Captain can you please do a reading g for me.
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I would like to know why my b.f. always has to have the final say so and control of any situation? Down to whether I cancel my checking account or keep it? Also things like when I go back to work. Why does he want me to keep him posted on what jobs I apply for? Is he concerned about getting coronavirus or is he trying to control me? my bd is 12-12-1980. Does he not realize he is making me feel smothered in our relationship?
He is trying to control you and this is why he doesn't want you to get your own place = freedom.
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@TheCaptain then when he gets mad at me over something I said. He throws it in my face. That I am not working and he's carrying the financial load and I don't contribute anything to the relationship. When he didn't want me to work cause of coronavirus. So if he didn't want me to work then why throw it in my face? I told him I'm not putting up with this. He's nice as pie normally then when he gets mad he starts saying crap. I think he's just stressed out. But still I am not a personal punching bag, and I don't deserve it. Thats why I go back and forth about moving out too. When its good its great. When its not its simply,not good at all.
@TulipLilly again you have a man trying to control you - this is your pattern and you must break it. When it's good in your relationship, it's probably because you are doing what you are told.