Could you give me a 2020 reading, or a birthday reading, please? DOB 9 nov. 1977. Thank you!
If you choose to embrace the year’s energy and direction, things will thankfully calm down for you in 2020, after 2019’s chaotic ups and downs. 2020 for you will be all about evaluating the relationships in your life, starting with your relationship with yourself where you may have to let go of old tired attitudes, regrets or fears that aren't serving you. On the career front - it’s a “make or break” time for business. Issues related to control and perfectionism are also under review this year. You’ll be handed experiences that challenge you to let go of outgrown or counter-productive controlling tendencies. It’s a year where you’ll be required to heighten your sense of responsibility to your home and family environment. Don’t be surprised if you need to take on some added weight with home and domestic or family matters. Embrace it instead of resenting it. There’ll be added tension around how you relate with your close relationships, however. You are likely to find your relationship with those near and dear to you growing ever closer and stronger this year, while any relationship that is no longer of mutual benefit will come under the microscope and may actually end (if it didn’t already end last year). It can be a great year for marriage if you have met ‘the one’. It’s also time to investigate if you feel empowered or disempowered in your home and domestic life. Your energy levels will run high this year, but you should watch for hasty or impetuous behaviour. Remember that haste makes waste. As long as you direct your excess energy constructively, instead of wasting your time in conflict, you can accomplish much. It is a time when you may be concerned with taking care of your home, perhaps decorating, buying furniture, or even finding a new home. It is also worthwhile to consider taking courses that focus on your well-being and balance. If you have ever wanted to paint, sing, act, or play a musical instrument for pleasure, this is also favoured in 2020. 2021 will tend to be a quiet, reflective sort of period where you can gain much insight and understanding of who you are. Whereas 2020 will centre around and be all about looking after others - friends and family, and your home. Next year it will be time to look after yourself and your needs and wants. Then 2022 will be your BIG chance for success and material gains. It will be the best year in a while for your career and finances if you are prepared to take educated risks and promote yourself.
For you, 2020 will be associated with wholeness and, during this year, you may be aware of some aspect of your life that needs attending to so that you can feel complete. For example, you may have unresolved issues with a family member, and by speaking with them, it may help you to release a great deal. During 2020, it is advisable to be aware of which emotional attachments need healing too, so that you can bring all your energy back into the present. For example, you may not even realise you are still attached to an idyllic, romantic summer holiday you spent with a lover, and part of you may really wish you were still there. You may find that you are particularly sentimental this year, which prevents you from letting go of old love-letters, photographs and memorabilia. This process may mean revisiting painful emotions, but by facing them and realising they’re from the past, you can gently allow them to dissolve. In 2020, you may find that you get very deeply involved in a relationship, a work project or with family affairs. You may go over and over situations until you get them right or until they are perfect, and you will not let issues drop. You may open up your heart so deeply that it shifts your perspective on life for the better, so you become more loving towards others. Indeed, this is a great time to reach out to support and nourish those within your community, and to learn to love and nurture yourself too. You may be made very aware of your choices during this year, and you will need to choose between helping yourself and serving the greater good. Others may reassure you that you are making the right decisions, but your conscience will tell you the truth. The year’s energy will focus energy on relationships, on the element of friendship, and on children and family within this framework. There may be issues with commitments or collective responsibilities, which you may work through. These issues can be made easier if you keep your vision focused firmly on the bigger picture, and by remembering to put yourself into that picture as you may neglect your own needs too. There may be challenges to deal with if you just judge situations by their appearances which, as you know, aren’t always what they seem. You may find 2020 a fertile time for your creativity, and search for as many ways as possible to express it. Like buying a new cookery book that changes your relationship with food, making simple changes on how you approach your life can make an enormous impact.
Benefits of the year:
You’ll feel as though you are Yoda from ‘Star Wars’. Everyone wants your advice this year. Advise wisely and well, because people take what you say to heart.
You’ll feel empowered when you’re finding ways to take care of yourself with the same focus and dedication that you care for others.
You’ll have success when you trust your ability to see the bigger picture while moving toward your goal in manageable steps.
You’ll have the opportunity to be supportive to your family and loved ones in different ways than you have in the past.
You’ll feel useful to others and grounded in your sense of yourself.
Potential Challenges of the year:
Be aware that even though this is a year devoted to nurturing and responsibility, you might not feel all that excited about taking on this task.
Protect yourself from a tendency toward perfectionism this year. You have too much going on; understand that good enough is good enough.
Be prepared to feel as though the weight of the world rests on your shoulders. While this is a year for nurturing and paying attention to the loved ones in your life, make sure that you’re part of the equation. You have to ask for what you need from others in order to get your own needs met.
The Question you must ask yourself in 2020: “Should I stay or should I go?” Can you turn the tables and focus on developing an intimate relationship with yourself - mind, body, and spirit? Are you available to step in and take responsibility where it’s appropriate and place boundaries around what might be pressing those limits?
@thecaptain Thank you, as usual, your reading is very appreciated! Well, 2020 sounds emotionally demanding.