What do you really want?



  • Excellent question! Lifetime in searching!

    7/27/1959

    Please & Thank You Mighty Captain! :-))



  • Opalten, what you really want is to be right all the time and to be perfect in the sense that you - and everyone else - is following 'the plan' 100% of the time. But you want everyone to be in total, perfect alignment with 'the plan' you think is right. First you need to accept that you do not know what 'the plan' is. You must turn away from rigid physical and material planning and refocus on the larger spiritual vision. Through trusting and surrendering to the wisdom of the Higher Power, you can watch life's circumstances with the conviction that what is unfolding is indeed part of 'the plan'. Then the way becomes clear. You are filled with calm and feel in alignment with 'the plan' because the spiritual vision is the energy of perfection you are seeking. Your North Node (Pisces) rules enlightened states of consciousness, the oceanic feeling of oneness with all life. At times you have slipped into an enlightened state - a state of total connection with the universe. Your life purpose is to nurture that state and make it part of your daily experience.

    Your Achilles' Heel is your compulsive need for order. ("My survival depends on everything being in order according to my view of how life ought to be and how others ought to behave.") It can lead to an unending search for perfection that is a bottomless pit. Life and other people are never in a static state of perfect order long enough for you to feel secure, and your expectations can lead to continual tension and anxiety. You postpone trust and joy by not letting go of control. Accept that the Universe's plan is better than yours and that things are unfolding properly, regardless of how it seems. The only place you can create perfect order is within yourself by surrendering to the Higher Power and trusting that everything is indeed in order.



  • Ragbag, what you really want is to be your own person, to be the centre of attention, to discover yourself in different life situations, and to surround yourself with people who feed you energy. To achieve this, you need to refocus your attention away from yourself and discover the nature of the people who have been drawn to you. Once you discern which people truly admire you and want to support you, and once you begin to feed them energy, the energy that comes back to you will create the situation you want.

    Your Achilles' Heel is twofold - one part is selfishness ("My survival depends on looking out for myself first, and others should make sure my needs are met regardless of anyone else's concerns.") But if you feel that others have to constantly fill your needs for you to feel safe and connected, you will find you need even more attention and energy just to feel OK. You need to find people and partners YOU can give to, who will feel so energised that they naturally fill your cup in reciprocal appreciation. Satisfaction lies in connecting with those who see you for who you are, appreciate you, and want to give back to you.

    The other trap you fall into is an unending search for independence ("If I can just be self-sufficient enough, I'll have the confidence to relate successfully with others and I won't feel so lonely.") But you'll never feel a strong enough sense of self to become part of a team that way. Take the risk of losing yourself in supporting others, and you will feel the joy and glory of your true self shining through.



  • wow. That was spot on. Thank you so much Captain. Very very helpful.



  • Thanks a million Captain! Thats me alright. Leo-Leo-Leo!



  • YEAH... that is pretty much it in a nutshell. For some reason my exboyfriend brought out the emotional dependency side of me. I think a lot has to do with the fact that he made my life so interesting.



  • Yoo hoo sweet Captain!Please tell me as well,28 november.1969



  • Hi Captain. Cathy 12-08-1955



  • Once again, I'd love to hear your insight about what I really want since I can't seem to find what makes me happy. DOB: July 16, 1964.



  • captain you help so many people with these things you do on here and we are all very thankful you do this 🙂 im curious to what it is i want, of course i have a few ideas of what i want but hmmm, my B-DAY is 12/11/1987 thanks a bunch!



