Hi Hans (^_^)-b It's been a while..



  • LittlemissLove,

    So like friends or not? Neither nor.

    Unite your eyes with your heart.



  • :/..i just want to get over him if i can't be with him

    1 question?why his friend was acting kind of weird to me..

    I don't know ,what I feel anymore,my heart still wants him,but my head says no.



  • LittlemissLove,

    why his friend was acting kind of weird to me: because he is intellectually interested.

    Whenever truth arrives it is self-luminous. It is the

    untruth that needs proofs, remember. It is the doubt

    inside you that collects proofs. Your statement is not

    a statement which can stand on its own; it needs props.



  • aha.ok

    but ,why he thinks that I hate him πŸ˜•

    yeah ,I hope i will find a truth



  • LittlemissLove,

    why he thinks that I hate him: because he believes that he is unable to stand up the outside, if he allows his innermost feelings to speak to him.

    So, even if you feel guilty, go with the flow.

    Ignore the guilt. Let the guilt be there; in spite of

    it, go with the flow! The more you go with the flow,

    the more you will become able to catch yourself and

    avoid getting caught into the trap of guilt you will be

    able to catch yourself in time. You will be able to

    slip out of that guilt prison.



  • so what kind of feelings he has for me?

    Yeah ,i feel guilty ,because I will like a hurt someone.



  • LittlemissLove,

    so what kind of feelings he has for me? delaying and deferring, hanging back and hesitating.

    This feeling of guilt is also part of the egoistic mind; it is nothing spiritual. Religions have been exploiting it, but it has nothing to do with spirituality. It simply says that you could have done otherwise. It is an ego feeling; as if you are not helpless, as if you were in control, as if it were your decision that you do this, as if it were in your hands not to do this and to do otherwise.



  • aha.why he hesistate and delay?

    is he going to try to change our relationship maybe?like...try to be friends?

    because we aren't really friends right now..so maybe change that ,but i'm not sure if is good idea

    yeah guilt is part of our conscience i guess.



  • LittlemissLove,

    aha.why he hesistate and delay? because only to the outside he appears to be flowing.

    is he going to try to change our relationship maybe? no.

    like...try to be friends? no.

    When you start feeling a certain sureness arising --

    good, enjoy that too. If it again melts and things

    become unsure, enjoy that too. Move with life, with no

    prejudice, with no idea of your own. Give total freedom

    to life then life gives total freedom to you -- it is

    always in proportion. If you hanker for security,

    certainty, sureness, it is coming out of fear. And fear

    kills freedom! Why does the mind hanker so much to be

    sure? -- because with sureness, certainty, there seems

    to be security. One knows where one is -- but does one

    really know? And what is the need to know? How can one

    ever know?



  • Dear Hans!

    How are you? I hope you are doing wonderful! Me....loving life as usual but a little bit in distress. You know I do take your words and advice to the heart, and I appreciate it greatly. But something is going wrong...and my gut keeps pounding when I think about the situation I am. Hans, I honestly feel that ths Scorpio whose name begins with a J is hiding something, the physical signs are all there. Believe me I tried not to jump to conclusions and give him the benefit of the doubt, but I cannot help but come to the conclusion that he is involved with someone else, and I don't mean just involved, I mean like....wedding bells I'm MARRIED involved. Call me crazy...but it happens more than people like to admit. He barely talks about himself or his family or past relationships..and I find it odd to be his age and to have been never married nor have children. Like I said, call me crazy, but as I gather all the facts it just keeps pointing to that. I would dive in furthur but would rather not...He says he's not when I asked, so of course there is no way of knowing without a background check. I guess what I am asking is if I am right? Is he "seriously" involved? Or is he seperated from someone? Or is he telling the truth? Is there something he is hiding and if so why? I am not sure if you can answer things, any words of advice would help. I am a good person and I am young, I just do not want to cause any problems or get hurt or hurt another. 😞 ahhhh this is soo wonderful sarcastic voice

    Thank you Hans.

    Brianna ❀



  • sigh bump 😞



  • Mestiza,

    I am doing wonderful!

    I do take your words and advice to the heart, and I appreciate it greatly: make a journey to someone you love.

    Hans, I honestly feel that ths Scorpio whose name begins with a J is hiding something: I am sorry, but being a Scorpio means hiding something and doubting others because they could hide something.

    what I am asking is if I am right? no.

    Is he "seriously" involved? no.

    Or is he seperated from someone? No.

    Or is he telling the truth? No.

    Is there something he is hiding and if so why? No.

    any words of advice would help: be playful living in the here and now.

    Brianna, but if you feel that there is a desire arising in you

    to help, to be compassionate, to hold somebody's hand,

    to make a boat and take people to the further shore,

    then don't be worried about the troubles. The troubles

    ARE there, but the world needs some people who can show

    the way, and only those who know can show the way. Even

    for them it is difficult. And the world is in immense

    need because it is being led by stupid people. It is

    being guided by politicians and priests, all kinds of

    people who don't know what they are doing. That's why

    it is always in such chaos.



