Capricorn Male



  • Thunder>>sometimes i will go back and reread all your threads and some real nuggets of truth in them.hope you respond this post xcrab-girl????..ps. love you very much...

    Sandran712>>I don't mind you being a w-is-e- as-s...LOL...I was just getting mad that I do have a serious side too.I can be funny and serious.But. to me.... it wasn't fair to just hear the playful stuff but, hardly hearing the sensible stuff.Does this make sense?



  • thanks for posting!must be tough for you?i mean your son,can't talk about things like other people's children.but he can still communicate thru other means?



  • Ihave an older brother and he has Cognitive disorder of some kind-his perception of reality is so hard to figure out .sometimes he goes ballistic and wants to fight and he always talks a bout suicide,but i talk to him try to listen to him when he wants to talk,and let him have his wayi was attacked by him several times,but i get angry at him,and turn into a real jerk sometimes .he is also a type 2 diabetic refuses to take his meds and i try to get some encouragement sometimes he snaps out of it,and we used to go for walks,and then boom he starts wanting to argue in public and fight with me its like a jekyll&hide thing tried to talk to his doctor,but his doctor return my phone calls he's just being an idiot with his pratice. sometimes he'll try to provoke other people to argue with him total strangers.back in 08 i was werking out of town and his mind snapped from diabetes attack,that left him partially blindand in a coma for like 2 weeks the doctors told him to watch his diet,and not to drink alcohol,the last i seen of him he was still ignoring those orders of the doctors in the hospital.i love my brother when he's in a proper frame of mind he likes to help others in need,but those times are fewand far between however.



  • all you have to do sandran is post a seroius question,and i will give you an honest answer fom the heart i owe you that much i've never thought to see it from that point of view you posted i mean humor is great and all but you are so right about being serious,or last least show some true concern you know when i seen your first posting this morning i was half awake,and thought oh no!not again!but then i went and reread your post thats when i realized i'm an idiot...im useless..never thought to think first..i tell you now that i often go over your posts and then i start to wish you were still there to talk to.i mean i miss you when you r not around even tho i can chat to bluecat it is just not on the same level as you&i in thatb respect.



  • yes it does make sense ,and i do apologize for not showing another part of myself to you please accept my apology,i mean you are 1 tough cookie...it is this damn cap thing hide behind the humor never let my true self show,never let anyone take a peak at the inside part of me...until now until i ran into you on this forum i'm glad i did meet you here and yes is very true i do think of you alot even when i fall asleep and have some dreams about you!



  • but he can still communicate thru other means?

    Sandran712>>A board with pictures like a baby would look at.And body language.The rest I know is through intuition.I know what he wants through feelings.Which is why I get upset when people use the intuition as a game.I have to live like that.It is exhausting sometimes.



  • Thunder>>his doctor return my phone calls he's just being an idiot with his pratice.

    Sandran712>>A doctor will not break that patient confidentiality.I have a problem all the time.I had to get guardianship.Because Doctor's won't tell me about my son.He is legal age and doesn't have the mentality of a 24 year old.There is a thing called a HIPPA law.Cannot release medical information without patient consent.It's a pain for the special needs parent



  • Thunder>>the last i seen of him he was still ignoring those orders of the doctors in the hospital.i love my brother when he's in a proper frame of mind he likes to help others in need,but those times are fewand far between however.

    Sandran712>>Unfortunately it's hard to help a person like this.I had behavior specialists for my son.You would think if these problems left your brother in a coma he would learn from it.



  • Thunder>>i miss you when you r not around even tho i can chat to bluecat it is just not on the same level as you&i in thatb respect.

    Sandran712>>Every Cancer is different.We have similiar traits.Some show more psychic abilities.I think Blue Cat said she has Scorpio and Leo in her chart.As I have a Pisces Moon and a Cancer Rising.



