Confused in a triangle
I have been divorced for 8 years. My ex and I have continued to have a sexual relationship the entire time. In November I found out that he remarried 4 months after we were divorced. He has been lying to me about it for 8 years. When he finally had to admit it, he said he doesn't love his wife and that they have not slept in the same bed for over a year. He also said that the woman he wants to spend the rest of his life with doesn't want him. He still sees her occasionally.
In my mind I know I need to get away from this relationship, but my heart won't let go. I have thought about telling the other two about the three of us and his lies. I just don't know what to do.
I think you need to find the love you lost for yourself. I think you need to do what is best for you and not what is best for anyone else. Once you find the love for yourself, letting go won't be an issue.