Dating a Virgo male and after 3 months told me he loved me. He knew I wanted to move slowly so those words took me off guard and I didn't say it back. Needless to say it hurt him but he didn't say anything until he exploded with emotions. Now he is saying he doesn't want to lose me in his life but he needs time bc he is a mess as it destroyed him I didn't say it back. I do love him and told him when we tried talking afterwards. Should I wait on him to get past the emotional turmoil or just walk away?
Walk away - he is wanting you to do love on his timetable and not yours. He has emotional problems that you will find hard to deal with.