What are your issues?



  • Hi The Captain can I also know the issues I came here to work on? I've been trying to figure it out lately as well.... DOB May 19th, 1978



  • Lonelydoc, your issues are -

    INDEPENDENCE

    Obsession with being an independent thinker to the point where you ignore people who have a lot to teach you

    The illusion that needing people is a sign of weakness

    Fear of losing yourself to another/fear of being controlled, and of sharing your gifts

    Annoyance at having to live your life through other people

    Depression resulting from inability to express anger appropriately

    Low self-esteem

    Fear of not being able to make it on your own/thinking it's a sin to be taken care of

    Crushed gender identification

    Weak identification with same sex parent

    Abuse or having been put down in childhood

    Overattachment to Self

    Dislike of being alone

    How to get your power back - developing the ability to be in a relationship without resorting to manipulation or control, and validating others without losing yourself or pleasing them insincerely for fear that truth will result in abandonment, cooperation and compromise, giving credit and thanks to others, and learning to listen and be sensitive to others.

    ESCAPE

    Obsession with spooky sensations

    Thoughts of something going on behind your back

    The belief that pain can be avoided

    Fantasies

    Overinvolvement with fiction

    Wrong medication

    Sorrow nobody knows about

    Religious vs spiritual training

    The urge to deviate

    Belief that good old-fashioned work is to be avoided

    Secretiveness

    Giving in to temptations and seductions in order to escape

    Fear of being controlled

    Running away from commitment to the point where your emotional and/or physical health is harmed

    How to get your power back - curbing your down time and getting back to practical productivity by forcing yourself to work, accepting daily life, being able to receive criticism as well as give it, avoiding exit signs that lead to brick walls, finding out there's no quick fix, standing in the dark and leading blind souls, trading romance for reality, developing craftsmanship, finding fulfillment in the here and now, returning to natural health, diligence and discipline, and utilitarianism.



  • mmm very interesting indeed... i'm trying to get myself out of school, lately I've learned a lot about myself (last three-four years)... THANKS SO MUCH TheCaptain!!



  • Hi Captain,

    I am always grateful for your willingness to help others. I always welcome an opportunity to learn more about my path. My day is 12th February, 1971.

    Thank you



  • MissyMill, your issues are -

    LOVE:

    Addiction to passion without affection

    Obsession with proving your worth through being loved

    A need to fall in love with all the wrong people/ an insatiable urge to pursue impossible love

    Unrequited love

    Affairs that go nowhere

    Infantile need for attention

    Propensity for romantic tragedy

    Feeling unwanted as a child

    Obsession with love and novelty to the point of stopping your development around the age of sixteen

    Fear of emoional enslavement

    How to get your power back - allowing others freedom and space, relating more fully to another person, letting children go, giving up personal love for a greater cause, outgrowing the thrill of high-risk gambling, appreciating the vast resources of people at your disposal, and loving all beings - freed from traditional bondsand conventional attachments.

    MARRIAGE

    Staying in a bad relationship too long/leaving prematurely before you can be abandoned

    Obsession with having somebody/fear of being alone

    idealising people/disappointment in one you've leaned on

    Commitment to a self-destructive person

    Embarassment for what your mate is

    Poor role model from opposite sex* parent

    Men draining women, woman dominating men

    Someone not being there when you need them

    Wanting to be rescued by a white knight

    How to get your power back: by being strong and independent, maintaining your identity as a couple, relating without guilt, allowing people their pain and weakness without feeling you have to cure it, not idealising people then being crushed when they turn out to be human, and shedding false notions about marriage.



  • Hello! This is my first time, maybe u will tell me why? I would love to know what im doing here. My Dof B, 10 of oct. 1966.

    Thanks so much!



  • Sleeplessdreamer, your issues are -

    MONEY

    Wasting time thinking you should be more practical and commercial with money instead of following your passion/fear of financial dependency

    Economic drains

    Obsession with who controls the money

    Horror of the bottom dropping out of your life

    Feeling of being without resources

    Guilt over money

    Sexism and finance

    Lack of fiscal responsibility

    Impaired ability to generate your own income

    Fear of being ripped off, fleeced, or violated

    Commercialism

    How to get your power back - accepting the generosity of others, knowing what wealth really is, shedding the burdens of acquisitiveness, following your passion, accepting you are living a mystical life, being honest about sexual needs, and achieving Tantric union.

