Love reading please ?
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Hello all ! I have been trying for some time to figure out if I am wasting my time or not on the one man (he’s a cancer born June 28,1989 ) and me a Virgo ,( sept 9 1994). I keep getting many confusing feelings , I feel there is something there but maybe we are both too busy / or scared of commitment. Should I say something to him ? Or is this a bad idea? I also have been recieving readings tell me about how there are two men in my life , one from the past that I should avoid and one that is new that will bring me happiness , except I have no idea who the other man is , and whether this man im pursuing is considered the past one after only a few months or if he’s the new ? Any reading someone could give me is much appreciated, thank you in advance love and light xx
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@jodomi the relationship with Cancer man looks easier for friendship than it does for love which would be challenging. This guy sees you as a bit of an enigma because he is good at picking up other people's feelings but yours elude him. You would have to open up a lot more to ignite his interest romantically as he feels you are somewhat cold or distant.
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@thecaptain thank you, yes I actually want to open up more to him but felt maybe I would have to tell him how I felt about him first in order to do that , am I wrong?
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@jodomi
How did you feel about him originally
if it was not love in the first instant how did he change your mind.
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@jayann I felt an immediate connection and of course there was attraction , but it’s a bit much to call it love at first site like that .
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@Jodomi
then tell him what trait(s) ignited your unconscious interest.
be truly intimate by sharing private information.
I think I read something by @TheCaptain about visualising you other half,
Am I right @TheCaptain
This might help.
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Just be honest.
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@thecaptain thank you I am going to talk to him about it, nervous but I’m ready
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@jayann thanks it’s a good idea x
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@jodomi I have found that if I can detach myself from the outcome, romantically or otherwise, all of the anxiety disappears. This way nothing is forced, and things flow in a way that is natural to you. Easier said than done sometimes.
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@andidilly yes very hard but I will try it
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I have told him how I feel and his answer was very unclear
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@jodomi what did he say?
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@thecaptain he only said that there was nothing wrong with me saying how I felt , but didn’t say if he felt the same or not when I asked (at least he hasn’t yet)
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@jodomi are you prepared to wait for him to make up his mind (could be a while and it might not be in your favour) or do you tell him you are looking for someone to commit to you and so you move on?
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@thecaptain I can wait , but do you think he will ?
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I don't think he is 'waiting' now - I think he is looking for the exit in case he has to flee if you tell him you want a commitment.
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@thecaptain what do you mean?
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