  • and oh ok i would love to see what my older brother wants and i will share it with him and see what he thinks lol his b-day is 12/3/1984, and ok i wanna see also if you can do me a huge favor and do this B-day for me also, 10/6/1986 that is the birthdate of the libra girl i like, and im curious if i can give her what she wants or if i cant, some days i think i can, but other days it just seems hopeless and i think i should move on for good. could you do this for me? and then im done i wont ask anything more of you lol



  • Hello the captain, birthday February 5th 1943, his May 6th 1946, just a briefing......neither one of us seem to know what we want........ We dated for 6yrs,..... 35 yrs ago, I was divorced and had 3 kids at the time, he had never married. It was toxic at that time. He has never married and I am alone now and it seems like we both love each other... always did but , theres that but WE just don,t seem to know what we want . Can you help???????? thank you Leonida .. OH we just met again 8 months ago we had not seen each other for 35 yrs. It feels like FATE



  • Suramya, what you really want is to be right all the time and to be perfect in the sense that you - and everyone else - is following 'the plan' 100% of the time. But you want everyone to be in total, perfect alignment with 'the plan' you think is right. First you need to accept that you do not know what 'the plan' is. You must turn away from rigid physical and material planning and refocus on the larger spiritual vision. Through trusting and surrendering to the wisdom of the Higher Power, you can watch life's circumstances with the conviction that what is unfolding is indeed part of 'the plan'. Then the way becomes clear. You are filled with calm and feel in alignment with 'the plan' because the spiritual vision is the energy of perfection you are seeking. Your North Node (Pisces) rules enlightened states of consciousness, the oceanic feeling of oneness with all life. At times you have slipped into an enlightened state - a state of total connection with the universe. Your life purpose is to nurture that state and make it part of your daily experience.

    Your Achilles' Heel is your compulsive need for order. ("My survival depends on everything being in order according to my view of how life ought to be and how others ought to behave.") It can lead to an unending search for perfection that is a bottomless pit. Life and other people are never in a static state of perfect order long enough for you to feel secure, and your expectations can lead to continual tension and anxiety. You postpone trust and joy by not letting go of control. Accept that the Universe's plan is better than yours and that things are unfolding properly, regardless of how it seems. The only place you can create perfect order is within yourself by surrendering to the Higher Power and trusting that everything is indeed in order.



  • Cathylee, what you really want is to feel connected with others while confidently being yourself. You want the total agreement of everyone around you - for everyone to understand your point of view, to accept and support you, and to recognise your positive motivations. To achieve this, you try to manipulate people into thinking your way. Using your talent for understanding others, you think you can say exactly the right words to make others change their minds and agree with you. But it doesn't work; in order to reach your goals, you need to refocus your attention on your own truth. When you speak the words you intuitively feel, situations in which you find yourself come into harmony. When you live and speak from your higher self, companions who are not suitable withdraw and new people appear who are compatible. As you act in accordance with your higher truth, others who are similarly attuned understand you and prove the most trustworthy of friends, as you share the same spiritual values.

    Your Achilles' Heel is a need for mental security. ("If I can figure out what other people are thinking and then say the right thing so they'll agree with my ideas, I will always feel secure.") This can lead you into the trap of a never-ending search for information, ("If I can just get enough facts, I'll be able to find the 'truth' and then I will know what to do.") But you can never read people's minds enough to assure yourself that you will say the right thing. You need to let go of control and heed your own intuition. Trusting and acting from your OWN truth brings out your integrity, which will draw the right people to you and help you to gain the security and peace of mind you seek. You must go beyond logic to your intuition and demonstrate what your higher truth is telling you. Having faith in your spiritual guidance will lead you to gain a correct perception of what is going on around you.



  • Call Me Sam If U Dont Mind 7/17/91



  • AuntBuck, what you really want is to be in absolute control of every area of your life all the time. You have an insatiable need to think you have the power to succeed. To attain this goal however, you must stay in touch with your feelings and insecurities and share the truth about yourself with others. Acknowledging your insecurities will give you a stable base from which to create success in the outer world, for you are no longer fighting yourself by trying to hide or suppress your feelings. This gives you a calm inner certainty from which to accomplish your goals. And by acknowledging your own emotions, you will develop an awareness of other people's feelings. As long as you remain aware and supportive of other people, you will gain the support you require to help you on your own path.