    SEX

    Search for the ultimate orgas*m

    Sexual rejection

    Lack of magnetism

    Emptiness after sex

    Poor sex education

    Early abuse

    Irrational fear of as well as an attraction to death

    Insistence on proving sexual desirability or prowess (to the point where it hinders your ability to be deeply known)

    Dreams of being financially well cared for/fear of financial ruin

    Obsession with being gorgeous and alluring

    How to get your power back - appreciating closeness for its own sake, learning to give pleasure as well as receive it, overcoming the desire for instant gratification, handling money properly, conquering the urge for unnecessary spending, loving security and loyalty, rising above animal instincts and desires, making assets grow, following good business practices, and resisting dark intrigue and taboos.



  • Hi TheCaptain - I could doing with knowing what issues I'm here for ... it might explain the rough start I've had to 2010 🙂 DOB 1st March 1970 - Thanks



  • can u do mine? 15th august 1987. thanks!



  • ok here we go...Would like to know mine :)..22nd October 1969



  • Wow Captain! You are spot on again. These are issues that I have recently been discovering, now to figure out what to do with this information. Thank you again!

    Blessings to you!



  • Hi Captian,

    I'm new to this site, having some problems just coping, would like to see what kind of vibes you pick up from me-(7/1/61), when you have a chance.

    Thanks!



  • Pisces0301, your issues are -

    MARRIAGE

    Staying in a bad relationship too long/leaving prematurely before you can be abandoned

    Obsession with having somebody/fear of being alone

    idealising people/disappointment in one you've leaned on

    Commitment to a self-destructive person

    Embarassment for what your mate is

    Poor role model from opposite sex* parent

    Men draining women, woman dominating men

    Someone not being there when you need them

    Wanting to be rescued by a white knight

    How to get your power back: by being strong and independent, maintaining your identity as a couple, relating without guilt, allowing people their pain and weakness without feeling you have to cure it, not idealising people then being crushed when they turn out to be human, and shedding false notions about marriage.

    CONTROL

    Obsession with running the show or an obsession with having someone more sober to run your show, thus losing faith in your own abilities

    Fear of obsolescence or dispensibility

    Congenital or hereditary risk factors

    Inconsistent health habits

    Illness as submission to parent figure

    Illness as attention-getting device

    Handicaps excluding you from normal competition

    Terror of being infected with other people's problems and negativity in relationships

    Fear of making a mistake

    Obsession with health/work because you don't dare get close to people

    Fear of falling ill or being attacked just when things are going well

    Fear of letting go (and letting the Universe take care of you)

    How to get your power back - finding spiritually fulfilling work, surrendering to the protective power of the Universe, discovering your version of God, forgiving, accepting imperfections and chaos, being able to accept criticism, and living for spirit not flesh.



  • LeoCancer103, your issues are -

    MARRIAGE

    Staying in a bad relationship too long/leaving prematurely before you can be abandoned

    Obsession with having somebody to talk to/fear of being alone

    idealising people/disappointment in one you've leaned on

    Commitment to a self-destructive person

    Embarassment for what your mate is

    Poor role model from opposite sex* parent

    Men draining women, woman dominating men

    Someone not being there when you need them

    Wanting to be rescued by a white knight

    How to get your power back: by being strong and independent, maintaining your identity as a couple, relating without guilt, allowing people their pain and weakness without feeling you have to cure it, not idealising people then being crushed when they turn out to be human, and shedding false notions about marriage.

    COMMUNICATION:

    Frustration at not being heard or understood

    Language barriers

    Speech impediments

    Addiction to immature behaviour

    Instincts that are stronger than conscience

    Needing an audience in oreder to creatively express yourself

    Narrow unhealthy anxious perspective in relationships

    Fear of being thought of as crazy or deluded

    How to get back your power - continuing education, thinking in bigger terms, developing mental faculties that heal splits, shedding the drone of meaningless chatter, developing respect for your own mind, telling the whole truth and nothing but, and searching for wisdom - not an audience.



