Im 37. I'm Looking for True Love

  • Gemini wont give me a clear answer. I want to make it with him. I really have to work on myself. a year and a half Ive gotten nothing done to get myself better. I'm 37 years old. I wanted to be married by the time I am 40 yrs old. I have been reflecting on my past. Especially my past relationship with Gemini. Can you give me insight on my life? My brother tells me I am in no position to offer up anything in a relationship right now. I have not had my license for 6 years. A steady Job in a long time. I'm hoping once the city opens I can try to get a job at the airport. Amazon. Something. Gemini lives in another state. I just moved back east from living a year on the west coast. Can you give me any insight on the next month coming up? Not much I can do right now. Until things reopen.

  • What is your date of birth?

  • @PiscesGemini March 8 1983 12:46 am

  • @PiscesGemini, life will calm down for you in 2020, after last year’s chaotic ups and downs. 2020 for you will be all about evaluating the relationships in your life, starting with your relationship with yourself where you may have to let go of old tired attitudes, regrets or fears that aren't serving you. On the career front - it’s a “make or break” time for business. Issues related to control and perfectionism are also under review this year. You’ll be handed experiences that challenge you to let go of outgrown or counter-productive controlling tendencies. It’s a year where you’ll be required to heighten your sense of responsibility to your home and family environment. Don’t be surprised if you need to take on some added weight with home and domestic or family matters. Embrace it instead of resenting it. There’ll be added tension around how you relate with your close relationships, however. You are likely to find your relationship with those near and dear to you growing ever closer and stronger this year, while any relationship that is no longer of mutual benefit will come under the microscope and may actually end (if it didn’t already end last year). It can be a great year for marriage if you have met ‘the one’. It’s also time to investigate if you feel empowered or disempowered in your home and domestic life. Your energy levels will run high this year, but you should watch for hasty or impetuous behaviour. Remember that haste makes waste. As long as you direct your excess energy constructively, instead of wasting your time in conflict, you can accomplish much. It is a time when you may be concerned with taking care of your home, perhaps decorating, buying furniture, or even finding a new home. It is also worthwhile to consider taking courses that focus on your well-being and balance. If you have ever wanted to paint, sing, act, or play a musical instrument for pleasure, this is also favoured in 2020. 2021 will tend to be a quiet, reflective sort of period where you can gain much insight and understanding of who you are. Whereas 2020 will centre around and be all about looking after others - friends and family, and your home. Next year it will be time to look after yourself and your needs and wants. Then 2022 will be your BIG chance for success and material gains. It will be the best year in a while for your career and finances if you are prepared to take educated risks and promote yourself.

    For you, 2020 is associated with wholeness and, during this year, you may be aware of some aspect of your life that needs attending to so that you can feel complete. For example, you may have unresolved issues with a family member, and by speaking with them, it may help you to release a great deal. During 2020, it is advisable to be aware of which emotional attachments need healing too, so that you can bring all your energy back into the present. For example, you may not even realise you are still attached to an idyllic, romantic summer holiday you spent with a lover, and part of you may really wish you were still there. You may find that you are particularly sentimental this year, which prevents you from letting go of old love-letters, photographs and memorabilia. This process may mean revisiting painful emotions, but by facing them and realising they’re from the past, you can gently allow them to dissolve. In 2020, you may find that you get very deeply involved in a relationship, a work project or with family affairs. You may go over and over situations until you get them right or until they are perfect, and you will not let issues drop. You may open up your heart so deeply that it shifts your perspective on life for the better, so you become more loving towards others. Indeed, this is a great time to reach out to support and nourish those within your community, and to learn to love and nurture yourself too. You may be made very aware of your choices during this year, and you will need to choose between helping yourself and serving the greater good. Others may reassure you that you are making the right decisions, but your conscience will tell you the truth. The year’s energy will focus energy on relationships, on the element of friendship, and on children and family within this framework. There may be issues with commitments or collective responsibilities, which you may work through. These issues can be made easier if you keep your vision focused firmly on the bigger picture, and by remembering to put yourself into that picture as you may neglect your own needs too. There may be challenges to deal with if you just judge situations by their appearances which, as you know, aren’t always what they seem. You may find 2020 a fertile time for your creativity, and search for as many ways as possible to express it. Like buying a new cookery book that changes your relationship with food, making simple changes on how you approach your life can make an enormous impact. This is a good year to focus on healing your relationships. Well actually, every year is a good year to focus on relationships. But 2020 holds more power and urgency. The spotlight is on and it’s boring a hole through your protective shell and exposing your relationship dynamics in a way that you can usually either avoid or “make nice.” This year: Not so much. It’s a time devoted to ‘thin-slice’ who you are and how you relate - to yourself and to others in your sphere. And along with the spotlight on your relationship world, it’s a “domestic” year where home, family, duty, and service take a front seat. Not only does the year offer opportunities to nestle into what home means to you, it also offers you a time where you literally might be drawn toward moving into a new home, making home improvements, or getting serious about a home-based business. The over-reaching theme: Do you feel at home in your mind, body, and spirit - as well as in your actual home?

