Action/Advice/Outcome readings ...



  • Daliolite, your advice card is -

    The Card of Commitment

    This situation exposes a need to show more commitment and responsibility, either from you to another person or another person to you or to projects you are engaged in. There must be more concentration than usual on the fulfilling of commitments. Every promise that is made must be fulfilled and every task undertaken has to be completed - this can extend deeply into personal or non-personal issues. Push yourself to succeed. Experiment with the situation and how you approach it. Causing problems or delays may be your subconscious’ way of telling you something wants/needs change. Demonstration of loyalty will likely mean a lot to those on the receiving end of your devotion. Pay attention to the people in your life and, when something seems to be upsetting them, don’t wait for them to tell you - ask them what’s wrong and they may appreciate your concern. If not, learn when they need their space and tell them you are there for them if need be. Stay committed and faithful for as long as reasonably possible. You must all treat others the way you want to be treated. Loyalty and devotion is being there for someone when they need your help and support to keep them going; it’s being faithful to those who may depend on you. To really understand a person, to be able to see their direction, actions, desires, strengths and weaknesses, you must actively contain all of your thoughts and feelings without pushing them down or acting them out. Receptivity isn’t about action, but it is very, very active. When you’re receptive, something magical happens. People shine. They literally light up and start wanting to be in your presence more because they see themselves reflected with no judgment, interference or prejudice. So next time you’re in the presence of another person, be they a friend, family member or stranger, practice the art of receptivity. Really, really listen to and be aware of them - not just to their words, but to their body language, their actions, the tone of their voice. And don’t try to change them, since you would also hate to be changed. You either accept them as they truly are or you walk away, grateful for the lesson you learned about yourself and your relationships and satisfied you gave your very best.

    This card suggests you keep trying to connect with this man as he may need your help.



  • @TheCaptain hi captain so this card generally reinforces what I've been trying to practice esp as of late. I organized and did the funeral for his brother, posted in paper also. He was more interested in my friends house but found out it was still in his deceased wife's name. This guy is paranoid and I've known it for a long time. He told me at one point that he thought the govt killed his brother. He takes care of his mom like I do. Generally about a wk ago was thinking about my own loneliness brought on a lot by total care of my mom etc. God's been showing me the importance of relationships and VALUE. It's really something to be cherished and shouldn't be so open to judgment opinions etc. Being open to the time and moment we share together. That's my big take away. So this card is validation. Also putting the boredom out of my mind is something I try and do. Been working on my artwork to produce a calendar and that's all about commitment. I've completed 10 pictures. Maybe my gift IS my commitment. I'll try to keep communicating but feel that's the end of our thread and it hurts. He had sent me tourist flyers of Hawaii as I planned to visit--then the pandemic. I left message on FB email and mail. I don't really see this card on his end but just something God's been showing me in a big way recently.



  • @Dallyalot ps your post sums up what I need to work on beautifully



  • @TheCaptain hi captain found out that his brother did pass. He passed the same age as his brother, my friend. I had questioned at times if my friend passed by natural causes. I'm relieved in that sense. Sad that I didn't get opportunity to visit. Covid made it hard. Do you think the commitment card could also be for my strengths.



  • @Dallyalot I think the card is a lesson to be learned at any time.





  • @TheCaptain hi Captain twice today I pickup my phone and its on the phone # of my friend who passed. The second time it was on an actual conversation/message.



  • @Dallyalot do you have a question?



  • @TheCaptain Hi Captain, I just found it unusual that it kept going to his phone#. I guess I'm looking for your thoughts.
    I also need a reading. I know you give detailed readings. I'm not sure if would be better by my birth date or tarot. I'm not sure if your doing tarot. I had to quit my job due to care of my mom. Plus the job I had was a lot on my feet and I have some circulation problems. Another problem is some of the help I get to watch her. There's drama with some of the people. My sister advised me either to work or not but to disassociate with having caregivers. I get compensated from her health ins but it's not like going out and working. My life is very confined. I need some outside input.



  • @Daliolite, birthdate works best for me.



  • @TheCaptain feb 03,1960



  • @TheCaptain I am wondering if you can give me advice on what the outcome will be for the current relationship I am in as we are having some issues currently and are on a break.



