Cancer woman & a Leo man, will it work?



  • I am a very independent person but I also like to rely on a man when I am not confident and need reassurance. I love to love but Leo holds back and is independent as well. I am a very sensitive person and Leo doesn't show that, he's got a Roar, I do know that. Anyone have experience with these two sign's?



  • its just the the diffrence wit me Im the Leo and He the Cancer my birthday is 7/23 his 7/15 we after a 2year relationship and 1 kid later we are at a point were we can't talk to one another and before that when we first met and datng it was sweet I got fowers on the reg. and everything but seem like. Well he does have a temper he is very needy and needs reassureance and all I do my best to give him that but at the end of the day its does not seem like its enough. I do love and miss him we been broke up about 2 weeks and dit seems like two months, We got to a point were we cant talk to one antoher without one of us hanging up he is alil rude and I just dont understand it. I have been tryin to stand my ground cause im always the one going back tryin to work it out after a break up however this is the longest. I just want to know does he really love me and is ther hope for us. I also know we are very close in signs and im on the cusp so what do u think?



  • one of my closest friends (cancer) is dating a leo and their relationship is very smooth. I think they've been seeing each other for a year and a half? Maybe two years? The worst snag it's hit is him possibly having to move away, but it turns out he didn't so they were fine. I also know another cancer/leo pair where the cancer is the guy and the leo is the girl, and they're great, too. So, it all depends on the person.



  • my daughter is a leo and her husband is cancer, they have been togther and marraide for ten years now and both very supportive of each other he is born in july and my daughter in august, they are so close and are a great team, you may have your rough patches and if both of you want it to work why should it not, i do beleive that what sighn we are born under does effect our relationships with each other, but its really understanding and seeing where the other person is coming from and they seeing where you are coming from, communication patience and love, give and take, all that, if it does not work on both sides and you are the one doing all the work, well thats when you have a problem, look up on the web for an astrology reading and see whats going on with he and for yourself and it will probably assist you to understand each other more, hope this helps, goodluck, give it time and let things simmer down, then ask him if you can have a really good talk with out biting each others heads of,rome wasnt built in a day and you cant change people over night or in two weeks or whatever, its a learning experience, and its also being aware of the words used in conversation that can set things of, you cant change he but you can change you, ask yourself what can i learn from this and you may get a surprise for you, focus on your little one and yourself as he or she is the most precious in the world, protect your little one and try to remain as peaceful and calm for yourself, as children are very sensitive to adults feelings they are quit unique and sense so much, if you are unsettled babe will be irritable and it will be much harder for you to handle, so get yourself settled, get a reading or horoscope reading, eat well and rest, lots of deep breathing and meditation, quite music, walking and playtime with the little one, you have to hold yourself together for the sake of the child, goodluck sweetie, and dont be afraid to ask for help from anyone that you know you can trust you take care of yourself, you require your energy for the little one and you, all will work ou have faith and trust in your beleifs and go with whats right and best for you and the child,



  • Nice to hear that cancer/leo relationships can work.

    Ebb-My birthday is also 23/7 adn his is 13/7. I haven't had any problems yet, but I've been reading alot of threads on cancer men, and this is helping me understand him more.

    I like the post above, i agree you need to communicate.



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  • I have seen this pair and it does last at least for as long as I know them

    if you can give both dobs I might be able to point out some things for you



  • Hey leoscprpion my DOB 7/23 His 7/15 ...any advice would be helpful peace and Blessings.



  • ebb

    if you need compatibility

    I only need both of your dob , including year

    if you want personal birth chart

    I will need dob (and year) birth location and time of each individual



  • 7/23/79 7/15/79



  • i am a cancer and my husband is leo... we married 18 years



  • Sun - Venus

    Positive aspect: It's an excellent aspect. They go well together, they love each other, and feel good, happy and radiant in each other's company.

    Mercury - Jupiter

    Positive aspect: An ideal couple, prosperous, happy, good intellectual understanding, great confidence in each other, a successful family life.

    Mercury - Jupiter

    Positive aspect: An ideal couple, prosperous, happy, good intellectual understanding, great confidence in each other, a successful family life.

    Mercury - Mars

    They have been well selected. They understand each other, like to discuss things with each other and take joint initiatives. Great intellectual understanding.

    Mercury - Mercury

    Positive aspect: Favorable for all types of communication.

