9 of wands and 3 of cups?
I did a quick spread of how someone feels about me overall and I got the 9 of swords, which means they feel guarded. I needed a clarification as to why they felt guarded and i got the 3 of cups.
Does this mean they feel guarded because i remind them of someone from their past?
It's possible that they feel guarded because of something that has happened to them in their past. Maybe they fear losing you or letting you down. They are probably basing what is yet to come on their past experiences.