What are your issues?



  • Phoenixlyhenry, your issues are -

    LOVE

    Being more in love with someone than they you are with you

    Addiction to passion without affection

    Unrequited love

    Insatiable urge to pursue impossible love

    Affairs that go nowhere

    Infantile need for attention

    Propensity for romantic tragedy

    Feeling unwanted as a child

    Fear of emotional enslavement

    How to get your power back - allowing others freedom and space, relating more fully to another person, letting children go, giving up personal love for a greater cause, outgrowing the thrill of high-risk gambling, appreciating the vast resources of people at your disposal, and loving all beings - freed from traditional bonds and conventional attachments.

    MARRIAGE

    Being too trusting/too cyncial of committed relationships

    Fear of being cheated or engulfed by another person

    Obsession with having somebody

    Disappointment in one you've leaned on

    Commitment to a self-destructive person

    Embarassment for what your mate is

    Poor role model from opposite sex* parent

    Men draining women, women dominating men

    Someone not being there when you need them

    Wanting to be rescued by a white knight

    Need to be needed

    Not wanting to work

    Staying too long in relationships

    How to get your power back: by being strong and independent, maintaining your identity as a couple, relating without guilt, allowing people their pain and weakness without feeling you have to cure it, not idealising people then being crushed when they turn out to be human, and shedding false notions about marriage.



  • Mindovrmatr, your friend is testing your commitment to him.



  • Scorpioreader, your issues are -

    MONEY

    Wasting time thinking you should be more practical and commercial with money instead of following your passion

    Economic drains

    Horror of the bottom dropping out of your life

    Guilt over money

    Sexism and finance

    Lack of fiscal responsibility

    Impaired ability to generate your own income

    Fear of being ripped off

    How to get your power back - accepting the generosity of others, knowing what wealth really is, shedding the burdens of acquisitiveness, following your passion, accepting you are living a mystical life, being honest about sexual needs, and achieving Tantric union.

    MARRIAGE

    Being too trusting/too cyncial of committed relationships

    Fear of being cheated or engulfed by another person

    Obsession with having somebody

    Disappointment in one you've leaned on

    Commitment to a self-destructive person

    Embarassment for what your mate is

    Poor role model from opposite sex* parent

    Men draining women, women dominating men

    Someone not being there when you need them

    Wanting to be rescued by a white knight

    Need to be needed

    Not wanting to work

    Staying too long in relationships

    How to get your power back: by being strong and independent, maintaining your identity as a couple, relating without guilt, allowing people their pain and weakness without feeling you have to cure it, not idealising people then being crushed when they turn out to be human, and shedding false notions about marriage.



  • Thanks Captain!

    I'm gonna re read it and thinks about it..



  • My commitment to him? Wow, I don't even know how to respond to this. What I do know is, I have no intentions of sitting home or waiting by the phone in order to pass his test , and he knows it. He's faced with so many insecurites that are preventing him from sustaining the quality of love that I can give him and it's really a shame because we mesh so well.



  • No I don't think he expects you to sit at home all the time but he does want you to be there when he needs you - that is the test. Other people have not been there for him before.



  • Hi Captain I am also curious about my issues

    My birthday is July 23 1961



  • Thank you again Cap for taking the time to respond, All he has to do is ask, he knows I will be there for him in his time of need. I just hope he's there for me.



  • Luazinha, your issues are -

    MARRIAGE

    Being too trusting/too cyncial of committed relationships

    Fear of being cheated or engulfed by another person

    Obsession with having somebody, to the point where you give up on and forget your own life

    Disappointment in one you've leaned on

    Commitment to a self-destructive person

    Embarassment for what your mate is

    Poor role model from opposite sex* parent

    Men draining women, women dominating men

    Someone not being there when you need them

    Wanting to be rescued by a white knight

    Need to be needed

    Not wanting to work

    Staying too long in relationships

    How to get your power back: by being strong and independent, maintaining your identity as a couple, relating without guilt, allowing people their pain and weakness without feeling you have to cure it, not idealising people then being crushed when they turn out to be human, and shedding false notions about marriage.

    FREEDOM

    Separations from dear friends

    Being scapegoated

    Being left out/fear of being walked out on unexpectedly

    Not wanting something once you get it

    The disintergration of a tight group

    Uncertain direction

    The politics of democracy

    Cliques and forces eroding group unity

    Feeling you don't belong

    Avoiding intimacy by finding safety in numbers

    How to get your power back - accepting a parenting role, overcoming fear of being close and needed, enjoying romance without hiding behind groups and causes, letting friends go when they must, not testing people where you know they can't comply, recognising differences between people without judging them, exploring creativity for its own sake, and giving up liberty for personal happiness.



  • Thanks captain!



  • Thanks, a lot I'm going to read it to her today! God Bless u!