    Jupiter - Uranus

    Negative aspect: An unfavorable union, nothing in common.

    Mars - Saturn

    Negative aspect: It is impossible for such a union to happen but, if it does, it will be unbearable.

    Mercury - Uranus

    Negative aspect: There is no intellectual understanding, these two people do not understand each other. If they insist on living together, there will be disputes and insupportable tension.

    Venus - Saturn

    Positive aspect: This union could be favorable and lasting, if Venus is really looking for a Saturn.

    Mars - Neptune

    Negative aspect: An unfavorable union, with lies, aggression, violence - each trying to destroy the other with the weapons at their disposal, strength against lying.

    Jupiter - Pluto

    Positive aspect: A possible union. Look at the other aspects to interpret exactly.

    Mars - Jupiter

    Positive aspect: The couple will be in harmony, even if they are different they complement each other perfectly and understand each other very well. They go well together.

    Jupiter - Neptune

    Positive aspect: A potential union. Look at the other aspects.

    Mercury - Neptune

    Positive aspect: Good spiritual understanding.

    Mars - Pluto

    Positive aspect: Great physical passion.

    Mars - Pluto

    Positive aspect: Great physical passion.

    a lot of positives here. there are negatives but none seems too much to handle. Sun rules you and Moon rules him. so these negative aspects would be felt but you will be able to overcome them. provided of course, you love each other and want to work it out. Try to control temper and aggression in this relationship, yours and his. keep open communication at all times to prevent misunderstanding and suspicious from both sides. otherwise, as it is said, positive union, physical and spiritual. on intellectual level, you two don't see things the same way so try find a common ground and be careful with words when you communicate with him. he is ruled by the moon, sensitive and moodiness are to be expected, so careful with your words at all times. even if it is the truth, try to polish it a little bit. when he doesn't appreciate your bluntness he will retreat until there is no place to and then they can get aggressive. he can't always let go just because he loves you.

    here is one I got for your situation:

    Moody but rarely mean, the Cancer male is a romantic soul possessed of much sex appeal, but one who is not always confident of his own attractiveness. He understands women very well and is fond of children. Athough kind by nature, this man is not soft. Truly a one-partner individual, the male governed by Cancer can sulk privately for days if his feelings are hurt. He is best left alone when in a depressed mood for too much sympathy only serves to make him brood. Far too deep to be summed up on first acquaintance, he should not be subjected to snap judgments from others. The Cancer male has a fine sense of humor and a healthy outlook on the world in general, but is prone to put on an act of geniality in order to hide his own feelings of inadequacy and insecurity. In short, it takes a long time to truly get to know this man. He can be an amusing and gallant escort if he so chooses but is difficult to pin down. This male may avoid a serious relationship for as long as possible and even then, enter into it with much trepidation. Still, if he finds he has the right partner, he wil settle blissfully into a long term commitment. However, if he suspects he has made the wrong choice after all, he can become well-nigh impossible to live with. Males ruled by Cancer tend to be subjective in emotional matters and virtually unable to see anything from an objective point of view when upset. Nonetheless, they are generous with affection and desire an abundance of attention in return...feeling bitterly deprived if they do not receive it. For a relationship to last, it will be necessary for any mate to recognize that this man likes to be left alone, without question, when he feels the need to sort out the world's problems and his own. Flattery never works with the Cancer male unless there is a genuine desire to please him and no attempt on the part of any mate to achieve personal ends. He can be deeply hurt, so restraint must be used with regard to any quick or thoughtless criticism and/or reproof. This is an attractive man, although he seldom believes such to be the case. Thus, his ego needs boosting at all times.

    I hope this helps. I only see good here but it has its challenges. I can't say I have good experience with water sign males, but I wasn't forgiving at the time anyway so of course nothing much could last. It is said he will try to manipulate you, to gain control. try to stay in the middle, not manipulated and yet not controlling. see everything from your point of view and from his. then find the middle way. give him the time alone for now, when his sulking is over, he will open talk.



  • leoscorpion, can you check mine?

    7/23/61 and 7/13/76



  • Sun - Venus

    Positive aspect: It's an excellent aspect. They go well together, they love each other, and feel good, happy and radiant in each other's company.

