Compatibility analysis

  • Hobbles76, this relationship can hold a seductive kind of charm for the two of you, while at the same time making you recklessly rebellious against its possessive and overly-sweet attitudes. Its seductive power in fact can prove to be too much of a good thing. You Laci may begin with very protective feelings toward your partner, and once your sympathy is aroused, it is only a small step for you to fall head over heels in love. Seductive in the extreme, your partner may be unconsciously leading you on without realizing it. Actually though, in the end he is more likely to become devoted than you, who may become uncomfortable with the extent of his feelings, and if so might feel forced to rebel. Otherwise however, as a love affair, this relationship can work out quite well.

    Should marriage loom, on the other hand, your partner is much too private as a person to be happy with the kind of entourage with which you tend to surround yourself, especially at home. Territorial conflicts may arise too, since both of you (but especially your partner) must be able to call your home space your own. If marriage is to have a chance here, both of you would have to learn to share, adjust, compromise, and accommodate. You must learn to agree on domestic matters, and develop responsibility and trust between you.

  • me feb 7 1990

    man march 12 1980

    super thanks again captain!!

  • Fluffyninja, in a love affair here, the two of you will have problems with sensual or material excess. Addictions are common in this combination, whether they be physical or emotional. A kind of fantasy or unreal situation may arise that could threaten to overwhelm your good sense and practicality as a couple. Marriage (if it happens) will put a lot of energy into realizing creative visions in the domestic sphere. You two will not always be able to agree on matters of taste, style, and design, since you have very different ideas on such subjects. Once you reach a compromise however, you can institute your decisions swiftly.

    The two of you can overcome any problems that might arise and have the potential to build something of substance together. This relationship should mainly be a solid one, emphasizing structure but also understanding. You two are extremely encouraging of each other's talents and this mutual appreciation gives both of you a noticeable boost in self-confidence. Drawing out each other's more creative side and grounding it in substantial and tangible forms is a speciality here.

    A friendship here will also have a weakness for excess, but it is mainly contained to the areas of entertainment and of simple, non-harmful pleasures. Whatever type of relationship you create here, you will both have to keep the eating, drinking, spending money, and sex to a reasonable limit. If you can keep your passions under control and not get carried away by excess or addiction - so as to lessen unreal states - this relationship can be a good one.

  • thanks ! & sorry for posting in the other board.

  • No problem! 🙂

  • H Captain,

    My friend finally gave his birthdate,, He spent yrs try find the right relationship,

    His D>O>B


    Just give you mine , see if we will have a good friendship.


  • Scully21, a relationship here - especially a love affair or marriage - is likely to be unstable and rocky, though it can endure for quite some time as each partner occupies themselves with their own separate goals and ambitions. Unreality is likely to be a large factor of any type of relationship you two have since neither of you has a very clear idea of yourselves or the other person. The relationship itself can swallow up each person's individuality, making separations and breakups extremely difficult and painful.

    Still, your friend is fun to be with and can help you take your mind off your problems and serious matters, while you can provide the security and confidence he desires. Competition and jealousy however can rear their ugly heads and spoil any type of relationship here. A friendship will work best if it is career-based. At work, a business partnership in this combination can be extremely persuasive and successful. It is the personal side of relationships that does not fare well here.

  • Hi captain.

    I got the the date wrong.

    His birth 4.10.72

    Any good things for him regarding his love life.. poor guy been looking for years.

    Myself and him re just acquiescent . maybe friends, nothing more.

  • Scully, the 'one day' difference makes no difference to the reading. It still stands.

    Looking at your friend's profile, I can see that he tends to confuse business with personal relationships and has a big problem with indecisiveness in his life - he may never be sure if he has met the right person or figure out exactly what he wants from love. He fears being stuck in a house, stuck in a role, or chained to a family he has no real feeling for. Yet he is desperately searching for emotional security. Thus he is pulled in two directions at the same time and goes nowhere. His career is very important to him (especially if he has the right mentor or is a specialist at his work - he may even become a workaholic) and he fears having a family may interfere with it. Yet he can strike an even balance if he is brave and realistic enough. He has a tendency towards self-deception and must be particularly careful when it comes to choosing a partner or a teacher as he can fool himself into believing someone is right for him when they are not. Deep down what he really wants and needs is somewhere he can feel safe, supported, protected and loved, free to be himself and accepted for it. If he finds this safe place at work, it will become more important to him than a home and family.

  • Hi captain, thank you

    I didn't realise that made no difference, i will forward that to him.

    I honestly agree with what your saying, i feel the same, like fear, he says he been career minded.

    Thanks again, i just try help him.

