For The Captain
I would like a 2022 reading for both myself and my husband. My birthdate is 06/17/89. My husbands birthdate is 08/25/89. Thank you!
Jayenw, 2022 for you will focus very much on relationships, all kinds of relationships. Anything to do with diplomacy, dealing with people, networking, communication, human relations, and cooperating/working with others will be lucky for you. Any new ideas, relationships, or projects that were begun in 2021 should either start to gel or it should become clear, through lack of energetic support from the universe, that you will need to release some emotional and mental blocks that stand in your way. It is possible that issues in an existing relationship will come to the surface to be dealt with. Follow your inner voice in matters of the heart. This is a year to focus on your emotions and love. Last year was all about your work/study - it was a “me” year; this year is an “us” year. This is a slow-moving year, designed to test and build your forbearance. This is in fact a year that must be devoted to the development of patience with a capital “P.” It’ll feel like you’re moving three steps forward, four steps backward at any given time. Concentrate on intimacy and relationships, fostering appreciation for yourself and your loved ones, and speaking your truth gently yet firmly. Don’t expect anything to transpire at a rapid pace. You'll need patience, patience, and more patience. Your personal energy will be focused on “us,” relationship, and harmony. Yet the energy of the year will demand dynamic action and a bit of self-centered achievement. It’ll be a delicate balance for you in 2022. It will pay off to circulate and impress people with your talents and abilities this year and to be balanced, sociable and intuitive. It is a time to cooperate and form new partnerships with others, to have patience, lay your plans, and bide your time (for success is sure to come if you are willing to prepare and plan well), but not necessarily to take on any big projects that may overwhelm you with details. In 2022, you are well advised to rest, reflect, and gather knowledge. Part of that process may be taking a well-deserved vacation or taking classes that are of personal interest to you without being overly demanding. 2023 will be your big year for fun and socialising, so you will need to store up lots of energy and focus to get through it.
2022 will be asking you to find ways of creating more harmony, stability and balance in all areas of your life. Indeed, you are searching for ways to make life easier for yourself, for example by letting go of a specific type of emotional behaviour which is preventing you from enjoying life fully, or perhaps by moving to a property closer to your job instead of commuting for hours every working day. In order to bring more balance into your life, you may need to look at situations carefully, weigh up which need to be changed, and then be prepared to do something about them. In 2022, you may also find yourself in situations that are the very opposite of what you had expected, but in order for you to find your ideal balance, it may be necessary for you to experience them. This cycle can be a time for major decision-making, but before doing so you are likely to consult your partner or best friend and talk it through thoroughly, and you will also pay attention to your intuition. If you started a new job, moved house or took on new commitments during the last year, by now you are beginning to find your way, and hopefully you are feeling more at ease with these changes. There may be a feeling that you want to backtrack on decisions made last year, but more often than not, these are based upon emotional fears which need to be kept in check in order to make steady progress. Indeed, any fluctuations in finances or emotions may be a part of the process that encourages you to work harder towards a balanced life this year. During 2022, you may find yourself hopelessly in love, experiencing undying romance or a revival of your current relationship; it is time for a blending of souls. Perhaps you may also seek out a special friend to share your hobbies and interests with, or merge your company with a new business partner. You will often find that you are attracted to acting as a couple. Whether you are living or working with another, you may find that other people distinctly fade into the background as you fully explore the relationship dynamic this year. Wanting someone to hold your hand so that you do not experience life alone may be a problem for you, along with relying on them for emotional support. However, you may discover that by learning to give to others, you feel connected to life, which opens up your heart a little further and makes you attractive to love. Negotiations of any kind may spring up and dominate your life during this cycle, but you may be required to work at compromises. You can even find yourself mediating on behalf of others, over which you will usually be calm and diplomatic, even if your emotions do try to get in the way. You can also find yourself defusing uncomfortable situations easily because you are able to keep your emotions in check, and because you do not take sides in an argument. If you expect this year to be on accelerated over-drive (like the last three years!), you’ll be in for a rude awakening. You’ll be best served when you slow it down to a reasonable pace and focus on feeling. The more giving and patient you are, the more benefits you’ll receive.
While it may not be an opportune year for expanding your business enterprise exponentially or conquering life “fast-and-furiously,” it’s a great year for focusing on love and on your loving relationships with other people in your life. It’s a time to rekindle the more emotions-based part of you and move into your own self-identity in new and exciting ways. Can you open yourself up to becoming more “up close and personal” with your emotional life, however that manifests for you? Would your intimate life benefit from an advanced level of emotional intimacy and awareness? Do you need to open yourself up and allow friends, family, and colleagues to get a better picture of who you really are and how you really feel? Hopefully this year, your answers are all ‘yes!’
Benefits of the year:
You’ll feel empowered as the “go to” person in your professional and personal interactions.
You’ll feel a sense of loving, harmonious energy enveloping you.
You’ll enjoy and have success working with the details in your life.
Potential Challenges of the year:
Be aware that if you struggle with the destructive aspects of the year, you’ll be faced with issues such as the need to learn and practice tact, to act with sensitivity to others’ feelings and to work out issues related to codependency.
Protect yourself from basing your actions on what other people think of you by reminding yourself that you can’t control other people, you can only control yourself.
Be prepared to default into an over-generous mode and then withdraw from the situation where you’ve given with resentment. Get to know your triggers. Learn to recognize when they are presented to you and how to step back and think through your response rather than responding with a “black or white” answer.
The Question you must ask yourself in 2022: “How do I want to love and be loved in return?” This is a year devoted to love in all its forms. It’s a fabulous time for networking, finding “the one,” or reestablishing your connection with your intimate relationship.
