
sacrifices always becomes a sadist.
Hanswolfgang thanks for your reply. If the decision I've made is not right, what is the right one? What could/should I have done? Mentally I have been trying to prepare myself for the inevitable. What should I do now?
If the decision I've made is not right, what is the right one? Get active, use your full potential.
What could/should I have done? You could/should have balanced yourself, coming into an equilibrium between your inner man and you inner woman, between yin and yang.
What should I do now? Open your heart and give your love without conditions. Sweep away corruption and stagnation by stirring up the people and strengthening their spirit. Consider the move for three days. After that, devote three days of hard labor to damage control. You are blessed with an opportunity to resuscitate that which others have abandoned as beyond repair.
This ruin wasn't caused by evil intention, but by indifference to decay. Just by addressing yourself to the problem, you exhibit a new awareness, a fresh perspective. This is a time of recovery, renewal, regeneration.
Actually, he who
is filled with desires, wishes to reach somewhere. The
very desire to reach is passion. If I am happy to be
myself and accept myself as I am, all paths become
useless for me. Then there is no path for me. If I have
not to go anywhere, if I have not to reach anywhere
then there is no need no purpose, for a path for me. If
I have to reach somewhere go somewhere; if I have to be
something attain something then paths become
inevitable. If I have not to travel anywhere, what
meaning can paths have for me? But if we want to take a
journey, then paths become meaningful. Whatever paths
we create are all paths of desires, of passions. No
path is ever created without a desire, although, the
desire is not concerned with the passage at all.
Passion is concerned with the destination only. But no
destination can be reached without a route. So no
desire can be fulfilled without following a path. Some
means are always necessary to fulfill a desire.
Hanswolfgang. Yes, i know that in order to achieve something you really need to want it. And I want, I've always wanted but at the same time I've always been afraid. And the fear has been paralysing me and made unable to reach the goal.
I'm trying to understand your wisdom. What do you mean by me balancing my inner man and inner woman? and by saying 'You are blessed with an opportunity to resuscitate that which others have abandoned as beyond repair.' You say I should open my heart and give my love without conditions. You mean open your heart to the new opportunity which has arisen?
Is there anything I can do to save the friendship? Can the relation be repaired somehow?
Should I contact him within the next three months?
Does he feel I let him down? Is he in pain? if so how can I soothe his pain?
I don't want him to disappear from my life. Will he? or maybe it would be better to cut my bonds with him completely and let it go? sorry for so many questions but I think I need to know. Thank you for your patience.
What do you mean by me balancing my inner man and inner woman? being against bias and finding your rhythm between contact and withdrawal.
and by saying 'You are blessed with an opportunity to resuscitate that which others have abandoned as beyond repair.': You feel like you're imprisoned by life.
You say I should open my heart and give my love without conditions. You mean open your heart to the new opportunity which has arisen? Yes.
Is there anything I can do to save the friendship? Yes.
Can the relation be repaired somehow? Yes.
Should I contact him within the next three months? No.
Does he feel I let him down? No.
Is he in pain? No.
if so how can I soothe his pain? be friendly towards him.
I don't want him to disappear from my life. Will he? Yes.
or maybe it would be better to cut my bonds with him completely? yes.
sorry for so many questions but I think I need to know: you are disappointed. Pause for clarity and return to integrity. Once actions are sincere, you may move forward blamelessly.
Only feel compassion. And if he comes back, whatever you can do to help him you will do. Try to help him as far as possible. But if he goes on hiding here and there, then it is impossible. On your side be absolutely honest and sincere, telling everything as it is without any consideration of consequences.
Oh good, you are on the forum today.
You stated that my friend (G) will contact me on the 23rd of this month. So far, TWO of the troublemakers in his company have left this month. WHAT a relief!
So my next question is: Will the MAIN troublemaker -employee whose D.O.B. is March 20,1968- still be working at his comapny on the 23rd of this month? When will this person no longer will be working for the company?
Your insight please
Will the MAIN troublemaker -employee whose D.O.B. is March 20,1968- still be working at his comapny on the 23rd of this month? No.
When will this person no longer will be working for the company? When the showdown comes, with the opponents too evenly matched. Just as all hopes of survival are dashed, three strangers appear. They will tip the scales in favor of the contender who recognizes them for what they are.
Your insight please: Try to be in harmony with the people around you.
Do that which fits your own nature.
Oh WOW! I will keep you posted on what happens.
Oh... There is another employee, whose D.O. B. is March 8 (I think she is 20yrs old)
Will she still be working for the company on the 23rd of June?