  • @Pisces23 can you supply both your dates of birth?



  • @Daliolite, 2021 for you is all about a new beginning, starting a whole new chapter of your life. And you will need to approach it this way. Put old ways, attitudes and past failures or disappointments behind you now and start afresh with a clean slate. The year ahead will challenge you to step out of your comfort zone, and new opportunities - particularly related to career, social life, and creativity - will emerge. You may at times feel called to stand on your own this year, and your creativity and inventiveness will be at their peak. You will need to revise your current job or study course and decide if it makes you happy or whether it needs some improvement or even a complete change. The same goes for your personal life - now is the time to find new, more compatible companions. It can be a somewhat lonely year with the feeling that a lot rests on your shoulders and only you can get it done - without help from others. And that’s true. Yet remember, there’s a difference between solitary pursuits based in healthy independence and being alone. Independence is your mantra. But you must believe you can succeed and begin over this year, no matter what the last few years have been like. 2021 is going to be devoted to achievement in the material world and reaching your goals through organization, creativity, and endurance. Get ready for a high-intensity year. Watch, however, for impulsiveness and rash emotionally-driven decision making in 2021. Don’t waste it with frivolous activities or useless relationships. This is a year of action and a time to follow opportunities that will come your way. You will likely feel a sense of renewed energy at this time. It is OK to be a little selfish and self-involved in 2021. Take some time for introspection and self-discovery, as it will add to your clarity and sense of direction. This is definitely a time to have courage, make plans, and avoid indecision. It is a time of work, as you are laying new foundations, and opening up to new opportunities. Avoid being impulsive or headstrong as I said, yet be willing to change for the sake of your own personal progress and happiness. This is an auspicious time to begin new relationships and make new connections for personal or business reasons.

    This is a year for you of initiation and potential achievement. It holds more unambiguity than last year and is the start of a new cycle for you. It’s time to plant the seeds for what you want to see grow and mature during the next few years. The seeds you plant in 2021, you will reap later. Others might find you less sociable, as you will be busier than ever and you will tend to focus on your own activities and your needs. Yet you will still be outgoing and your initiative will be stronger than ever now. This is the year to begin with as much of a clean slate as you possibly can. If any unfinished business is left over from the transitional last year, those “loose ends” will need to be concluded before you can fully engage in the magic of the initiating energy of the year. You’ll be challenged with stepping into your individuality and fully manifesting your independence. The more you can connect with the unique off-the-beaten path aspects of yourself, the more successful you’ll be. Know there will be failures, yet the year’s designed to teach you some accelerated lessons in self-esteem, trusting yourself, and trusting your creativity. 2021 can be a career-driven time where you’ll be challenged to make substantial advances in this arena of your life. It is a rather hard-driving time where you’ll be working intensely on getting all your little ducks in a row and following up with action, action, and more action. Though this is a time when relationships can flourish, still they will often take a back seat to other matters - particularly career advancement. The theme for you and relationships resides in finding your sense of independence and individuality within your relationships in a balanced and healthy way. It’s a year where you’ll be met with opportunities to define and create your independence on all levels - when you’ll be tested with relationships that are enmeshed, co-dependent or where you are the “enabler” or the “enablee.” You’ll benefit from the initiating energy of the year when you focus with clarity on longer-range goals, while also being nimble enough to take some calculated risks and tap into your pioneering spirit.

