HANSWOLFGANG can you help me find some clarity?
I am at a crossroads of confusion. I my lover5/26/60 has pushed me7/16/68 away due to responsibilities at hand. I am in limbo on if we still have a future. I've given time and space and need to know if he is open to communication and discussion of past and move forward, more time needed or move on. Do I make first move or wait? Thank you in advance for your time..blessings
I am in limbo on if we still have a future: No.
I've given time and space and need to know if he is open to communication: Yes.
and discussion of past and move forward: No.
Neither more time needed nor move on.
Neither make first move nor wait.
There is a rhythm: sometimes enjoy relationship, sometimes enjoy aloneness. Enjoying both again and again, one day you will come to the understanding that there is no need to be in a relationship and there is no need to be alone. You can be in relationship and alone and you can be alone and in relationship. Then you have become wise.
Thanks Hans. Thank you for the insightful reading. It was not clear to me at first what you were trying to say but it is now I fully understnad. Thanks again
Falling in love you remain a child; rising in love you mature. By and by love becomes not a relationship, it becomes a state of your being. Not that you are in love - now you are love