Hi Hans (^_^)-b It's been a while..



  • Wait for wisdom and clarity before exacting justice, then let no protest sway you. Find satisfaction in small gains. Move constantly forward. Watch, listen, study, contemplate, then step lightly but decisively on.

    Ok.thanks i agree wit that. 🙂

    What dreams try to tell me? That there is a conflict between your heart and your mind.

    O,this is so true.heh, .

    How he feels/thinks about me right now?

    one other question?Will I go to study to antoher town?

    and my friend too?are we going to stay friend for a long time ?:)



  • nency,

    How he feels/thinks about me right now? Being able to dominate you with his will power.

    one other question? subjecting and adoring.

    Will I go to study to antoher town? No.

    and my friend too? yes.

    are we going to stay friend for a long time ? no.

    The moment comparison drops from your mind, all

    jealousy disappears. Suddenly you find yourself

    strangely peaceful, contented, strangely respectful

    towards yourself, grateful to existence for whatever it

    has given to you. And it has given you so much, and

    without charging you anything. It has given you life --

    which you cannot purchase. No money can purchase it.



  • Being able to dominate you with his will power.

    Hm.I don't like this:/

    are we going to stay friend for a long time ?no

    I get sad when I read this ,i want to stay friend with her.

    This text is really beautiful.

    thank you:)



  • nency,

    in existence,

    nothing is ever completed. Only in novels, stories

    begin and end. In life there is no beginning and there

    is no end. Abruptly things start and abruptly things

    finish. There is no preface, there is no appendix,

    there are no footnotes, nothing. It is always in the

    middle that the story begins.

    Life is really hilarious. Just you have to know how to

    love it. You have only this moment, so you can

    pour all your energies into it.



  • Yes 🙂 thank you



  • nency,

    when the same kind of energies meet, the meeting

    cannot be very deep. These are the problems. I am not

    condemning it at all but if somebody wants to know

    about it then the problems are there.



  • So what should I do right now about that?



  • nency,

    So what should I do right now about that? Love being centered.

    ... The problem is not really in the relationship, it

    is in the related persons, and reflected in the

    relationship. For example if you are an egoistic

    person, and you are sitting alone, there is no problem.

    How can you create a problem? You need the other to

    create it. Then somebody passes by you. He may not pay

    any attention to you, may neglect you, but now you are

    angry. He has annoyed you, hurt you, irritated you.



  • I think I understand,what you want to say.

    I'm so tired of everything:/ ,...Trying to find sense but I can't.



  • nency,

    somebody asked Buddha, "When you are gone and you

    will never be coming into the body again, what will

    happen to you?"

    And he said, "I will disappear into existence. If you

    taste existence, you will taste me."

    And yes, that is true: if you taste existence you

    will taste all the Buddhas....



  • Hello Hans! ^_^

    Logging in to hear about life on your end! Things have been going really well! - I have submerged myself in my work while taking the time to enjoy whats around - I've learned a lot about myself and how my mind truly works - it has been a wonderful learning experience. Im focused on my success while making sure I pace myself correctly to take the right steps. I havent been this happy in a long time - the freedom is sometimes almost overwhelming and I love every moment for the blessing that it is.

    There is an aries that is in a flux - what is the source of her confussion?

    Myself - I have opened my heart to the blessings and beauty of the world - but have closed it to passion and affection - will it remain this way?

    Will I be taking a cruise next year?

    Also, any advice that you may have ^_^

    I am becoming more and more connected with my first loves - art and music - I am working on both fronts tremendously! Pour my emotions into words and illustrating my dreams on paper - it's gives me a wonderful source of comfort.

    Have you seen any good movies lately?

    Just checking in and catching up!

    Love and Blessings

    Knaughty



  • Hi DJKAMEO,

    good to hear such wonderful news from you.

    There is an aries that is in a flux - what is the source of her confussion? Being not satisfied.

    Myself - I have opened my heart to the blessings and beauty of the world - but have closed it to passion and affection - will it remain this way? Yes.

    Will I be taking a cruise next year? No.

    Also, any advice that you may have ^_^: Watch out for your desires. Let them not cloud your vision of reality.

    Have you seen any good movies lately? Yes, the last good movies I saw were "Mon oncle" and "Playtime" by Jacques Tati. But these are no new films, in the opposite. The last good new film I saw in the cinema was "Whatever works" by Woody Allen.

    What is the meaning of rebellion? It means a

    revolution of values. Certainly the values of life are

    wrong; otherwise why should there be so much

    disturbance, meaninglessness and confusion in the life

    of man? This ugliness, this violence, this jealousy and

    irreligiousness, are they all without any reason? No,

    the values of life are wrong and these are its natural

    outcome. The values of life will have to be changed.

    Man needs new values. And for that, preparation for a

    great rebellion is necessary.



  • can you give me an advice?



  • should I go with my friend to live or not?