    Your Achilles' Heel is your need for control ("If I can only make everyone get their lives together, then I can relax and be vulnerable"). But you can never control people or situations enough to feel that it's safe to be yourself. When you try to take charge in other people's lives without being invited, you are inappropritely usurping others' responsibilities. You must also avoid an unending search for acknowledgment ("If only others will recognise my contribution in a respectful way, I can begin to feel good about myself"). But others can never give enough recognition for you to feel satisfied. Only when you acknowledge within yourself the importance of the contributions you make (through nurturing others in a supportive way) will you begin to feel fulfilled. You will never have enough authority to feel that it's safe for you to be vulnerable. At some point, you must take a chance and let others know the truth of who you are and what you feel: your insecurities, fears of rejection and abandonment, and feelings of inadequacy. The irony is once you do this, you gain total safety - because in revealing your feelings, you've taken charge of yourself on a deeper level.



  • Captain......This is what I want.....

    YOU to visit my Come Together thread and get some HUGS girl!

    I dont know how in the world you can possibly keep all of us apart! LOL

    I'm with you on the start your own thread.Hope ALL will heed your request.

    (((((heres a couple now!))))) :-))



  • Chevelleman71, what you really want is to be right all the time and to be perfect in the sense that you - and everyone else - is following 'the plan' 100% of the time. But you want everyone to be in total, perfect alignment with 'the plan' you think is right. First you need to accept that you do not know what 'the plan' is. You must turn away from rigid physical and material planning and refocus on the larger spiritual vision. Through trusting and surrendering to the wisdom of the Higher Power, you can watch life's circumstances with the conviction that what is unfolding is indeed part of 'the plan'. Then the way becomes clear. You are filled with calm and feel in alignment with 'the plan' because the spiritual vision is the energy of perfection you are seeking. Your North Node (Pisces) rules enlightened states of consciousness, the oceanic feeling of oneness with all life. At times you have slipped into an enlightened state - a state of total connection with the universe. Your life purpose is to nurture that state and make it part of your daily experience.

    Your Achilles' Heel is your compulsive need for order. ("My survival depends on everything being in order according to my view of how life ought to be and how others ought to behave.") It can lead to an unending search for perfection that is a bottomless pit. Life and other people are never in a static state of perfect order long enough for you to feel secure, and your expectations can lead to continual tension and anxiety. You postpone trust and joy by not letting go of control. Accept that the Universe's plan is better than yours and that things are unfolding properly, regardless of how it seems. The only place you can create perfect order is within yourself by surrendering to the Higher Power and trusting that everything is indeed in order.



  • Chevelleman71, what your brother wants is to merge with someone else's energy and feel mutual empowerment. He is looking for total, permanent commitment. He wants a partner whom he can count on to take care of all his material needs, and he will take care of all his partner's emotional needs (or vice versa) - a syngergistic relationship that is mutually empowering and completely dependable. To successfully establish this type of relationship, he must be discriminating and find someone with similar energy and values. The shared goals must be innately valuable to each of them as individuals. For this to happen, your brother must first get in touch with his own values. He must become strong within himself, aware of what he wants, and tune in to what is real and meaningful in his life. The challenge is to establish his own energy systems and figure out who he is as an individual. As his energy becomes stronger, he will automatically attract mates of similar energy with whom he can form successful partnerships.

    Your brother's Achilles' Heel is seeking self-worth through others ("I can only feel OK about myself through the validation of others") which can lead him into the trap of an unending search for a soul mate. ("If I have this one special person's energy, I'll feel complete".) In truth, he can only achieve a sense of completeness within himself - it will never come as the by-product of a relationship, even with a soul mate. No matter how much support and validation he gets from others, he always thinks he needs more. In fact, for your brother, validation is a false barometer of whether he is on the right track. Living according to standards he KNOWS are right for him, regardless of what others think, will help him develop a sense of self-worth. At some point, your brother must stop being enmeshed with others and involved in their business, and simply walk his own path instead. The irony is that when he begins to do this, others will support him, both financially and on an energy level.



  • hi can you do my birthday, this is interestingg! feb 4, 1991


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