Is Scorpio man done with me now? What does his silence mean?

  • I’m 22 and never got advice about men from my parents. Within a span of 3 weeks. 3 family members have died of covid and my mom is going blind in one eye which is causing her to have strong depression. I’ve been staying strong being the oldest of all my siblings. But I recently had a breakdown. It was bad. Lashing out on everyone crying one minute angry the next. After seeing a pic of one of the family members who passed away I snapped, I was so close to her. And seeing my mother cry cause of her eyesight made it worse. I lashed out on him the day after we had sex. Blowing up his phone mad cause he didn’t respond to a text I sent hours ago. I’ve been Begging for his forgiveness. He hasn’t responded to any of it. I feel so bad. I’m getting grief counseling from my university tomorrow. And even though we were casual he’s really been a nice person and loved hanging out with me and enjoyed having sex with me a lot, we were becoming friends.I hate to burn bridges. I would at least like to be his friend. But how can I earn his forgiveness and trust? I wasn’t actually even mad at him. My emotions have been horrible. I was holding it all in. I even bought sorry gifts to be sent to his place cause I feel so horrible. We’ve always gotten along and I’ve never been like this before. I’ve just been crying or getting angry a lot. And I feel so bad and guilty that I haven’t been able to sleep.

    When I called once he blocked my call but my iMessages aren’t blocked. Honestly I wanted to explain myself and sincerely apologize. We were becoming close. I never told him all the stuff I was going through

  • He got really scared off. He never thought you could be like this. Leave him alone and he may in time forgive you - but I doubt he will forget.

  • @TheCaptain you think it’s really possible for him to forgive me? I had been going through so much, especially seeing my mom going blind and her depression. I was so emotional, I didn’t mean to take it out on him. I wrote him a letter I was gonna send it attach it to a gift

  • @Ariesgirl24 don't send gifts or he will think you are trying to buy him. It is your behaviour that will make the difference and you also have to work on your anger and frustration issues to stop taking it out on the people around you.

  • @TheCaptain ive never had anger issues before. I didn’t start getting super emotional and angry until 3 of my family members died and my mom started going blind also. But I am changing and getting grief counseling which is helping. The gift was just me trying to do something nice

  • @Ariesgirl24 be honest now - the gift was to try to win him back.

  • @TheCaptain to do something nice cause he always did nice things for me. I would’ve rather did something nice in person but I can’t. The letter was to win him back, I explained everything and poured my heart out. I sent one last text telling him that I’m sorry and to please read the letter I sent and if he doesn’t want the fist please return it. He responded finally and said that we can talk when he gets back from vacation. Hopefully thats a good sign

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