    Sun - Saturn

    Positive aspect: Here is a couple you can call stable. They will lead their life together quietly, with friendship slowly replacing love. Saturn will dominate the Sun - as is only natural - but the Sun might find this difficult to accept. In any case, as the Sun likes to feel secure, Saturn is a perfect partner.

    Jupiter - Uranus

    Negative aspect: An unfavorable union, nothing in common.

    Jupiter - Uranus

    Negative aspect: An unfavorable union, nothing in common.

    Sun - Uranus

    Negative aspect: Here is an aspect that speaks against any long-term understanding. At the beginning, they will appreciate each other a lot, and will have pleasure in being together but, quite quickly, this life will become unbearable with disputes, conflicts and crying replacing love.

    Mercury - Pluto

    Negative aspect: This union is not to be recommended, it can be destructive and dangerous.

    Mars - Pluto

    Positive aspect: Great physical passion.

    Venus - Saturn

    Negative aspect: Unfavorable union, as it will be very difficult for a Venus to put up with a Saturn who is too austere, cold, hides their feelings and puts Venus ill-at-ease.

    Jupiter - Saturn

    Positive aspect: A favorable union, a joyful family life, thanks to Saturn, this couple will never go lightly into any adventure but will work out and think through everything.

    Jupiter - Saturn

    Negative aspect: Difficult relationship as a couple, the two being too different even to complement each other.

    Lua, there are more negatives here than positives. it seems you two start well together, friendship grows to love and possibly commitment. but after that, doesn't seem there is a good chance of lasting. you can read the advice I gave Ebb above. and I will add a little bit more here based on what I see:

    At first the man and the woman cannot help becoming infatuated with each other - he appreciates her solid common sense and homemaking abilities, while she thinks highly of his strength of character, warmth, nobleness and generosity. However, they are likely to drift apart progressively when they will have come to know each other's personality better.

    The principal reef on which this relationship will come and smash is the partners' inevitable struggle for supremacy. Each will want to take the lead on any and all issues and expect the other to comply. The edge of their authority conflict will be all the more acute as the man can show himself misogynous in moments of frustration or exasperation, whereas the woman, without subscribing to any particular feminist trend, accepts no slur whatsoever on her own dignity as a woman.

    She is not the kind of person to lavish continuous admiration and praise on anyone, and the proud man will have to go without them most of the time and suffer repeated lethal blows to his inflated ego.

    The man is very popular with the fair sex, and flirtation ranks among his favorite hobbies. But the woman, with her strong sense of property, will not look at his indiscretion with an indifferent eye. Much drama is therefore to be expected in this direction.

    In the bedroom, the woman needs regular sex and is most conventional in her lovemaking, the man follows an erratic sex pattern, with overindulgence during a week followed by a month of complete lull or vice versa. But owe betide her if she levels criticisms at him, for then all hell will be let loose!

    I hope this helps. it will take a lot for this union to last but you two can if you want to meet halfway. There is indication of possessiveness and ego on your part, unfortunately he has about the same level of this. try to soften this a little bit, and ask him to do the same. You are strongly affected by childhood, paternal image, maybe tradition and family values. try to tone this down too. he also has a bit of these, being nurturing sign, but not as much as yours. he will be more willing to adapt to new family (you and him). he needs a strong woman that will reproach him for his weaknesses but will not abandon or hurt his feelings. he secretly places importance in status and relationship that he can be proud of. you on the other hand believes in action and good will to the community. he has to understand that good will is more important than status after all it doesn't take him much to achieve success that will contribute to status. you have no problem with getting money, but you do need to curve your spending. your success comes from business or arts, his comes from employment in the right field.

    hope this helps. some may not be true. for upbringing and life experiences can change people.

    but see if you can make sense of this and find out what needs to be worked on between the two of you. it will help if you read my post for Ebb, when it comes to his feelings. it will be best if you can make things clear between the two of you while the attraction is there, this way you will be prepared for your life together, should you two decide to commit.



  • THanks Leoscorpion

    I have been missing him sooooo very much and want to call him. He has been vistin or daughter on weekends but its like I see him but I don't as I stated Im always the one going back tryin to reconcile but this time I did not. I see the part were he needs his space and all and Im giving him that its been almost if not a mouth. really he is a good guy but has issues like everyone else I really would like to talk to him and mus give the relationshiip another try. but who knows...thanks again it info was very helpful



  • Hey Leoscorpion-how about mine? I'm 7/23/65 and he's 7/8/65. thanks in advance



  • you are welcome ebb

    hope for the best



  • thanks leoscorpion. Wow, doesn't sound that great! I'll see him tomorrow I'll see how it goes!