  • count me in! i am 18 July 1991. thanks, captain!



  • Hi The Captain,

    You come up with the neatest ideas. Count me in, please. I am 09 July 1959.

    Thank you so much!!



  • Therearemanyreasons, your issues are -

    SECURITY:

    Obsession with personal safety

    Clinging and overprotective attitude towards family

    Inability to detach

    Constant retreat from worldly responsibilities

    Experiencing abandonment

    Living with fear of impending eviction

    Dealing with agoraphobia

    Getting stuck with sick parents

    Overinvesting in a traditional family

    Feeling as if the nipple was yanked from your mouth

    Curling up by a fire that went out

    Overly self-protective

    How to get your power back - finding pride in making your own way, resisting the urge to turn everyone into your parents, maintaining professional distance, setting limits and boundaries, shedding inappropriate bonds of intimacy, saying goodbye to conventional bloodlines, rising above your origins, appreciating the career that sustains you, and pursuing success despite a lack of inner tranquillity.

    INDEPENDENCE

    Annoyance at having to live your life through other people

    Depression resulting from inability to express anger appropriately

    Low self-esteem

    Fear of not being able to make it on your own

    Crushed gender identification

    Weak identification with same-sex parent

    Abuse or having been put down in childhood

    Overattachment to Self

    Dislike of being alone

    Fear of being controlled by someone who is insensitive to your needs

    How to get your power back - developing the ability to be in a relationship without resorting to manipulation or control, and validating others without losing yourself or pleasing them insincerely for fear that truth will result in abandonment, cooperation and compromise, giving credit and thanks to others, and learning to listen and be sensitive to others.



  • Sunshine7959, your issues are -

    RECOGNITION

    Need for a public identity/to be somebody on your own, apart from the family

    Loving a bad reputation

    Lack of credit

    False sense of success

    People who cheat others out of credit

    Plagiarism

    Society's repressive force

    Mistrust of authority figures

    Lack of faith in parents

    Poor leadership in the home

    Expecting punishment if you shine too brightly

    How to get your power back - appreciating family, resisting a temptation to seize the floor, avoiding dirty politics, coping with dirty politics, knowing what success is, exposing fraudulence but not succumbing to it, and using a pseudonym to maintain anonymity.

    INDEPENDENCE

    Annoyance at having to live your life through other people

    Depression resulting from inability to express anger appropriately

    Low self-esteem

    Fear of not being able to make it on your own

    Crushed gender identification

    Weak identification with same-sex parent

    Abuse or having been put down in childhood

    Overattachment to Self

    Dislike of being alone

    Fear of being controlled by someone who is insensitive to your needs

    How to get your power back - developing the ability to be in a relationship without resorting to manipulation or control, and validating others without losing yourself or pleasing them insincerely for fear that truth will result in abandonment, cooperation and compromise, giving credit and thanks to others, and learning to listen and be sensitive to others.



  • Hi Captain my b'day is 1/23/63. Thanks for the enlightment....



  • Worthy1248, your issues are -

    ESCAPE

    Obsession with spooky sensations

    Thoughts of something going on behind your back

    The belief that pain can be avoided

    Fantasies

    Overinvolvement with fiction

    Wrong medication

    Sorrow nobody knows about

    Religious vs spiritual training

    The urge to deviate

    Terror of hard work

    Secretiveness

    Giving in to temptations and seductions in order to escape

    Fear of being controlled

    How to get your power back - curbing your down time and getting back to old-fashioned practical productivity by forcing yourself to work, accepting daily life, being able to receive criticism as well as give it, avoiding exit signs that lead to brick walls, finding out there's no quick fix, standing in the dark and leading blind souls, trading romance for reality, developing craftsmanship, finding fulfillment in the here and now, returning to natural health, diligence and discipline, and utilitarianism.

    RECOGNITION

    Need for a public identity/to be somebody on your own, apart from the family

    Loving a bad reputation

    Lack of credit

    False sense of success

    People who cheat others out of credit

    Plagiarism

    Society's repressive force

    Mistrust of authority figures

    Lack of faith in parents

    Poor leadership in the home

    Expecting punishment if you shine too brightly

    How to get your power back - appreciating family, resisting a temptation to seize the floor, avoiding dirty politics, coping with dirty politics, knowing what success is, exposing fraudulence but not succumbing to it, and using a pseudonym to maintain anonymity.



  • Hello Captain,

    I missed this one. You are great. What are my issues? 21 sept 1959.

    Thank you:)



  • Thanks Captain,

    a lot of those are right on the mark, and thus gives me enough to work on to move ahead in my progression. Thank you for another enlightening thread.

    Blessings and much healing energy to you!!



  • Once again I ask for help. I love your readings. Thank you so much! 16 July 1964.


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