cancer man and taurus female.
Will we ever be friends again or more? I have been friends with a cancer male 12/7/80. I am a Taurus 22/04/81. After 14 years of on/ off friendship, a very quick physical relationship developed. After 3 weeks, my cancer friend withdrew without any explanation. He refuses to see me and after a few whatsapp messages, it appears he has deleted my contact. We had no arguments. I feel I cannot get over this person.
MissyD, a love relationship here it is not the most compatible and in fact can be problematic. Friendship would have been a lot longer-lasting. Although your partner has a persuasive, formidable and attractive personality, you will eventually build up an 'immunity' to his powers of seduction over the years. A highly passionate individual, he can lash out in fits of temper, anger or jealousy. This can be extremely unpleasant for you, as you can take a great deal but only up to a point - that being, usually, the point where you feel your peace and well-being are threatened. On the other hand, your lack of emotional sensitivity can ultimately be a major problem for this man, who requires a partner who understands his very emotional nature. You can be intolerant with his dramas and neediness so he may seek sympathy elsewhere. He can be very demanding emotionally and wishes to have all your time and attention but you will tend to get impatient with this sort of emotional dependence. He can become too smothering and controlling for you who are more of an independent soul.
Thank you soo much @TheCaptain . I should have clarified, he is not my partner. We have not seen each other in 4 months as he has totally withdrawn himself. He did once tell me that there is a part of my personality that he does not like (perhaps he has sensed that I lack emotional sensitivity) He did not tell me what it was. I desperately want to speak to him but he is not letting me in at all. Will it always stay like this? What I do not understand is that fair enough he does not want a relationship/marriage but why has he cut me out as a friend. This is really stopping me from moving on and getting to know others How does one dismiss 14 years of friendship? Does he not care about my feelings?
@MissyD he requires emotional sensitivity from you but is not prepared to give it back to you from himself. He is being selfish by convincing himself it is your fault.
Am I better off moving on?
@MissyD I would advise you to never wait around for anyone. Get on with your life.
@TheCaptain Thank you for this. Appreciate all. This all makes sense and has put things into perspective. I should not wait around for anyone but I feel this isn't the last I will be hearing from him?! On top of that, I do feel that my feelings for him are too strong and I am having such a hard time letting go. On top of that, I think with people like me, I cannot rest until I get answers off someone (stubborn side).
I was wondering if you can kindly do a general reading for me, my main interest is love and happiness in general. Thank you
@MissyD a reading for 2022?
MissyD, 2022 is going to be a real roller-coaster ride for you. The year will be full of big changes and big opportunities. Some changes however may seem more like upheavals or very negative at the time but will ultimately prove to be beneficial in hindsight. To reap the benefit of opportunities that come your way, you will need to remain positive and optimistic in your outlook. Read about the Law of Attraction as this, of all years, is a time when it can work very well for you. What you focus on and believe in will happen in 2022. This is a time of freedom and expansiveness, and it is possible that you will find yourself driven by a desire to break free from your usual routine, delve into unknown areas, and reconstruct your life in a way that feels more authentic to you. This is a time for taking action, expressing yourself (particularly through writing if you do it), and finding new people, new places and new situations. You may change yourself, your relationships, your job, your home or whatever. The year is going to expand your horizons and your viewpoint. The way to successfully cope with all the changes is to be flexible and up for anything. 2021 was your hard-working year that helped you organize and order your life so that you could be open to and ready for this present year of change. 2022 is a year of adventure and freedom. It's a time when exploration and reaching out to others will bring amazing opportunities. It's a good time to advertise and sell. Surprises are in store for you now, and your usual routine will be broken. This is a year when exciting relationships can be formed, or, if you are already in a partnership, new life can be breathed into the relationship.
If you are feeling incredibly uninhibited and ready to have the time of your life, it’s because of the influence of vibes in 2022. This energy is associated with adventure, sensuality and experimentation, and it can be a mesmerising year, particularly for relationships. If you’ve been feeling like you need a bit of a push to make important changes in your life, then this vibration will help you do it. This year may also bring unexpected changes to your life if you try to fight your natural forward progression. Similarly, if you try to force situations, you may find they rebound on you with the same velocity. Where commitments have become stuck with seemingly no way out, sudden resolutions may appear and free your life up. Even if you are normally prone to speculation, this year can turn your life upside down. If it needs to be rearranged so that you continue in the right direction, then anything can happen. Sometimes it may feel as if there is no one to turn to and nothing to hold on to, or as if there’s no earth beneath your feet. This may be designed to keep you on your toes, so that you do not become complacent about the necessary changes in your life. However, restlessness may make you more accident-prone, so you may need to act with forethought and intent. Likewise, forgetting to pay bills because you are rushing everywhere may lead to sticky situations. 2022 will offer you wonderful opportunities to get crystal-clear about your life and to put it into perspective. This may require a lot of communication, which is great because you need to work on this quality in this year. Good communication can help to kick-start your career or boost your closeness within a relationship. Perhaps you can start off by communicating with yourself by keeping a daily diary, so you can keep track of and monitor your thoughts. Or you may write letters to express yourself to your loved ones, which may be easier than speaking to them in person, as it allows you to really think about what you need to say.
