This is what BOUNDARIES look like ...
It is NOT my job to fix other people, just myself.
It is okay if other people get angry.
It is okay to say "no!"
It is NOT my job to take responsibility for other people.
I DON'T have to anticipate other people's needs.
It is my job to make me happy.
Nobody has to agree with me..
I have a right to my own feelings.
I am enough.
I agree 100% with what you have written
I just cannot apply it to me
my plan for 2021
@Jayann how about this?
The laws of success are easy to understand and apply. Use these daily steps to incorporate The Seven Spiritual Laws into your life in a week:
Sunday (or whatever day you want to start): The Law of Pure Potentiality
Take time to be silent, to just BE. Meditate for 30 minutes twice a day. Silently witness the intelligence within every living thing. Practice non-judgment.
Monday: The Law of Giving
Today, bring whomever you encounter a gift: a compliment or flower. Gratefully receive gifts. Keep wealth circulating by giving and receiving care, affection, appreciation and love.
Tuesday: The Law of Karma
Every action generates a force of energy that returns to us in like kind. Choosing actions that bring happiness and success to others ensures the flow of happiness and success to you.
Wednesday: The Law of Least Effort
Accept people, situations, and events as they occur. Take responsibility for your situation and for all events seen as problems. Relinquish the need to defend your point of view.
Thursday: The Law of Intention and Desire
Inherent in every intention and desire is the mechanics for its fulfillment. Make a list of desires. Trust that when things don’t seem to go your way, there is a reason.
Friday: The Law of Detachment
Allow yourself and others the freedom to be who they are. Do not force solutions—allow solutions to spontaneously emerge. Uncertainty is essential, and your path to freedom.
Saturday: The Law of Dharma
Seek your higher Self. Discover your unique talents. Ask yourself how you are best suited to serve humanity. Using your unique talents and serving others brings unlimited bliss and abundance.