Your husband's reading: 2022 for you should be a more fun, creative and sociable time. 2021 was about relationships, and may have entailed some makeups, breakups or whole new relationships, personally and/or professionally. You must take centre stage this year (something that will come naturally when you have grown into your full confidence). Enrol in a public speaking class or make-over your image. Live your life expansively. Take risks you’d usually never dream of taking. This is your year to be out there, enhancing all aspects of your sense of creative self-expression. This can also be a year where you’ll be challenged to work on expressing your emotions clearly and effectively, so you’ll be offered plenty of opportunities to practice this feat during the year. You’ll feel creative, outspoken, and full of energy. You also might wrestle with some unexpected emotional highs and lows, so take it as it comes and know you can’t go wrong when you tap into your authentic feelings. 2022 for you will hold some special fervour all its own. Ponder how you can use your creativity and communication skills to benefit your finances, work and personal power. After what you learned about relationships last year, romance or love affairs may bloom for you in 2022. You will be inclined to live life to its fullest now, even if you have to pay the consequences later on. You are likely to be more outgoing and the bridle of responsibility will seem to be loosened a bit. The influence in this current year is definitely one of sociability and the arts. It can be a lucky year if your efforts and financial resources are not scattered, if you don't rely on other people's views over your own, and if your energies are focused on priority goals, especially at work. During this year, you must watch that you bring projects to completion before beginning something new. This is a great year for you to take a vacation or break, particularly one with an artistic focus, such as photography, painting, writing, or even visiting art galleries or attending plays. Popularity within large and small groups is highlighted, as is work in the public arena (good for aspiring politicians!). It is also a year in which you may wish to try a new hairstyle or buy some new clothes, since love and affection are highlighted. Self-expression is the keynote in both the written and spoken word for you in 2022. This can be a good year for selling your products, (including your writing if you do it), or services. In general, this should be a magical fun year for relationships and it will be a very lucrative year financially as long as your creativity is well directed. Lighten up and don't take things too seriously now. Enjoy yourself and have fun this year because, in 2023, you will have to knuckle down and put in a lot of serious effort, and your thoughts and energy will need to be directed to career opportunities, practical matters, business, hard work, savings and security then.
2022 is a time for expansion, for you to be able to feel like you are really moving ahead, particularly with the new projects, relationships or situations that you began during the last two years. It may even feel like a lucky time, with life flowing in the right direction, and this is because this year you are learning to relax and allow life to move on, rather than directing it. There may be a great sense of freedom as the cobwebs disappear from areas of your life that have previously felt stuck and many doors will open easily. Your lightness in spirit may mean that you disregard situations that you think you no longer need. This may also be because you crave new experiences and a variety of directions. However, this may only be for a fleeting moment as you are liable to realise that all situations contribute to your life journey. You may turn to your instincts to guide you now, but at times your emotions may get in the way so that you can’t always recognise the best actions to take. In 2022, you may take time out to literally travel the world, or at least to expand on your current circle of friends. You’re seeking a broader communication with life. Perhaps you will throw parties galore as it’s time to pay greater attention to your social life. You may even be attracted to amateur dramatics, where you can utilise your entertainment skills and express yourself through play-acting. Indeed, your diary may be brimming with events to attend. But you may also dissipate your energy or develop exhaustion; having too much fun can take its toll. This may be an abundant year for finances, love and productivity as you are in a highly active mode and are putting in the right effort. However, you may spend money like water or find that romantic situations slip through your fingers if you don’t pay them enough attention. You are genuinely in a happy-go-lucky mood which certainly helps attract positive situations to you. Your communication skills can be improved on this year, both in your personal and professional life. You can also take time out to communicate with your soul through meditation, talking to spiritually minded people or by taking personal development courses. This is a great time to let go of any situations which are causing conflict, and also to work on resolving inner conflicts that may be holding you back from feeling joy and immersing yourself fully in life. A sense of humour will help at this time, along with regular exercise, which serves to raise your energy levels. Of course, surrounding yourself with loving friends can uplift you too. By the time you reach 2023, you may well find that you are feeling more confident, relaxed and happier with yourself and the world. But can you infuse a sense of lightness and fun into your life? Can you let go of some long-standing negative ways of reacting and responding to certain aspects of your life? You’re best served when you focus forward this year and work at changing things that aren’t working for you anymore and also trust your creativity and actively engage in clear communication. This is the year to tap into every form of creativity you have in you! Yet 2022 can feel a bit oxymoronic too. It’s set up as a lighter year where fun, optimism, and self-improvement are at the forefront - and yet sometimes it will feel rather heavy emotionally. The year brings in both creative energy and emotional energy. It will place your emotional life and your emotional reactions, responses, traumas, and stories under the microscope. Overall, though, the vibe of the year is more energetic, fun, and creative. It’s a time where infusing any kind of creativity into your engagements will be really satisfying - that includes work-related projects and other parts of your private life as well. Your mantra for the year: Explore your joy!
Benefits of the year:
You’ll feel creative, communicative, and ready to get yourself “out there.”
You’ll feel lighter and fun loving.
You’ll feel the impulse to shake things up.
You’ll have the opportunity to tap into your sense of joy.
You’ll feel expansive, as though you have a lot to give to yourself and to the world.
Potential Challenges of the year:
Be aware that you’ll feel scattered with all the creative energies around you. Make sure to focus on specific goals and actions or you’ll feel like a spinning top.
Protect yourself from bouts of depression or self-doubt by being aware that those emotions are key players this year. Recognize the signs so you can move through them effectively.
Be prepared for defaulting into sarcasm, criticism, or emotional paralysis when you are feeling overwhelmed.
The Question you must ask yourself in 2022: “How can I improve myself?” Ultimately the lesson of the year resides in finding your joy, developing and acting upon your creativity, and speaking your truth.