My engagement life
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@moona-ali you are stuck and cannot move on because you still have hope for this relationship. But this hope is based on fantasy and not reality. You are hurting yourself by having false hope and you are not allowing another hopefully nicer, more reliable person to enter your life.
The reality is you were cruelly dumped by a cheater and a loser - which means you have had a lucky escape as cheaters rarely change. Odds are he is already moving off from his current girlfriend to someone else. that is his problem and not yours. Take this as a good lesson of who not to choose as a partner and move on to a better man. And work on your self-esteem - we all tend to attract a partner whom we feel we deserve. So if you are attracting untrustworthy uncaring people, it means you need to raise the way you think of yourself and believe that you deserve better. Because you do!
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@moona-ali
Being Stuck is a choice.. you can change that choice by making a new decision.. saying it out loud and taking a choice to walk across the threshold ...
Ultimately that choice is yours in what you do about it .. Have you tried the affirmations? Have you gone through and actually spoken to a counselor or someone who can professionally help you ? Being stuck and believing it is an Excuse not too move on ....It is an Excuse to say poor me ... I am a victim .... You can decide whether to stay in that victim mind set or decide you are a survivor ... you are a go getter ...Someone who chooses to love life .... for themselves .. to open themselves up to being with someone who deserves them because they are amazing ..Are you amazing? Are you wonderful? Are you the best you can possible be? Do you deserved to be treated like a Goddess?
or are you going to let yourself be treated like crap?
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Captain, is so correct .. I don't know why you keep calling him your fiance .. he is your EX ..... he is with someone else ...
You are living in a fantasy world at this time .... he is a loser and does not deserve you ....Time to let go ... move on ... it might be time to actually pay for some counseling services ... pay for someone to actually help you physically... to help you cut the cords of attachment to this .... we can only do so much here for you ..... we have shared our thoughts and beliefs about this situation .. Now it is time for you .....
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Moona ali, would I be right in that this guy made all the decisions for this relationship while you were together? you give me the impression of being a child who wants a strong substitute parent to look after her and take charge, so now you feel lost without someone to tell you what to do. But that is freedom - rejoice in it!
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@hekatesxing hmmm his such a liar I'm keep trying to move on ameen inshallah
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@thecaptain hmmm yeah I can understand his not my fiance yet his my ex now
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Not your fiance YET? You mean you have only been hoping he will ask you to marry him? How much of this is just your fantasy/hope? This man is obviously in no frame of mind to settle down with just the one woman. He has moved on and you must accept that or you will never find happiness with anyone else.
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@thecaptain hmmm
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@moona-ali Gurl as I have told you before that this man is not good for you. He is a player. He wants his cake and eat it too. You are very young and its very easy to get manipulated. This man surely is a jerk and a player.
He is plain toxic. You need to block him everywhere and mainly from your life. Shut him out completely. YOU NEED TO MOVE ON.
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@moona-ali btw you are a very cute young beautiful gurl.
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@anon-undertaker-0 yeah I'm trying to move on..
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@anon-undertaker-0 thank you
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@anon-undertaker-0 i want to know my after marriage life when I get married and all my future husband how many kids have after marriage
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@moona-ali Ok. I see.
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@anon-undertaker-0 thank you I'm waiting
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@moona-ali YWC
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@anon-undertaker-0 okay..
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@anon-undertaker-0 hi how are you I'm Happy with my life im enjoy my life to and i want to know my future
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@moona-ali
please start another topic.
also provide date of birth
I understand your need for hope and inspiration for your future.
so in your reading what areas do you with guidance career/work/employment
relationship/love
studying
housing/finance
health
good luck@TarotNick can you help
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@jayann 1986 -6 November
