can a person get negative spirits from some one else and bring them bad luck. if so how could you fix that?
It takes possession of you, because you are thirsty, but your thirst will never be quenched.
Live your true greatness, then you are not thirsty anymore, and so you could fix that.
In this desirelessness everything happens, nothing is done.
Yes they can hon. Cleanse your home with a smudge sage stick.
Thank You, can anyone tell me please I think my negative vibes are from my husband, My birth date is 10/2750 and his is 3/18/50 Please.
You are right.
You have mental power, the ability to focus your mind on a goal or objective and see it through to a successful conclusion. This power is usually applied to some mental or educational task. You have the opportunity to fix your mind on certain goals and objectives. This is focus of the mind. Out of that focus and concentration, success is assured.
But the body is not a machine, that you have to un-learn. That can be a hindrance to you. Your whole attitude became technological. And the body is very fragile; it is not a machine at all. It is full of the unknown... it is a vehicle of the unknown. It is alive -- no machine is alive -- and that makes the whole difference. If you look at the body like a machine, you are looking at a corpse, not an alive body. You cannot massage a corpse. You can manipulate, but you cannot massage. Manipulation is one thing -- massage is totally different.
If you are alive you have to take risks. Life is a risk. Only death is secure, life is never secure—there is no security. The companies that are called Life Insurance should really be called Death Insurance; in life there can be no insurance. Life is alive only because there is risk, danger—that’s why there is so much thrill.
there is no such a thing as negative spirits
there is negative energy that comes in negative actions, words or actions
there is such a thing as spirits that feed on negative energy
they grow more powerful the more they are fed and can manifest into anything asked of them
this is why it's important to control what you send out
birth charts can't show what energy anyone sends out
those are about planetary position the day you were born
you can protect and cleanse yourself from it, but if you do not intend to do it, it will not happen
I know how to do it, but not many have reaped the benefits as I have, because they don't do it regularly and they do not believe it will help
we can control what we send out
I wrote this in my post to you in the other thread
we can choose not to send negative thought/ action/ words
we don't have to be angry, upset, jealous, wishing people bad luck, dwell in the past, revenge
we can ignore, or we can say "I am a person, you don't have to do this to me"
this way we don't keep things bottled up inside and yet we don't send out negativity
there is no way of controlling negative energy sent to us by other people
but then again the universe will return this to them
so what is the point of being negative at them back?
because if we do that, the universe will send us back negative things we send out
and so we will be hit by their negativity and then our own
and then the negative energy will get stronger because it keeps coming
and one day we will be completely blocked by it
this is why it is important to control what we send out
unelss of course you want to be hit twice, that's your choice, it's your life
life is about learning and move forward
so it doesn't mean we have to do everything right all the time
but doesn't mean we shouldn't try
if life is easy what is it to learn? if we give up, what are we making progress (forward) to?
also, about negative energy that people send to us
even if we can't control this, because only they can control what they send out
we can protect ourselves from it and do some cleansing ritual regularly so that negative energy doesn't linger and end up blocking us from anything good
let's say we have lived in positivity, the universe will return us positive things
but we will not receive it or miss it due to the blockage that previous lingering negative energy causes. therefore cleansing and protection are important
I've never had anything bad to me since I keep up protection, cleansing, living in positivity and balance. it's true I have a guide, but doesn't anybody else have it too?
everything starts with intention, there is a will, there is a way
the universe can send guidance or life challenges
but how you deal with it, is your choice
it's not easy for me either. I am a Leo, if anything I have the temper too.
It's not like I have an easy life. I have been through what many have been through here.
in fact I was spiritually attacked since I was in the womb. when I couldn't protect myself.
betrayed by friends and those I love? been there. I even had a wedding plan called off.
stabbed in the back at work? always got it, everywhere. that's why I started a business because I am not good in office politics and if I did earn money I never enjoyed it. I even had a few occassions money was stolen I had to pay for it because nobody believed me.
I grew up in violent home, we had a relative mentally ill kept hitting everyone he could lay his hands on. He got medicated sometimes, but didn't always work. I lived in this home until the day I got married, which was 25 yo, because I never earned enough money to move out. I almost died. and I almost committed suicide because I thought that was the only way to exit this life.
Now tell me, is there anything above that you feel is easy for me to bear? or easy for me to forgive the people that did them to me? None. not for me. But life has to move forward. You can choose to dwell in the past, but if you do so, you will never move on. I am closing the doors to the past one by one, because I want to live for the current, and for the future. I learned what I can from the past, because that's all I have to do. Life is about learning and move forward. There is no such a thing as you can not forgive. There is only 'hard to forgive', but not impossible. If I can do it, anyone can. Because to the universe we are all equal, I am by no means better than any of you. In everything, start from yourself. Gandhi said this perfectly, be the change you want to see in the world. If you can't forgive yourself for your own wrong doings to others, then you can't forgive anyone. Love yourself, because you can not love another if you don't. How do you know what love is, if you don't love yourself? How do you know how to forgive, if you can't forgive yourself?
To the universe we are all equal. There is no one person that is always lucky, always happy. There is a time in this person's life when he/she was sinking in depression. The universe doesn't bow to 24/7 rule. Life doesn;t end when the body dies. So maybe in this life time you know someone that is always luckier than you, but in the next or in the past, you never know. What we go through in life is meant to be experienced, including the emotions. But this doesn't mean you have to dwell in it. If your lover hurt you, he will get this back. You can choose to be angry or to leave him and never again open your door to him until you are healed from the pain. Then you can move on. Again, how you live your life, is your choice.
judgement and revenge is not necessary
the universe do all this, not us
I never did judge anyone, I am just sharing what I have learned
Do you have any wise words for me as far as what to do? I feel my life is not getting better
"That may work for some people to let their anger out without sending out negative energy, but I can't imagine if it would work for me"
everything is hard to start with. it will get better by practice.
if I can do it, you can too.
be specific. what happened?
So I decided today to give up an opportunity to advance myself in my career because I had been so obsessed with what the ex felt about me that I didn't devote the time to preparing for the opportunity. I felt that I hated him so much for letting me be all alone in all this chaos I thought I could forget. him. But here I am again a few hours later thinking of what can be the outcome of the relationship I am so obsessed I can't even sleep now. I thought I have gotten past this already but it seems like a maze I can't get out of it. I hate being this obsessed with anything. Do you know that my career will advance still with this opportunity I just dismissed? I feel so ashamed of how this whole thing has been bothering me.
sorry I am not psychic I can't read your future
you may want to ask Hanswolfgang there, you can see his name on page 1
or maybe Mysto can, you can ask her too who knows?
it's not that I don't want to help
I can't. I do have a guide, but she only tells me important things about myself
she hardly answers any question about other people
because she is here to guide me and I am still learning myself
hope for the best
the universe is not out there to punish us, it is teaching us
when it judges us, I don't mean it is punishing us if we are naughty
it merely sends us back what we send out
if we send out negative, we get negative back
that is all. this may sound as punishment, but it is not
it is a mechanism, how it works
one day all these will come clear to you
I understand, our parents do not talk about the universe and spirit guide at the dining table
and now I am telling you all this
take it little at a time, there is no rush. try your best and when you fail, start again.
there is no such a thing as perfection in the physical world
if we are all perfect and know what to do, what's the point of coming here and learning?
might as well stay in the spirit world all smiley sunny days
bye now and hope for the best
you are welcome