  • I saw "Whatever Works" - I love Woody Allen - his dark and sarcastic humor is the best! So will my heart ever open back up for passion and affection or will it forever remain this way? And my desires - you told me not to let them cloud my reality - does this mean that my desires arent likely to happen? or does it mean I should pay close attention to the steps I need to take in order to obtain them.

    Learning to live by myself has been truly an experience - One that I will always hold with me... I remember you told me that I would run into someone who would give me sight and freedom of movement - could you explain a little more in specifics? As well you said that I should take a trip - any where a ship goes - could you offer a little more light on that.

    Other than that - Its been a good day - triple degree weather - but I enjoy the heat! People are still celebrating spain's victory lol

    Enjoy the day!

    Love and Blessing



  • LittlemissLove,

    can you give me an advice? Go for that what you want.

    should I go with my friend to live or not? yes, you should go with your friend to live although it would be better if you did it not.

    The society is trying to divert his natural energies.

    They start telling him, "Unless you have a big car, a big

    house, much money in the bank, you are a failure." He

    starts running after big things. He may not need a big

    house. In fact a smaller house may be far more

    beautiful because it can be kept more clean, and his

    needs are not that much that he should have a big house

    of many, many rooms. But the idea has been implanted in

    his mind that "Unless you have a big house, very

    imposing, you are a failure." Now the big house becomes

    his symbol of fulfillment, money in the bank becomes

    his symbol of fulfillment -- but only symbols, empty.

    Deep down he is unfulfilled, deep down he is hankering.

    The deep consciousness is continuously telling him, "Be

    natural, let your natural energies flow in a natural,

    spontaneous way."



  • Thank you DJKAMEO,

    I do 😉

    So will my heart ever open back up for passion and affection or will it forever remain this way? Neither nor.

    And my desires - you told me not to let them cloud my reality - does this mean that my desires arent likely to happen? No.

    or does it mean I should pay close attention to the steps I need to take in order to obtain them: yes.

    could you explain a little more in specifics? it has something to do with that below, you taking a trip by ship.

    As well you said that I should take a trip - any where a ship goes - could you offer a little more light on that: it has something to do with that above: you are seeking for love.

    Fenton's wife was going to have a baby and he could

    not get a doctor. The snow outside was eight feet deep,

    the telephone lines were down, and it was still

    snowing. He decided to go out and look for an M.D. He

    fought his way through the storm and saw a light which

    turned out to be a bar. He went in and began drinking

    heavily.

    "What's the matter?" said Hymowitz, sitting on a nearby

    stool.

    "My wife is going to have a baby," cried Fenton, "and I

    can't find a doctor...."

    "I can help you," said the Jewish man.

    "Are you a doctor?"

    "I am a veterinarian. But you give me your address. I

    will go and get my satchel, and I will come over and do

    the job for you."

    Fenton rushed home and soon Hymowitz arrived carrying

    his satchel. "Now don't worry about a thing," he said.

    "Get blankets and plenty of hot water." He went into

    the bedroom.

    Twenty minutes later, Hymowitz came out, sweat

    pouring from his brow and said, "You got a hammer?"

    "A hammer!" roared Fenton. "What do you want it for?"

    "Don't ask no questions, get me a hammer."

    Fenton brought him the tool and Hymowitz said, "Don't

    worry about nothing. Get plenty of hot water, lots of

    blankets!" He ran back into the bedroom.

    Thirty minutes later he came out, stripped to the

    waist, perspiration pouring from his body. He said,

    "Hey, you got a chisel?"

    "My God!" screamed Fenton. "First you want a hammer,

    now it's a chisel. What are you doing to my wife?"

    "What do you mean, your wife? First I gotta open the

    satchel!"

    The real work has not yet started -- even the satchel

    is not opened! And that's how your life is: you are

    born, but the real work has not yet started.

    My function here is to supply you with hammers and

    chisels and a few vets too . The

    satchel has to be opened first. And it is hard work

    because you have learned how to remain closed; that has

    become your way of life. And to be open seems to be

    just impossible.



  • It problem,that i'm unsure what I want.

    I want be here with my family,but than I must give up from college i want.

    But if i live with my friend ,that will be good for change,but will be huge mess in my head.

    So I am not sure ,what is best for me?Stay or go?

    ''yes, you should go with your friend to live although it would be better if you did it not.''

    why not?

    Yes,the story is so true.It's story of modern man.



  • LittlemissLove,

    So I am not sure ,what is best for me? Your family is best for you, but it is good to live with your friend.

    Stay or go? Neither nor.

    ''yes, you should go with your friend to live although it would be better if you did it not.''

    why not? because he dominates you.

    You cannot make a goal, because if you make a goal

    you will be making it out of your own delusions. It

    will be part of a dream and hence will be very

    difficult to arrive at. In fact it is impossible to

    arrive at -- it is a dream. You can go on and on, but

    the dream will go on receding like the horizon; you

    will never reach it. Hence, it will take infinite time

    and yet you will be as far away as ever.



  • OK,thanks .I decided to go to antoher town with my friend.

    Yes she is kind of dominate ,but she is good person.:)

    I hope it will be good change for me.Do you agree?':)


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