Is this my chance too reconnect? (Cancer ex)
So recently in seeing some of the week's astrology readings, I notice that cancers are going to experience a reconnection with someone from a past relationship. Is this the right time to be able to maybe ask for some friendship in slowly building trust with my ex?
The breakup was recent, but recently there were these mugs that meant a lot to her, but they broke when we got to college. They were old ones, I managed to find them online, i ask this question because i don't want to interrupt the process of our healing and begin clouding her mind again with thoughts of regret or fear. I wanted to give them to her before because obviously her and i weren't likely to break up until we did. When we broke up i became desperate and selfish saying she couldn't leave and i was nothing without her, but i was wrong, and i need to mature. I wrote a letter explaining what i need go work on and how i was selfish and desperate and to be a better man i need to love myself and the man i want to become. Nothing like asking for a chance, i just didn't want her to remember me begging and being someone i should not have been. So i don't know if should deliver these mugs or maybe wait
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If you try to get back with her now, she will think all your promises about becoming a better person were just lies as you cannot have matured overnight. Keep the mugs until you have actually grown up.
@thecaptain you're right, after analyzing a lot of the relationship i have a lot of answers and questions but my thoughts are still clouded no matter how much I want to feel like they're not, i need to completely stop thinking about it all and focus on myself