Hi Hans (^_^)-b It's been a while..



  • LittlemissLove,

    Do you agree? No.

    You are stuck somewhere. Why not become alive? Why put it in your friend and make her alive? Why go THAT far?



  • You are stuck somewhere. Why not become alive? Why put it in your friend and make her alive? Why go THAT far?

    Yes,i'm stuck..I don't konow how.What should I do?

    SO Is it better for me to live alone?

    Will I live with her and one other girl or not?

    or just with her?

    Why that other girl dosen't want to live with both of us?

    How do you see outcome of this situation?

    I'm so confused..



  • LittlemissLove,

    What should I do? You should fight.

    SO Is it better for me to live alone? No.

    Will I live with her and one other girl or not? First with one other girl, then with her.

    or just with her? no.

    Why that other girl dosen't want to live with both of us? Because she is depressed.

    How do you see outcome of this situation? You will be ashamed.

    Psychiatrists never go mad -- not because they are

    immune to it, but they are so much concerned with other

    people's madness, curing, helping, that they forget

    completely that they also can go mad.



  • What should I do? You should fight.-

    But how? ๐Ÿ˜ž

    Will I live with her and one other girl or not? First with one other girl, then with her.

    That's strange...I hope we that we will al live together..

    Why that other girl dosen't want to live with both of us? Because she is depressed.

    Yeah,it's very possible

    How do you see outcome of this situation? You will be ashamed.

    why??

    what should i do to prevent that?

    Psychiatrists never go mad -- not because they are

    immune to it, but they are so much concerned with other

    people's madness, curing, helping, that they forget

    completely that they also can go mad.

    what' this story means to me....:/

    thanks on your answers



  • LittlemissLove,

    But how? By emancipating yourself from all emotional attachments.

    why?? because you are suppressing your potential.

    what should i do to prevent that? you should wait remaining in your aloneness.

    what' this story means to me: fighting.

    Close the doors and windows of the room and you are

    closing doors to life and to the sun and to the air.

    Soon you will be living in stale air, and nobody else

    is responsible except you. Those windows are there to

    be opened! These senses are our windows, this body is

    our house; we have to open all these windows.



  • ahaa,so i need to be alone?

    am I to attached to my friend?

    I think i will be living with one another friend .she is leo.Is she better for me than her(pieces)?

    will our living be okay?

    huh..but i feel alone sometimes...and don't know how to close the doors



  • LittlemissLove,

    ahaa,so i need to be alone? yes.

    am I to attached to my friend? yes, certainly!

    Is she better for me than her(pieces)? Yes.

    will our living be okay? no.

    You will be feeling more and more every day.

    This feeling is going to drown you completely. So don't

    be a miser. Feel as much as it comes. Don't hold

    it, don't close your doors on it, because sometimes

    fear arises. When the feeling comes too much one starts

    feeling 'I will not be able to control it so I'd better

    close the doors.' Then one shuts oneself off. That is

    very dangerous. That's how people have become almost

    dead, afraid of anything that can possess them... and

    feelings do possess.



  • Hanswolfgang,

    Your advice is very enlightening. I was born on 24th September 1964 at 9.00am. I have survived a very traumatic marriage break up and it has taken alot to get to where I am now yet the hurt and pain caused by this man still invades my life every now and again (the last few days) and I once again feel I am drowning. He cheated on me and when I told him to leave he just coldly walked out of one family straight to another, no apologies no nothing. Will this ever get easier for me?

    Geraldine



  • am I to attached to my friend? yes, certainly!

    Is she better for me than her(pieces)? Yes

    Ok,than it good.Because I amo going to live with my friend leo ,and one another girl.(probably) ๐Ÿ™‚

    will our living be okay? no.

    why not?what will be the problem?how to prevent that?I want that to be alright. ๐Ÿ˜•

    That's how people have become almost

    dead, afraid of anything that can possess them... and

    feelings do possess. .

    What feeling possses me ,...lonliness?



  • LittlemissLove,

    why not? because of relocation.

    what will be the problem? being lovers.

    how to prevent that? defend your own space against all expectations and intrusions.

    What feeling possses me: Hope

    lonliness? Yes, certainly.

