Who, What, When, Where, Which, Why?
Hi Captain - thanks Yep - he's gonna have to sell the condo and he's not gonna like it. or sell the house I am living in and buy something smaller that I can afford. And he's not gonna like it.
In fact moving back in with me to help me pay off the bills is the closest I am going to get to
a "biy I really screwed up and now I have to fix it" from him. He'll just say he's helping me pay off the debt that "I" ran up. The faster the debts are paid off - the sooner he gets to leave - so he has some incentive at least.
If I am the Starship that means I am going to get pretty dinged up going through all those asteroid fields and having Kilngons fire on me. That might wind up being one of my shorter lives. (shudder)
Thanks Captain, I guess my life and relationship are all one big conflict at the moment anyway, I hope we will see eye to eye again sometime soon. Can I ask you one more question - what kind of effect will a move have on my/our lives? I am hoping it will improve things but I am not sure. That is why I am asking this question. Maybe I should stay and fight.
I'm planning to resign by June and work out of the country by then. What Companies and field do i suit best and become successful? Thank you
I do not plan on rushing anything, so thank you for validating that. Also, thank you for the tidbit about the loser Taurus. May he rot.
Thank you again. At first I didn't know what to make of the answer.....
"Lostandfound7, you are worried about repeating past mistakes in love. But if you can identify where you went wrong - examine what differences there were between what you wanted from a relationship and what you actually got - you can break out of the cycle."
.....because my life, until just a few years ago, had very little to do with what I wanted. It was all about what other people wanted or what just happened to show up. So much so, that even I didn't know what I wanted...didn't even think about it most of the time.
Now I know what to make of your answer. The difference between what I wanted and what I actually got is this....I accepted what was there instead of even thinking about what I wanted or needed and so my needs did not get met. So, I gave much and got little....in retrospect, that should not be surpresing, huh! [ :`/ tearing up here...whew]
I have not been purposeful at all in my choices in love and life. I'm going to make a list of what I want...(on paper, not stone, but deffinately in ink, not pencil. LOL). I need to stop driving around without a map or even a destination in mind, metaphoricly speaking. Thank you very much for helping me see this and "verbalize" the thoughts so they stick and make sense. Bless you (times a million) for your selfless efforts.
Peace and Be Well,
Sorry Captain, Addicted to Riches, I would love to go to Vegas! Funny Story.
Hi Captain a friend of minds said she had a dream of me winning a HUGE JACKPOT! So my question was when? Thanks!
1chellee, when he finds the time.
Paddifluff, you will take your problems with you wherever you move.
Khatie, travel and hospitality.
Poetc555, the dream was not a prophecy, more about what your friend hopes for you and herself.
that sounds about right thanx
Who will love me to the moon and back three years from now - what is his name? Will we be together forever?
Will we have children together? How many? lol...give me hope :0) I sound like a teenager!
Captain, you are such a giver. I wish you knew just how much I love reading your responses and encouragements to others. I know a few people in my life who really make a difference to others and you are definitely one of them. You help settle minds and hearts and that is an amazing gift!
Appreciate the response. Is it a good decision for me to make, resigning in my current employer and risk looking for a job abroad? How about trying the airline industry?
Please forgive me Captain
im trying to find peace i need
in my life
I've spent the last year becoming myself again, finding happiness in my life after the end of a long relationship, being alone and learning to love myself, happy with just being. Now I think I am ready to share again. What is in my romatic future?
Hello and Blessings to all.
ANGEL HUGS and FLOWER PETALS with your FAVOURITE FRAGANCE.
Thanks Juliana! Ok Captain, I will try again. When will I reach my inner self?
I have another one I've been trying to figure out:
What is driving my oldest daughter's feelings of insecurity as in How can I help her deal with them?
Thanks a million times more than i can express