  • because only to the outside he appears to be flowing.how about inside?

    is he going to try to change our relationship maybe? no.

    like...try to be friends? no.

    ok,i guess thah we are not going to be friends.

    tnx.:)



  • LittlemissLove,

    because only to the outside he appears to be flowing.how about inside? inside he is dammed up, because he is hurt and therefore aggressive.

    People always choose a dead person to trust in

    because there is less fear.



  • aha.ok

    why is he hurt?

    People always choose a dead person to trust in

    because there is less fear.

    yeah ,i agree.what this means in my case?:/



  • LittlemissLove,

    why is he hurt? because he wants to dominate others with his will power.

    what this means in my case? you are identified with security and money.

    So, please, be kind to your man. Let him enjoy a

    few moments; let him relax -- let him fall asleep.

    Nothing is wrong in it.



  • what this means in my case? you are identified with security and money.

    yeah,it seems ...:/

    So, please, be kind to your man. Let him enjoy a

    few moments; let him relax -- let him fall asleep.

    Nothing is wrong in it.

    who is my man?what this means to me?tnx.!



  • LittlemissLove,

    who is my man? who is keeping distance, being shy and as mistrustful as you are.

    what this means to me? that you are without any trust.

    A gum-chewing American and a Frenchman are sitting

    together in a restaurant. The American feels really

    proud to be an American, so he starts a conversation.

    He asks the Frenchman, "When you eat bread, do you eat

    all of it?"

    "Of course," says the Frenchman.

    "Well," says the American, "We only eat the soft part

    of it; the rest we collect in containers, take to a

    factory and put through a mill. What comes out are

    little breads that we sell in France.

    "And what about steaks?" he continues. "Do you eat

    all parts of them?"

    "Yes, we do," answers the Frenchman.

    "Oh, we don't!" says the American. "We only eat the

    meaty part of the steak; the greasy part we collect in

    containers, take to a factory, put through a mill, and

    what comes out are little steaks that we sell in

    France."

    Now the Frenchman gets really upset. He asks, "So

    what do Americans do with their used condoms?"

    "Of course we throw them away," says the American.

    The Frenchman replies, "Ha! We collect them all in

    containers, take them to a factory and put them through

    a mill. What comes out is chewing gum that we sell in

    America!"

    So don't feel bad about being a student; enjoy it.

    But don't chew American chewing gum. That is the most

    idiotic act in the whole world. And soon you will

    grow... just avoid chewing gum. That chewing gum goes

    into the head and makes all kinds of ideas,

    interpretations, interferences, ideologies. Just avoid

    it... and slip back down towards the heart.



  • Hey Hans,

    I would really appreciate a reading from you if you could? REALLY need guidance right now, was close to giving up a few days ago. =/

    My DOB 3 september 1989

    initials LG

    Would just like to know what is happening right now and what will be happening in the future =(

    Thank you so much!



  • mintgirl321,

    I would really appreciate a reading from you if you could? Go the way into the unknown, not listening to your mind which is clinging to the known.

    REALLY need guidance right now: Look at all your possibilities. The dark waters of this pit will rise no higher. Your greatest danger now lies in panic. Keep your wits and you will escape.

    My DOB 3 september 1989: you will be dealing with some very creative and youthful energies. You are very mentally creative and as such bestow a certain amount of success. This would apply especially if you would be involved in mental or communications-related occupations. You are always romantic, creative, persuasive, and youthful, but also can be irresponsible, crafty or downright dishonest.

    Would just like to know what is happening right now: you are keeping distance due to lack of trust.

    and what will be happening in the future: utter confusion, as long as you are identified with your mind. Correcting your error, you tread dangerously close to dishonor. Yet sparing yourself from blame brings good fortune in the end.

    Then choose some meditation which has no physical

    strain in it. For example, nadabrahma will be perfectly

    good.

    Nadabrahma meditation lasts for one hour and has three stages. It is a sitting method, in which humming and hand movements create an inner balance, a harmony between mind and body. Suitable for any time of the day, have an empty stomach and remain inactive for at least fifteen minutes afterwards.

    β€œSo in Nadabrahma, remember this: let the body and mind be totally together, but remember that you have to become a witness. Get out of them, easily, slowly, from the back door, with no fight, with no struggle.” Osho

    First Stage: 30 minutes

    Sit in a relaxed position with eyes closed. With lips together, start humming, loud enough so that if you are doing it with others, you can be heard by them. This will create a vibration in your body. You can visualize a hollow tube or vessel filled only with the vibrations of the humming. A point will come when the humming continues by itself and you become the listener. There is no special breathing, and you can alter the pitch, and move your body smoothly and slowly, if you feel to.

    Second Stage: 15 minutes

    This stage is divided into two segments, of seven and a half minutes each. For the first part, move the hands, palms upwards, in an outward, circular motion. Starting at the navel, both hands move forward and then divide to make two large circles mirroring each other left and right. The movement should be so slow that at times there will appear to be no movement at all. Feel that you are giving energy outwards to the universe. After seven and a half minutes, the music will change and you turn your hands palm downwards, and start moving them in the opposite direction. Now the hands will come together towards the navel and divide outwards towards the side of the body. Feel that you are taking energy in. As in the first stage, don’t inhibit any soft, slow movements of the rest of your body.

    Third Stage: 15 minutes

    Sit absolutely quiet and still.


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