  • Libralady2008, your issues are -

    CONTROL

    Obsession with running the show or an obsession with having someone more sober to run your show, thus losing faith in your own abilities

    Fear of obsolescence or dispensibility

    Congenital or hereditary risk factors

    Inconsistent health habits

    Illness as submission to parent figure

    Illness as attention-getting device

    Handicaps excluding you from normal competition

    Terror of being infected with other people's problems and negativity in relationships

    Fear of making a mistake

    Obsession with health/work because you don't dare get close to people

    Fear of falling ill or being attacked just when things are going well

    Fear of letting go (and letting the Universe take care of you)

    How to get your power back - finding spiritually fulfilling work, surrendering to the protective power of the Universe, discovering your version of God, forgiving, accepting imperfections and chaos, being able to accept criticism, and living for spirit not flesh.

    ESCAPE

    Obsession with spooky sensations

    Thoughts of something going on behind your back

    The belief that pain can be avoided

    Fantasies

    Overinvolvement with fiction

    Wrong medication

    Sorrow nobody knows about

    Religious vs spiritual training

    The urge to deviate

    Belief that good old-fashioned work is to be avoided

    Secretiveness

    Giving in to temptations and seductions in order to escape

    Fear of being controlled

    Running away from commitment to the point where your emotional and/or physical health is harmed

    How to get your power back - curbing your down time and getting back to practical productivity by forcing yourself to work, accepting daily life, being able to receive criticism as well as give it, avoiding exit signs that lead to brick walls, finding out there's no quick fix, standing in the dark and leading blind souls, trading romance for reality, developing craftsmanship, finding fulfillment in the here and now, returning to natural health, diligence and discipline, and utilitarianism.



  • Diana07011961, are you 7th January or 1st July?



  • Hi Captain,

    Sorry about that, birth date is 7/1/61



  • Hi Captain, July 1st



  • Diana07011961, your issues are -

    SEX

    Search for the ultimate orgas*m

    Sexual rejection

    Lack of magnetism

    Emptiness after sex

    Poor sex education

    Early abuse

    Irrational fear of as well as an attraction to death

    Insistence on proving sexual desirability or prowess (to the point where it hinders your ability to be deeply known)

    Obsession with being creative to the point where you hinder prosperity

    Dreams of being financially well cared for/fear of financial ruin

    Obsession with being gorgeous and alluring

    How to get your power back - appreciating closeness for its own sake, learning to give pleasure as well as receive it, overcoming the desire for instant gratification, handling money properly, conquering the urge for unnecessary spending, loving security and loyalty, rising above animal instincts and desires, making assets grow, following good business practices, and resisting dark intrigue and taboos.

    FREEDOM

    Separations from dear friends

    Being scapegoated

    Being left out/fear of being walked out on unexpectedly

    Not wanting something once you get it

    The disintergration of a tight group

    Uncertain direction

    The politics of democracy

    Cliques and forces eroding group unity

    Feeling you don't belong

    Avoiding intimacy by finding safety in numbers

    Unable or unwilling to give yourself emotionally

    Inability to deal with a 'grownup' love relationship

    Fear of loss of independence and stability

    Fear of being controlled by society's values

    Fear of being trapped by your need for love and sex

    How to get your power back - accepting a parenting role, overcoming fear of being close and needed, enjoying romance without hiding behind groups and causes, letting friends go when they must, not testing people where you know they can't comply, recognising differences between people without judging them, exploring creativity for its own sake, and giving up liberty for personal happiness.



  • sick of you?i dont think so..im new here and the reply i got from the compatibility reading u gave me just made me wanna come back for more lol.anyways..here is my date of birth 05th of july 1977 hope to see what my issues are(as if i dont know it yet)or maybe i dont lol.thanks so much hope YOU wont get tired of us.


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