To Those Who Wait



  • I see a lot of questions put to this site about waiting. "How long must I wait - for money, for my friend, for love, for a new job, for a chils, for happiness etc.?"

    Spirit wants me to tell you all not to wait any longer. Go forward - move out of the darkness you are hiding in and into the light. You might say that you are moving on with your life but while you are tied to this desire it is like an anchor, a buildup of stagnant unproductive stressful energy, that weighs you down and keeps you stuck to one side of the lifepath you are on. People and opportunities are passing you by as you stand off the path.

    No one should wait for anyone else to catch up to them because we are all walking our own individual paths and going at our own pace, even when we are 'with' certain people in our lives. When two people are meant to be together, they will be - even if one moved off to the ends of the earth, the other would find them if it is destined to be that way. If someone or something is slowing you down, discard it. In reality, there is nothing that can hold you back but your stuck thinking. You really don't need any person or money or job or whatever in order to accomplish your dreams. All you need is the will to proceed. The only limitation is your mind.

    It's an old saying but still true - "If you love something, let it go. If it comes back to you, it's yours. If it doesn't, it never was." Let go, let go, let go, and let God.



  • Thanks for the nice reminder, Captain. Bright blessings to you! 🙂



  • I just have to give a bizzare example of waiting and running into people. I have a sister in law that I just click with, positive we have know each other much longer that just this life. Her husband died (my husbands brother), we all still keep in touch well, but live in different states. After several yrs of being a widow she came to Las Vegas with a man and was unsure of looking us up, not sure how my husband would react. My husband and I were in a large casino downtown - the MGM, about 30miles from my house and about 200 miles from her house, and we had no idea she was in town, and we hardley ever go downtown. At the casino I stood up from my chair and she walked right into me, and my husband witnessed the entire scene after feeling someone tap him on the shoulder (there was no one there-well, that you could see). We are assuming someone was letting us know it was ok for her to come out and let us all know she was dating, and its hard for us not to run into each other even in a town with several million people, there had to be many thousands just in that one casino. It was very bizzare, and otherworldly....very cool though.



  • Yup, there's a better planner out there than we could ever compete with, someone who sees the WHOLE picture.



  • One of my favorite quotes comes from Alfred D Souza ...

    "For a long time it had seemed to me that life was about to begin. But there was always some obstacle in the way, something to be gotten through first, some unfinished business, time still to be served, a debt to be paid. Then life would begin. At last it dawned on me that these obstacles were my life."



  • So true C aptain.......and im guilty of that,,but the good news is that i began realizing it before it is to late to be a regret of my life!



  • Another great thread Captain. Your posts have come on a day when I really REALLY needed to read them! Thanks. x



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  • Happy to help.



  • This is a very useful post Captain.I have done this as well and come to realize what you said about individual paths ,only recently.Keep on with the good work:)



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  • Thank You Captain,

    as always helpful!!

    love 🙂



  • I'm lovin' what I'm reading! How can a kite fly if you hold on to the tail? Write on, Captain...



  • ... In reality, there is nothing that can hold you back but your stuck thinking. You really don't need any person or money or job or whatever in order to accomplish your dreams. All you need is the will to proceed. The only limitation is your mind.....

    I am so guilty of this. I have spent my last three days laying around wondering what if...what if I can't get this...what if this person doesn't come back...what if I'm making the wrong choice. Thank you so much for reminding me that I need to get off my backside in order to go forward. Sitting around thinking about what I want and not acting towards it is not going to get me anywhere. I so needed to see this message today. Thank you so much for tapping into what I think so many of us needed to hear.

    Bless you for the insight and sharing.



  • captain, thanks for the reminder just when i needed it to, although i dont voice my troubles on here i may say a bit in converstion to somebody i am speaking with, its been a good reminder and so true, we really could be stepping into what we are beleiving and doing the do, we are human and we do forget and it so lovely to have reminders, many blessings to you dott.



  • I need to ad my cents worth.

    along with the wait for n captains get out of the darkness n rut, is attached the question many also asks. When will this that i him her that change? Well short said :

    " if YOU want CHANGE, u CHANGE IT URSELF."

    that said u need to calculate its ur OWN change i talk of as NONE can change anyone who DOESNT wanna change. But we as us can change us n the view of life n issues.



  • Captian, Thank You, I appreciate you very much. Since joining this forum I've come to realize thats been my problem. When? When? When! Why not today! One step at a time!!



  • Thank you again Cap....sometimes we need a jolt into reality. I am also one of those people who have been questioning WHEN? and I have been forgetting to live in the NOW...........time to move out of the shadows and back onto the path.



  • "How can a kite fly if you hold on to the tail? "

    Exactly, Archersbow! Well said. Let us all become heaven-ward soaring kites.


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