In order to make the most of this year's energy, you need to embrace change. Any kind of procrastination may compound situations and prolong them, so that this year may be full of stops and starts. However, as much as you’d like to talk yourself out of facing situations, you can if you want keep your mind positive and talk yourself into them. Indeed, you may find yourself craving regularity this year, but it could be a wasted sentiment. Life will be full of surprises and should not be boring, particularly if you pounce on some of the exciting opportunities on offer, and are versatile with it. It’s time to allow your soul to speak to you and for you to use your gifts to their fullest. The year holds great potential to be a red-letter time for any adventurous pursuits you’ve been dreaming about. It’s the perfect year for extra travel, especially if the excursions challenge your sense of fearless abandon or bring up some fear or trepidation. It’s your year to get out there, have fun, and test your limits. Yet also know that you can feel a sense of not knowing which way to turn or what invitation to accept. “Freedom” is your siren call in 2022 and anything related to cultivating and acting upon your idea of freedom is your primary action item this year. But the warning label reads like this: Make sure you harness in all the opportunities coming your way, and use some focus and self-discipline along the way, or the year will jet by without much to show for it. It’s all about stretching yourself, stepping into the new and unknown, and being open to changes while simultaneously acting upon a certain level of self-discipline. The energy of the year will support you in all things freedom-related and yet your challenge is to use this frenetic energy optimally by not spinning out of control or alternately, by not retracting from this energy. For those of us who experience a level of fear around certain aspects of our lives, this is the year where you’ll come face to face with those fears. If you’re a person who clings to a certain level of control, order, routine, and predictability - then 2022 won’t be much fun at all. It can test your ability to think outside your own box and embrace different levels of “living a little” that you might find distasteful, if not slightly horrifying. Advice - explore, look for adventure, keep your eyes open for opportunities, and mingle. Are you ready and receptive to moving through your fear-factor or your comfort zone? Can you take steps and strides that open the door for more freedom in your life? 2022 will be exhilarating and exhausting for you, so thankfully things will settle and calm down for you in 2023.
Benefits of the year:
You’ll feel sensual and sexually attractive.
You’ll feel empowered when you’re riding the wave of the energy of the year while also establishing healthy parameters around your actions.
You’ll have success when you embrace your magnetism and focus your intentions on something specific.
You’ll have the opportunity to move through boredom and into mastery of a subject or area of expertise.
You’ll feel free to choose what you want to do and when you want to do it.
Potential Challenges of the year:
Be aware that even though this is a year of constant change, you may feel fear rather than fearlessness.
Protect yourself from over-indulgence and recklessness by embracing the fact you always feel better at the end of the day when you have followed a plan, no matter how loosely structured.
Be prepared to default into a teeter-totter mode: everything feels like it’s going up and down, up and down. This is a great year to discern what freedom actually means to you and then begin steps to bring more of it into your life. In order for you to do this with success, you must be able to focus and follow through.
The Question you must ask yourself in 2022: “What does freedom look and feel like to me?” More time? Money? A different job? Different relationship situation? “Freedom” and “change” are your themes for the year. It’s time to travel and tap into your sense of fearless adventure – but not necessarily a time to make a long-term commitment.
@TheCaptain oh wow. That took me a whole night to read and digest I will take each day/week/month at a time.
I am currently speaking to a potential. He seems like a very good guy. I am not too sure though?!
This is a year when exciting relationships can be formed, or, if you are already in a partnership, new life can be breathed into the relationship. What did you mean by this?
@MissyD you will either meet someone new and exciting or make a current relationship more exciting.
Will I have no dealings with my cancer male?
@MissyD These two signs are very aggressive to make relationship So make it go to up is very hard but If you want to stable then you need to understand your mate mood and other thing to high
Be who you see and feel you are.
For myself, I realized that I love to play.