What are your issues?



  • Ok will give this a try .12/12/1968

    Thank you

    BLuv.68



  • Ok I goofed. it is 12 December 1968.

    Sorry.

    Thank you

    BLuv.68



  • The Captain, as always thank you for your generosity. My birthdate is 26th February 1961.



  • How can we ever get sick of you Captain! As always I also thank you kindly for your time and effort. My birthday is 28 November 1967. 😄



  • Hello Captain, your posts have piqued, well, my interest. I was born on the 5th of August 1955-- I am very curious about your insight, and would appreciate a reading. Thank you



  • Hi, TheCaptain. You are funny. Sick of loving you? Come on! DOB 24 December 1959. Have a wonderful day!



  • Stranger2, your friend's issues are -

    LOVE

    Addiction to passion without affection

    Unrequited love

    Insatiable urge to pursue impossible love

    Affairs that go nowhere

    Infantile need for attention

    Propensity for romantic tragedy

    Feeling unwanted as a child

    How to get your power back - allowing others freedom and space, relating more fully to another person, letting children go, giving up personal love for a greater cause, outgrowing the thrill of high-risk gambling, appreciating the vast resources of people at your disposal, and loving all beings - freed from traditional bondsand conventional attachments.

    RELIGION

    Fantasies about the perfect mate

    Looking for answers

    Praying to a deaf God

    Absurdity of a college degree

    Pain of education

    Brain damage

    Irrelevance of religion

    Restlessness

    Racial/ethnic prejudice

    How to get your power back - making connections and reaching out, learning by doing, renouncing archaic systems of belief, shedding cultural bias, and trusting your own perceptions.



  • Azaza12, your issues are -

    LOVE

    Addiction to passion without affection

    Unrequited love

    Insatiable urge to pursue impossible love

    Affairs that go nowhere

    Infantile need for attention

    Propensity for romantic tragedy

    Feeling unwanted as a child

    How to get your power back - allowing others freedom and space, relating more fully to another person, letting children go, giving up personal love for a greater cause, outgrowing the thrill of high-risk gambling, appreciating the vast resources of people at your disposal, and loving all beings - freed from traditional bondsand conventional attachments.

    RELIGION

    Fantasies about the perfect mate

    Looking for answers

    Praying to a deaf God

    Absurdity of a college degree

    Pain of education

    Brain damage

    Irrelevance of religion

    Restlessness

    Racial/ethnic prejudice

    How to get your power back - making connections and reaching out, learning by doing, renouncing archaic systems of belief, shedding cultural bias, and trusting your own perceptions.



  • GJay, your issues are -

    INDEPENDENCE

    Annoyance at having to live your life through other people

    Depression resulting from inability to express anger appropriately

    Low self-esteem

    Fear of not being able to make it on your own

    Crushed gender identification

    Weak identification with same-sex parent

    Abuse or having been put down in childhood

    Overattachment to Self

    Dislike of being alone

    How to get your power back - developing the ability to be in a relationship without resorting to manipulation or control, and validating others without losing yourself or pleasing them insincerely for fear that truth will result in abandonment, cooperation and compromise, giving credit and thanks to others, and learning to listen and be sensitive to others.

    LOVE

    Addiction to passion without affection

    Unrequited love

    Insatiable urge to pursue impossible love

    Affairs that go nowhere

    Infantile need for attention

    Propensity for romantic tragedy

    Feeling unwanted as a child

    How to get your power back - allowing others freedom and space, relating more fully to another person, letting children go, giving up personal love for a greater cause, outgrowing the thrill of high-risk gambling, appreciating the vast resources of people at your disposal, and loving all beings - freed from traditional bondsand conventional attachments.



  • Africanqn, your issues are

    MARRIAGE:

    Obsession with having somebody

    Disappointment in one you've leaned on

    Commitment to a self-destructive person

    Embarassment for what your mate is

    Poor role model from opposite **** parent

    Men draining women, woman dominating men

    Someone not being there when you need them

    Wanting to be rescued by a white knight

    How to get your power back: by being strong and independent, maintaining your identity as a couple, relating without guilt, allowing people their pain and weakness without feeling you have to cure it, not idealising people then being crushed when they turn out to be human, and shedding false notions about marriage.

    FREEDOM:

    Separations from dear friends

    Being scapegoated

    Being left out

    Not wanting something once you get it

    The disintergration of a tight group

    Uncertain direction

    The politics of democracy

    Cliques and forces eroding group unity

    Feeling you don't belong

    Avoiding intimacy by finding safety in numbers

    How to get your power back - accepting a parenting role, overcoming fear of being close and needed, enjoying romance without hiding behind groups and causes, letting friends go when they must, not testing people where you know they can't comply, recognising differences between people without judging them, exploring creativity for its own sake, and giving up liberty for personal happiness.



  • Olivebranch, your issues are -

    INDEPENDENCE

    Annoyance at having to live your life through other people

    Depression resulting from inability to express anger appropriately

    Low self-esteem

    Fear of not being able to make it on your own

    Crushed gender identification

    Weak identification with same-sex parent

    Abuse or having been put down in childhood

    Overattachment to Self

    Dislike of being alone

    How to get your power back - developing the ability to be in a relationship without resorting to manipulation or control, and validating others without losing yourself or pleasing them insincerely for fear that truth will result in abandonment, cooperation and compromise, giving credit and thanks to others, and learning to listen and be sensitive to others.