    And donยดt care whether they invite you or not.



  • groovyger,

    I was born on 24th September 1964 at 9.00am: This means mental power, the ability to focus your mind on a goal or objective and see it through to a successful conclusion. This power is usually applied to some mental or educational task. It bestows the power to overcome all problems by focusing your thoughts and it usually occurs when there is something that you need to learn or accomplish on the mental level. You have the opportunity to fix your mind on certain goals and objectives. It is focus of the mind. Out of that focus and concentration, success is assured.

    Will this ever get easier for me? No

    Geraldine, every division is going to create misery in you,

    every division will mean that half of your being is

    fighting with the other half. And if you are fighting

    within yourself, how can you be at ease?



  • why not? because of relocation.-That something I can' change..

    how to prevent that? defend your own space against all expectations and intrusions.Ok,it's hard but i can try,,

    What feeling possses me: Hope .Yeah,i can't help myself.,and I 'm so lonley

    And donยดt care whether they invite you or not. they-you mean my friends?

    Ok,thank you on your answers...

    ๐Ÿ™‚

    I have one more question--I'm going on little trip?How it will pass?



  • Hans,

    Thank you for the reading. To think that this will never get easier, that all I have to look forward to is more pain and hurt is quite horrible. My life is filled with all of this plus trying to help my boys through the break up also while he (husband) is off living another life as if the one he left behind never existed. I honestly dont feel I can cope much longer, maybe there is only one way out for me.

    Thank you again



  • LittlemissLove,

    they-you mean my friends? no.

    I'm going on little trip? No.

    How it will pass? By changing you.

    Possessiveness, the attitude to possess, has killed

    the capacity to love. Don't think in terms of

    possession. Rather, think in terms of being possessed.

    That is what surrender means -- being possessed: you

    allow yourself to be possessed by something greater

    than you. Then you will not be in control. Then a

    greater force will take you. Then the direction will

    not be yours. Then you cannot choose the goal. Then the

    future is unknown; you cannot be secure now. Moving

    with a greater force than yourself, you are insecure,

    afraid.



  • groovyger,

    live more moment-to-moment and less plan-filled.

    This will empty your mind and cleanse your being.



  • hey hans..i was in that town i'm going to move..and it seems i will be living with both friends and we found a place to live..

    and I dreamed again about him?Why?

    ,,,i can't get over him ,when i dream every night ๐Ÿ˜ž

    will i see him before i leave town?

    what he thinks of me right now'?

    what would he said if i call him ?

    ๐Ÿ˜ž i



  • LittlemissLove,

    and I dreamed again about him? no.

    Why? Because you still want him to dominate him.

    will i see him before i leave town? no.

    what he thinks of me right now'? as an emotional cold beggar, going after him.

    what would he said if i call him ? too many people are clinging to me because of my beauty.

    But don't be serious, just be playful. In playfulness

    you are relaxed, and in relaxation, utter relaxation,

    you will find yourself, so why bother

    about teachings? When you can find

    yourself, then why bother about dead scriptures?



  • Why? Because you still want him to dominate him. Intersting.

    will i see him before i leave town? no. ๐Ÿ˜ž I wanted to see him one more time.

    what he thinks of me right now'? as an emotional cold beggar, going after him. O,that's horrible.

    what would he said if i call him ? too many people are clinging to me because of my beauty.

    It possible ,he is very handsome.

    Thanks on advice, i forgot to be playful sometimes i'm depressed

    So ,I have to forget him.

    I wonder if I ever be in contact with him?just like friend maybe..?

    But will I meet someone new soon ?



  • LittlemissLove,

    I wonder if I ever be in contact with him? No.

    just like friend maybe..? yes, certainly.

    But will I meet someone new soon ? No.

    Whenever you feel to have protection,

    simply go into your ego. Sometimes one needs

    rest, and sometimes the ego is also useful. It can

    be put to a thousand and one uses. The ego can be used

    if you know that you are not the ego. Then the ego

    cannot use you, you can use it.



  • wonder if I ever be in contact with him? No.

    just like friend maybe..? yes, certainly.

    So like friends or not?

    Yeah,i could use it but...


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