Need some advice from Caption
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so I got this friend ive talked about him before anyway he always been flaky like a few months ago he wanted to take me out to eat and then I hear nothing back from him we used to talk a lot on social media but now he ignores me I feel like hes ghosting me its kinda got me upset because we have a lot in common should i cut him loose and move on ? heres his date of birth September 11 1994
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@scotty667 as you say, your friend is flaky. He can at times be inconsistent and careless when it comes to the feelings of others. He tends to take himself and his life far too seriously. He gets concerned about his own issues and forgets to keep appointments or think about his friends. He didn't ghost you on purpose but you might want to reconsider whether you can be friends with someone who is more involved with himself than with other people.
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Hes been that way since ive known him and since hes moved away and got married its like trashed his old friends for his newer ones since hes been gone i got no one to hang out at church its really been hard
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Time to make some new friends. At least through church, you would have that in common. It's a start.
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@TheCaptain all the people there are older and younger then me all the people there that was my age no longer go there age differences in friendships dont bother me I dont know
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@scotty667 friends come in all shapes, sizes and ages.
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@TheCaptain I agree !