  • I was wondering, what type op partner do you see as best for me


  • Scully21, according to astrology, your most compatible lovemates (depending on the type of relationship you prefer, longterm or short term) were born -


    • Gemini (week of June 3 - June 10 and also days June 19 - June 20)

    • Cancer (week of June 21 - June 24 and week of July 11 - July 18)

    ** Leo (week of July 26 - August 2: good for love and friendship)

    ** Virgo (week of September 11 - September 18: good for love and friendship)

    • Scorpio (week of October 26 - November 2)

    • Scorpio (week2 of November 12 - November 24)

    • Capricorn (week of January 17 - January 19)

    *Aquarius (week of January 20 - January 22)


    • Pisces/Aries (week of March 19 - March 25)

    • Taurus (week of May 3 - May 10)

    • Cancer (week of July 3 - July 10)

    • Virgo (week of September 3 - September 10)

    • Libra (week of October 11 - October 18)

    ** Scorpio (week of November 3 - November 11: also good for friendship)

    • Sagittarius (week of December 11 - December 18)

    • Capricorn (week of January 3 - January 9)

  • Hi captain,

    I'll give this a at this moment we are broken up....but I will be returning to his city soon.

    Me Nov 21 1967

    him Jul 17 1970

    I can take it 🙂

  • Cholla, in this relationship uncertainty will be the principal state of play. You will never be quite sure of your partner. A love affair can be quite explosive getting started and feelings are likely to fly at first, but are quickly brought under control. The relationship encourages the dreamer in both of you so, if harsh reality strikes, the relationship may shatter. Once one or both of you has come to your senses, there is little or no chance of ever going back to the original state of illusion. It is often the Cancerian who comes on all hot and strong at first, then quickly pulls their head in and retreats once they find out that the person they thought was their ideal partner was merely a fantasy and not at all like the parent substitute they were really looking for. Frightened that they have gotten in over their heads, they will run away as fast as they can, tail between their legs, probably never to return. Your ex's insecurity and your subconscious fear of his emotional intensity and claims make this likely to be a short-lived and incompatible affair.

  • Thanks Captain,

    I wish I could say it was short lived. We have been in and out with the tides since 2008.

    Thanks so much for your time. It must get over-whelming at times with all these requests. 🙂

  • Cholla, I see nothing but unhappiness for you in this on again-off-again relationship. If this man cannot put his whole heart into it, then he is just using you.

  • Me: april 5, 1989

    Him: january 29, 1986

    we have never been together, he happens to be one of my best friends but i want something more. just looking to see if more would actually work or if i just need to let it go and continue being a good friend.

  • Morghann21313, this works best as a friendship. At the heart of the relationship is a permissive attitude that not only allows but demands freedom, and it can undermine any effort to give the relationship a more solid or committed foundation of longevity and happiness. This combination's positive aspects of excitement, dynamism, and impulsiveness will either fortify the relationship or run it out of control. If the latter, the relationship will self-destruct. Even at best, positive and negative are so intimately related here that a wild and colourful relationship, one without a whole lot of stability, is likely.

    The relationship's highs are heavenly, but its depths can be abysmal. Especially in a love affair, ecstatic climaxes will do little to make either of you feel secure. This is one of those relationships motivated more by want than by need, and it will continue only as long as both of you desire each other (if indeed desire is present for both parties). One unfavourable incident could be enough to discourage you two fair-weather lovers. Similarly marriage is unlikely to endure 'til death do you part.' A free or open romantic relationship may make it last longer, but it could also bring bitterness and jealousy. The levels of stress and impatience, and the lack of even moderate behaviour, rules out a workable romantic bond in this combination.

  • My DOB is: Nov 18, 1975

    His DOB is: April 15, 1976


  • Adamsmamy, this relationship is great for a love affair but may not last for a marriage. It can be varied and exciting and may pursue many different areas of interest. It likes to be exposed to the unexpected, which can open up whole new worlds of expression. New and unusual ideologies may also open up new spiritual horizons.

    If you are swept off your feet by this man, you will have to give up your controlling attitudes. This can be good, since by keeping everything under control, you often miss out on some of life's most enjoyable and interesting experiences. In a relationship with this man, you can enter a whole new world in which your deep emotional side can find full expression. And from you, he will get a vista of new feelings that he may never have imagined. To gain your love of course, he will have to give up something too, namely some of his focus on work or career. This relationship will demand a lot of attention if it is to work out. But if the result is that he takes more care of his own emotional life which he may have neglected for years, then the relationship will have done him a lot of good.

    Once the passion has cooled in the relationship however, the two of you may grow more critical and unforgiving of each other. Disagreement over domestic and financial management, vacations, child rearing, and a host of other subjects is likely, and can destabilize what once seemed an almost ideal matchup. On the upside, the two of you have a freshness of ideas that allows for much creative problem-solving. But make sure you don't allow your thinking to become rigid or dogmatic.

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