Can I get a reading on this man ?

  • Him 01/13/1986
    Me 08/28/1991

    Will this Capricorn man and I ever get into a serious committed relationship? Where is this heading ? What is hiding that he is not telling me ? Is he into me and for what reasons ? Why is he not contacting me often ? Where do you see this relationship between him and heading ? Do you see marriage between me and him in the near future ??

  • This would be a good relationship for marriage. But you would have to accept that his work will always come first with this man. And that he can have trouble managing his feelings of anger and disappointment. The relationship itself can be extremely unforgiving as both of you will expect a lot from each other. As much as you might not like it, you have to allow this man to take the lead and decide the direction of the relationship as he likes to be the boss. But he is a charismatic flirt and may play around a lot before he settles on one partner.

  • @TheCaptain thank you for your reading. I've definitely noticed that he likes to be in charge and take charge of everything. If I try to make plans with him, he will find a reason to cancel, after a while I realized or can say learn, everything has to be on his term and when he is ready. It's a bit frustrating but heh I can deal lol.

    I just need to know what his situation is and should wait for him? I was told by a reader before that she sees us getting serious in a relationship by November, but how can that be when he doesn't even call/text. Since week I finally told myself I'm wasting my time and delete his number from my inbox, the funny thing is while doing so, my damn big thumb clicked on facetime, and my phone facetime him it rings once before I caught it. He texts me after I gave all one-word responses before shutting it down and letting him know I was working and that it was an accident face timing him. I haven't heard from him since. I do want him and wanna marry him and have his kids but I need to know what the outcome if I stick around and wait for him.

  • The bad news is that he is going through a year of letting go of everything and everyone he feels he doesn't need in his life. If he doesn't come back to you in 2020, he is unlikely to ever do so. But why would you want to be with someone who would want to control you and never let you have a say or make a decision in the relationship anyway?

    Your good news is that this can be a special year of attainment for you professionally, so put all thoughts of romance aside and focus your energy on career opportunities and achieving long-term security. It will pay off big-time for you.

  • @TheCaptain honestly I don't know why I want him so much idk... Feelings I guess I can't even put a word to it. Right now I'm fighting with them to release myself from it.

    You're right, It has been one hell of a year so far for me. It has been an impactful year of letting go, come to think of it I was thinking of him a lot over the years so maybe he came back so I can finally see what I was holding on to for so long so I can finally let go. Probably unfinished business. My career and professional has been amazing this year, and it's getting even better, I feel so much clarity going further about going back to school and working on myself. He's is a mere distraction I'm going to need to let go of.

  • @Fancysolia haha you go girl, don’t let no man dictate your happiness. Girl power ⚡

  • I think over the years this guy has become more an ideal fantasy than reality to you. Maybe you are just feeling the urge to reach out to someone for support and comfort - loneliness can make the biggest loser look good.

  • @TheCaptain omg you hit it right on the mark, I actually reached out to him at a time when I was feeling lost and just alone and I just kept thinking the last time I felt safe was years prior when I met him. I was younger and had no stress in my life. I wanted to go back there again. You're right I was trying to escape and live in a fantasy for just a while. I've realized this a while back and just brushed it to the side because I needed it. What I need to do is move on and let him stick with his on/off girlfriend he has. He told me they broke up and I just knew he was lying about it. I didn't want to accept that he loves her and is choosing her.

    I do need to let go and focus on what important here and that is my job. I'm stressed out and worried about it. Do you see me staying at this job long and getting promoted?

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