What to do with a Virgo.
3 dates all either outside or at my place.
Now I I have confronted the situaion as in your place. I know your not poor.
I know you do not live with someone.
He says it is just messy, how messy ? He said 3 hours to clean up.
This could be a deal breaker if he does not do the 3 hours or fix the problem soon.
I had a boyfriend whose father was off. he said wait in the car I said no.
He trusted me. I went in and saw every surface of the floor to the table in every room covered with papers and some garbage, not a rat fest just a person in need of an objective caretaker.
I was very moved that I was trusted not to judge , which i did not.
If he had hid this from me it would have been worse and I never would have trusted him.
I am in the same boat, but this time it is the one I like and he wil not let me in.
Is it time for the ultimatum ?