  • blue here is yours

    Sun - Saturn

    Positive aspect: Here is a couple you can call stable. They will lead their life together quietly, with friendship slowly replacing love. Saturn will dominate the Sun - as is only natural - but the Sun might find this difficult to accept. In any case, as the Sun likes to feel secure, Saturn is a perfect partner.

    Jupiter - Saturn

    Negative aspect: Difficult relationship as a couple, the two being too different even to complement each other.

    Sun - Neptune

    Positive aspect: They will be greatly attracted by each other, not necessarily physically. With the problems of everyday life, this love will vanish and each will no longer understand what they found so attractive in the other.

    Saturn - Neptune

    Positive aspect: Favorable union. Neptune brings dreams to Saturn, who lacks them, and Saturn brings common sense to Neptune, who is totally without it.

    Saturn - Neptune

    Positive aspect: Favorable union. Neptune brings dreams to Saturn, who lacks them, and Saturn brings common sense to Neptune, who is totally without it.

    Sun - Pluto

    Positive aspect: It's love-at-first-sight, the great passion: they will be drawn to each other like two magnets, they will always have to see and touch each other. Very good sexual understanding, typically very passionate. It must be said that this type of relationship won't last forever, it won't develop into a quiet and tender love and even less so into friendship. One will suffer when the passion of the other dies, it will be a very difficult time to live through.

    Saturn - Pluto

    Negative aspect: Unfavorable union, the relationship will be difficult and sometimes destructive. To be avoided.

    Very nice. a lot more positives than negatives. you two will make it, given that you support each other emotionally as well as physically and intelectually. you both are different. you can read the advice I gave Ebb for dealing with cancer male mood and withdrawal. you are a fire sign, he is not. don't deal with him the way you will deal with a fire sign. a fire sign always answers, sometimes within seconds. whether it is a fight, a challenge, an accusation, a mistake, a compliment etc. your man will retreat and keep you guessing. when he does this, give him his space, he will return when he is ready. he is ruled by the moon, in daylight the sun shines so bright you won't see the moon. only when the sun sets, you will see it. you both love control, but for different reason. he sees control as a way of nurturing for he feels he knows what is best for everyone, you see control as power and domination and tend to be bossy. find a way to work differences between you two, don't let him manipulate you and don't be too controlling over him and your relationship. find a common ground where all will benefit from everything.

    I found more about him:

    he function almost exclusively with heart and intuition, facing disappointments with resignation sometimes. affections and beauty are the pivot of his professional activities, when he is loved and surrounded by things or people he loves, he will excel. he is rather too dependant and hesitant in life, he needs constant reassurance, comfort and support. he is not capable of malice but due to his own hesitant nature, he sometimes is inconsistent and moody.

    this one about you two:

    the woman enjoys friends and romance, and very few can escape her magnetism and charm. she loves being loved and adored. a marriage or steady relationship will fulfill her beyond relationship itself and improve her professional capacity. she has a tendency of being unfaithful, for she has no difficulty of attracting others without her doing so intentionally.

    your relationship with him will not be boring, full of excitement and upheavals. money being one field where you both have to take good consideration of. find the balance between spending and earning. s ex is another one. if both of you do not control it, promiscuity could ruin great passion and tenderness. both of you have this tendency for different reason. you love being loved and may jump in carelessly into another man's arm that adores you. he may fall into another woman's arm if he feels too much pressure of perfection from you and not much love to balance it. strange as it seems, when it comes to promiscuity, you both may be able to talk about it and agree to certain arrangements such as swinging or your man may even allow you to have an affair or two because he tends to depend on his loved one and can be crippled by the fear of losing you or anyone he loves. you both are humanitarian, will contribute to the poor and unfortunate, also generous and affectionate to friends.

    hope this helps. astrology only reads planets position when you were born. upbringing and life experience will later shape your personalities to who you are today. if you notice anything that matches with your problems, you feel it's true. find a way to work it out. this union is almost perfect, but there is no such a thing as perfect. therefore you two still need to work things out.



  • good luck Lua


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