    ESCAPE

    Obsession with spooky sensations

    Thoughts of something going on behind your back

    The belief that pain can be avoided

    Fantasies

    Overinvolvement with fiction

    Wrong medication

    Sorrow nobody knows about

    Religious vs spiritual training

    The urge to deviate

    Terror of hard work

    How to get your power back - curbing your down time and getting back to old-fashioned practical productivity by forcing yourself to work, accepting daily life, being able to receive criticism as well as give it, avoiding exit signs that lead to brick walls, finding out there's no quick fix, standing in the dark and leading blind souls, trading romance for reality, developing craftsmanship, finding fulfillment in the here and now, returning to natural health, diligence and discipline, and utilitarianism.



  • oh thats full on we have the same issues with love.. thats crazy. do you think its possible for us to make it work long term seeing as those issues are so similar??thankyou captain 🙂



  • Intrigued, your issues are

    MARRIAGE:

    Obsession with having somebody

    Disappointment in one you've leaned on

    Commitment to a self-destructive person

    Embarassment for what your mate is

    Poor role model from opposite sex* parent

    Men draining women, woman dominating men

    Someone not being there when you need them

    Wanting to be rescued by a white knight

    How to get your power back: by being strong and independent, maintaining your identity as a couple, relating without guilt, allowing people their pain and weakness without feeling you have to cure it, not idealising people then being crushed when they turn out to be human, and shedding false notions about marriage.

    FREEDOM:

    Separations from dear friends

    Being scapegoated

    Being left out

    Not wanting something once you get it

    The disintergration of a tight group

    Uncertain direction

    The politics of democracy

    Cliques and forces eroding group unity

    Feeling you don't belong

    Avoiding intimacy by finding safety in numbers

    How to get your power back - accepting a parenting role, overcoming fear of being close and needed, enjoying romance without hiding behind groups and causes, letting friends go when they must, not testing people where you know they can't comply, recognising differences between people without judging them, exploring creativity for its own sake, and giving up liberty for personal happiness.



  • True2yourself, your issues are -

    COMMUNICATION

    Frustration at not being heard or understood

    Language barriers

    Speech impediments

    Addiction to immature behaviour

    Instincts that are stronger than conscience

    How to get back your power - continuing education, thinking in bigger terms, developing mental faculties that heal splits, shedding the drone of meaningless chatter, developing respect for your own mind, telling the whole truth and nothing but, and searching for wisdom - not an audience.

    FREEDOM

    Separations from dear friends

    Being scapegoated

    Being left out

    Not wanting something once you get it

    The disintergration of a tight group

    Uncertain direction

    The politics of democracy

    Cliques and forces eroding group unity

    Feeling you don't belong

    Avoiding intimacy by finding safety in numbers

    How to get your power back - accepting a parenting role, overcoming fear of being close and needed, enjoying romance without hiding behind groups and causes, letting friends go when they must, not testing people where you know they can't comply, recognising differences between people without judging them, exploring creativity for its own sake, and giving up liberty for personal happiness.



  • Feelinglove, your issues are -

    ESCAPE

    Obsession with spooky sensations

    Thoughts of something going on behind your back

    The belief that pain can be avoided

    Fantasies

    Overinvolvement with fiction

    Wrong medication

    Sorrow nobody knows about

    Religious vs spiritual training

    The urge to deviate

    Terror of hard work

    How to get your power back - curbing your down time and getting back to old-fashioned practical productivity by forcing yourself to work, accepting daily life, being able to receive criticism as well as give it, avoiding exit signs that lead to brick walls, finding out there's no quick fix, standing in the dark and leading blind souls, trading romance for reality, developing craftsmanship, finding fulfillment in the here and now, returning to natural health, diligence and discipline, and utilitarianism.

    COMMUNICATION

    Frustration at not being heard or understood

    Language barriers

    Speech impediments

    Addiction to immature behaviour

    Instincts that are stronger than conscience

    How to get back your power - continuing education, thinking in bigger terms, developing mental faculties that heal splits, shedding the drone of meaningless chatter, developing respect for your own mind, telling the whole truth and nothing but, and searching for wisdom - not an audience.



  • Stranger2, at least you will be understanding and sympathetic if you are going through the same thing. And when a problem is identified, it makes it much easier to work things out and find a solution. As they say, 'where there's a will, there's a way'!.



  • yes. there does seem to be an undercurrent of unspoken understanding.probably why we are so drawn to each other. and why we cant let go. i just wish it was a smoother ride sometimes! its like we both want to experience deep love but both seem incapable at times, someone always seems to be running! thanks 🙂



  • Dear Captain,

    Thank you so much for your time. For me this has been very insightful information. I am hoping for many blessings to come your way for all that you do for all of us.



  • I would love to hear what you have to say about my issues...

    5th April, 1989

    Thanks



  • Dear Captain,I will like to which direction you are taking me ? Oh! sorry wrong one.July .2.1960. Please take me to the right Direction.Thanks in advance.


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