When will this particular person, no longer will be working for the company?
Hanswolfgang, it is good to know I am able to help him. Has he been/Is he hiding anything from me?
I think I know why he appeared in my life. What is the reason for my appearance in his? What was the aim?
Will she still be working for the company on the 23rd of June? No.
When will this particular person, no longer will be working for the company? When her dreams evaporate to mist on the breeze, she returns to her well of strength.
There is a kind of love that is articulate, vocal, and there is another kind of love that is in articulate, silent. And remember, the love that is vocal is never deep, it is superficial, shallow. Words don’t have much depth; silence is most profound. So is silent love. It is discernible on many occasions, but it is never open and aggressive. It is true that silent love makes a much deeper impression on the lovers than does any other kind of love.
I wonder what your insight is on holding out for John? or pursuing another love interest Vince? I also am going to school full-time taking a minor in Sociology and Communications. Will I be able to get a good career from this? I felt led to do this now and finish my Bachelors degree.
Love and Light,
Has he been/Is he hiding anything from me? No.
What is the reason for my appearance in his? Being prepared for anything.
What was the aim? The arising of true love, rising in love instead of falling in love.
The security of the secure is nothing, it is just
bogus. They believe in the bank account, they believe
in the balance, they believe in the house, in the wife,
in the children. This security is not very secure. The
security of the secure is not much, it is just a
I wonder what your insight is on holding out for John? There is no personal power.
or pursuing another love interest Vince? Being afraid of new ways, holding on to the past and the security.
Will I be able to get a good career from this? No.
All these love interests are to shatter you. They shatter you
but you go on holding. So now two opposing forces start
working in you. The love interest gives you an insight to help
you fall apart. That which is going to fall apart is
not really you; it is just the structure around you. It
is your mind, your ego, your personality. The love interest
hammers on the personality so that you can be released
from it; the personality is the prison. The love tries
to hammer from everywhere, to find loop-holes through
which it can enter you and destroy the personality. But
you go on holding it.
Thank you very much Hans, you are saying that the aim of my appearance in his life was arising of true love in him, rising in love instead of falling in love. Does it mean that thanks to our relation he realised what true love is and who he really loves, that he was only in love with me, that he it was not true love what he was feeling for me? I just want to make sure I understand.
In my previous post i said that I think I know why he appeared in my life but maybe i don't, can you tell me?
If you don't mind I'd also like to know if we (me and A) ever met in our previous lives and if so what our relation was then?
Thanks a lot for all the answers.
Does it mean that he realised that he it was not true love what he was feeling for me? Yes.
In my previous post i said that I think I know why he appeared in my life but maybe i don't, can you tell me? Because others follow you like fish on a line. The tide turns as he brings order from the chaos.
I'd also like to know if we (me and A) ever met in our previous lives: yes, certainly.
and if so what our relation was then? you travelled easily with economy and simplicity, being trading partners.
I remember an old story of a college professor named
A2 lived in Flat Land. Everything in Flat Land had
just two dimensions, height and breadth. Nothing had
depth. If a friend turned sideways, you couldn't see
him. People lived in flat houses, ate flat meals, drank
flat cokes, thought flat thoughts, and lived flat
A2 taught higher mathematics at the university. One
night, he threw a party for some of his friends.
Upstairs his precocious little son, Pentagon, tried to
sleep. As he tossed on his bed, he began to dream. He
dreamt a dream no one had dreamt before. Suddenly,
Pentagon dreamt that everything had not only height and
breadth, but depth! Houses and trees and especially
girls looked so different. He felt different. Life took
on a whole new scope. This new dimension affected the
way people thought and acted. Then, as unexpectedly as
it had started, the dream ended.
Pentagon couldn't keep a dream like that locked up
inside himself. His bare feet hit the floor and carried
him downstairs right into the middle of his father's
party. There he stood in his rumpled pajamas pouring
out a dream of an unheard-of dimension of life.
Pentagon tried to explain what depth looked like and
felt like. People didn't have to go on living flat
little lives and thinking flat little thoughts. They
could sink their roots down into a whole new dimension
A2 couldn't hide his embarrassment. Nor could he shut
Pentagon up. The party ended in a shambles. Far into
the night A2 tried to reason with his son, but Pentagon
stamped his foot and kept saying that another dimension
of life existed.
The next morning, Pentagon talked to anybody who
would listen. People thought the poor boy had lost
touch with reality. So for the sake of his sanity and
theirs, they locked him up .