Hekatesxing or Captain, Can someone please do a reading about an idea that i have to see the girls, will my bf be ok with my compromise or will it end in break up?
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I came up with a compromise for both parties concerned, and its a way to see my girls. Can someone please do a reading about this. Will the compromise and my idea,will my boyfriend agree with it? Or will he be so pissed he will break up with me? Or will he compromise with me so I can see my girls? My bd is 12-12-80 his is 6-24-70. Thanks:)
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So long as you put this idea to your boyfriend in an undemanding, non-pushy manner and make it clear he has a definite say and a voice in this decision, I feel he will be happy to help your kids in any way he can as he is naturally nurturing and protective regarding family.
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@TheCaptain I was going to approach it in such a way with my ideas written down on paper with different options. The one idea i had was to take them to my moms house and camp out with them there for a couple of days. Then take them home. Second idea I had was to visit them a couple times in a week and take them to the park and have a picnic lunch. I was going to have my friend there that is an attorney to.discuss it with us too. I don't know if thats a bad idea or not? Do you see if my ex husbands girlfriend will be able to work with us and compromise? Or will they push the old schedule that we had?
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@TulipLilly your ex and his girlfriend will not make this easy but if you persevere and show that your ideas are simply practical and good for the children, you will win through.
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@TheCaptain do u think my ex husbands girlfriend has the best of intentions in this matter? Where it concerns myself and her ?
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@TulipLilly no!
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@TheCaptain I thought she seemed like she was really understanding of the situation. We seem to get along really well. I don't know how she feels about my bf though.
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@TulipLilly she will always put her own needs first. I feel like she is keeping an eye on you to see what you get up to regarding your ex.