    Benefits of the year:
    You’ll feel as though you are Yoda from ‘Star Wars’. Everyone wants your advice this year. Advise wisely and well, because people take what you say to heart.
    You’ll feel empowered when you’re finding ways to take care of yourself with the same focus and dedication that you care for others.
    You’ll have success when you trust your ability to see the bigger picture while moving toward your goal in manageable steps.
    You’ll have the opportunity to be supportive to your family and loved ones in different ways than you have in the past.
    You’ll feel useful to others and grounded in your sense of yourself.

    Potential Challenges of the year:
    Be aware that even though this is a year devoted to nurturing and responsibility, you might not feel all that excited about taking on this task.
    Protect yourself from a tendency toward perfectionism this year. You have too much going on; understand that good enough is good enough.
    Be prepared to feel as though the weight of the world rests on your shoulders. While this is a year for nurturing and paying attention to the loved ones in your life, make sure that you’re part of the equation. You have to ask for what you need from others in order to get your own needs met.

    The Question you must ask yourself in 2020: “Should I stay or should I go?” Can you turn the tables and focus on developing an intimate relationship with yourself - mind, body, and spirit? Are you available to step in and take responsibility where it’s appropriate and place boundaries around what might be pressing those limits?

  • @PiscesGemini when it comes to love, you may have some subconscious and ambivalent issues holding you back. Part of you may desire a freedom from commitment. Those who travel alone through life may seem to have a kind of 'freedom' in the sense of having no one to answer to, few responsibilities, and fewer compromises to make. But you won't necessarily find freedom in isolation or running away. You crave intimacy but can have problems with it as you tend to be a loner. You can be passionate but are afraid of losing control, and for your relationships to be fulfilling, you need to learn to be more spontaneous and to take more risks. You may blame other people - your partner, family, friends, boss, or children - for blocking your freedom when it is in fact your own lack of internal freedom that actually blocks you. No one is stopping you but you. You must discover how to retain your independence without alienating other people in the process. Compromise is the glue that holds society together and sometimes the greater good outweighs individual need. .You must take charge of creating what you need for yourself, instead of looking for the ideal parent you may never have had. Until you do, you may attract or choose partners who will bring up freedom issues or upon whom you become dependent and whom you then in turn resent. At some point, you must work through issues of cooperation with self and others, and a committed relationship can provide the arena. You need to acknowledge your desire for variety and adventure and find a partner who can understand and help you fulfill your desire. Whether you see a relationship as a doorway to deeper freedom and experience or as a jail cell determines how the relationship fares.

  • Thank you for your response. Before get into detail about it. I want to ask you about these numbers I keep seeing at night. 3:16. I was seeing it every night. I would forget and everynight Id glance at the clock at the same time. now its not every night. I know it relates to the bible but in astrology what could it mean? Do you believe in signs?

  • @PiscesGemini according to a numbers expert, 316 is a combination of the attributes of number 3, the energies of number 1 and the vibrations of number 6. Number 316 is a message to shift your focus from the financial and material aspects of your world to your inner spirituality and to what you really want to do with your life. Use your own inner-radar and discern what resonates with you (and what does not), live your truth, walk your walk and talk your talk. Be true to yourself and do not fear stepping out of your comfort zone in order to make full use of your natural skills and talents in positive and uplifting ways. Listen to your intuitive messages and take on new ventures and/or projects with enthusiasm and optimism. Number 316 is a message to trust that your home and family will be catered for and material needs will be met as required. Keep your focus on practical things and release any fears of lack or loss to your angels for transmutation and healing. Your angels support and encourage you to keep your thoughts, prayers and expectations optimistic and positive as this will assist with manifesting your desires. Happiness is a part of your Divine mission. Number 316 also asks you to look at the material items in your life and decide what is no longer positively serving you. De-clutter your life and donate or sell off material items that could be of practical use to others.

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