  • sometimes i can pickup things small things like when someone is going to make a right turn with out turning etc...but at the other times its like you can just tell when some is hurting they try masked with humor thats just not their but you know they are trying hide that hurt somehow?.the thing about my brothers doctor is that when i scheduled appointments for him he did not want to have me their because maybe i asked a lot of questions.my brother has a speech problem as well i think thats part of the problem with ihm he just don't trust anyone at all.but he has pschic abilities as well he can pick up very strongly on negative emiotions around him and yet other times he can predict the out come of a hockey game to a t he can also tell when some people die within a couple of days he often been a told me things like when 9/11 happen he felt real sadness all that morning,couldn't sleep the night before he felt like alot of people were going to die in a big city some were going to fsat,some agonizing slow deaths.i don't how he can deal with but i guess thats why he is like he is very sad actually.



  • i guess it is when you have to use it(intuition)24 hours adayand then people treat like a game for their selfish desires,and sometimes for stupid purposes you seemed to be abit withdrawn today?well g'night talk to soon



  • well crab girl! i have a few things to share with you before i call it a night myself.i remember back in 1990 in april like now i had just gotten some time away from school as you may know,or not but i think i posted this on my original thread that i had committed myself to adult ed for 3.5 years any ways i was going on easter break to see my folks;so i was preparing to leave and everything on the day of departure i was sittin on the bus for a 5 hour trip up north to see my mom&dad while i was on the bus the entire trip i had this gut feeling some thing was very wrong with my dad i couldn't put my finger on it ,but i knew some how these deep melancholy feelings were intensifying ever stronger as i approached the destination...and i was a bit anxious to see both of them especially my dad because he loved me so much and he approached me the year before this ask if i would look afetr my mom if something happened to him;well when i got there that good friday he wasn't like himself no joking,no small talk just kept sayin he was lookin forward to seein me graduateand do well in college i was suppose to go the followin september into the broadcast journalism(radio arts progam i think it was a three year course).that entire 3 day trip i was actually crying when he would leave the roomi was on the verge of burning out with the 8 hour days of classes and "home work assinments" and plus working 5 to 6 nights a week keep my little apartment,anyways i was becoming an emoitional basket case i drove my dad to the super market the next day the day before easter sunday,and he had aged so much since the christmas before.i practically yelled at him in the damn store i was being sour i wish i had paid attention to my "gut instincts" because deep down i knew i was going to lose him(im tearing up now just sharing this with Sandran712) thanks for letting me talk to you about his...goodnight i hope you will respond back to me tomorrow morning some time....sweet dreams..thunder



  • Hi Sandran712!how you doing?are you still pisse*d? at me?hope not!!!



  • thunder>>Hi Sandran712!how you doing?are you still pisse*d? at me?hope not!!

    Sandran712>>I am not mad.My son is off for all government holidays.I had him all day with me.There was no workshop.And..I had to keep my eyes on him.He's a handful



  • ok.



  • good night from the man/whore!



  • Thunder>>good night from the man/whore!

    Sandran712>>LOL Sorry.I see that more from a Pisces.Not a Cappy.. lol



  • actuallylol.. way back when i was going to school i had friends that went toschool and worked at the same place..my good friend was a sag...and the other is a AQUARIUS the sag guy like my other freind the aquuarius very much .. but the dirty little bugger was engaged to a cancer girl who was a bout to give birth to twin sons for him ,it pissed me off that he was using 2 women i told my buddy the aqurarius chic what this guy was up to.i let the cat out of the bag so to speaki mean she was like 18 and she was my friend and his soon to be wife was areally good friend cancer we got along great i told him if he messed around on his wife i'd want nothing more out of this because it was sleazyand his fiancee was reallly nice to me she is a great cook too.so i did let the cat out of the bag it cost me his friendship and saved the other girl alot of trouble.his wife kicked the crap out of him a few days later ,but they were still together even after what he did to his wife...i now consider him scum!



  • Thunder>>i'd want nothing more out of this because it was sleazyand his fiancee was reallly nice to me she is a great cook too.so i did let the cat out of the bag it cost me his friendship

    Sandran712>>I cannot stand men that act like this either.You may have lost a friend.But, you didn't need that pond scum friend.And I am surprised this Cancer was that naive about her sleazebag.Cancer does show intuition.But. she must have been an air head Kelly Bundy.Because Cancer's care about family.We do what we can to protect it.



  • for some strange reason,she thought he was worth it?...Kelly Bundy good one LOL!!!..so i guess you'll get your stew&biscuit thing going later??? if you do please have a bowl&biscuit for me...LMAO!