    So then 2021 is a time for new beginnings, and you may see this reflected in any or every area of your life; getting a new haircut or makeover, receiving an exciting new job offer or promotion, starting a new relationship, taking on new commitments, a new home or a brand-new health regime – anything is possible. Perhaps the benevolent Universe will offer you a complete change of life, with the chance to walk down a new path, or purposefully head off in a different direction. This year your attitude towards life can radically shift so that everything appears new and fresh. In 2021, you may feel inexplicably excited. This is because a whole new cycle lies ahead and you are right at the beginning of it. In order to make the most of these new opportunities, there might be a period of decay where situations seem to break down and get worse for a while; this is a ‘healing crisis’ where all the muck needs to come out in order to cleanse and clear, so you can be left glowing and healthier. Endurance is needed. Perhaps you may also experience a temporary loss of direction, as your subconscious is processing where and what you need to do next. During this period, you may feel particularly influenced to follow others in their direction, particularly if they are strong characters, but be very honest with yourself about your needs before you take any action. For example, perhaps your partner wants you both to move house immediately, but you don’t, so you need to speak up and, if appropriate, arrive at a happy compromise. There is a saying, ‘whoever dares wins’, and this year putting yourself out there and getting more deeply involved with life can be both fruitful and fulfilling. Complacency may set in if you set unrealistic goals which, like New Year’s resolutions, suddenly fly out of the window with the first breeze. A positive mind will help you glide through any challenges that stop you attaining your goals, and it will probably be only you who creates major obstacles in the way of your success during this year. As mentioned, 2021 will see you working with issues around your independence; whether this is financial or material, or wanting emotional detachment, you will find out. Perhaps you are too fiercely independent already and need to learn to reach out and join in with a partner, family or friends. Or perhaps you need to become less dependent on other people for approval or help or love. The year is asking you to step forward on your own and for yourself, so that you can grow stronger and be strong for others. There may be issues around self-worth this year, and embarking upon a personal development course, consulting a life coach or reading self-help books can give you some guidance about how to resolve these issues. It’s a great time for intellectual development, and you may also be drawn to discover more about matters of the mind and soul. Best advice - stand alone, take action, start fresh, and express your individuality. This isn’t the year to dilly-dally or make half-baked decisions. You’ll be best served by getting clear about what you want and making decisive moves toward manifesting those desires. Next year will be an ‘us’ year as opposed to this year of ‘just you’. 2022 will focus on relationships of all kinds.

    So welcome to the first clean page to the first chapter of the newest book you’re working on (and you didn’t even know you were an author, did you!?) This is the next year in your life series. What’s the genre going to be? Are you ready to dive in or are you still ruminating on some unfinished ‘chapters’ of the book you’ve already completed, edited, published, and reviewed? Of course, you can’t write the ‘word-for-word’ script for the next few years - and even if you could, how boring would that be? It’s best to be open to detours, other opportunities, and happy surprises. Yet you are being asked to open that new writeable file on your computer, get out your voice notes, or haul out the pen and notebook to begin putting your new story into words and action. Be mindful of what you focus your energy and attention on, because you’re setting up the growth process for a new phase. And honestly, the importance of mindfully setting the groundwork for the next few years can’t be underestimated. If there’s ever a time to take yourself and your intentions seriously, it’s now.

    Benefits of the year:
    You’ll feel as though a weight has been lifted from you this year after the intensity of last year.
    You’ll feel a new sense of clarity about the direction you want to take in your life.
    You’ll have renewed energy to move forward.
    You’ll have the opportunity to tap into your unique vision for your future.
    You’ll feel as though you have a fresh start in your life.

    Potential Challenges of the year:
    Be aware that you’ll feel as though whatever you’re doing, you have to do it all by yourself. There may be a feeling of isolation and of having to “go it alone.” This is part of the energy of the year. It’s an opportunity to develop mastery over how you’re building and creating the next segment of your life.
    Protect yourself from low self-esteem by renewing your skill set and reminding yourself of your successes and the different ways you’ve continuously overcome adversity.
    Be prepared to default into a confrontational mode so that when you do, you recognize it and move past it quickly. You’re being asked to define your identity and follow a unique vision; therefore you’ll encounter many tests involving strength and courage.

    The Question you must ask yourself in 2021: “What do I want to see grow and blossom in the next few years or even a decade from now?” This is the time to define and act upon your goals and make the changes you need to make in order to create a vibrant and new chapter in your life.



  • @TheCaptain mine is 2/23/1980
    His is 9/18/1982



  • @TheCaptain thank you captain. Going to read over a few times and absorb this and apply. I do feel the alone part but it is getting rid of what's co dependent. I will write you to follow up in few days. Ty



  • @TheCaptain I finally completed my artwork for my calendar. It's at the printer. He's waiting to see if he can get 12x12 paper. If not, will have to make some adjustments. I designed a logo and in the process w small bus admin of getting tax forms done so can sell online. I don't think I will make much until I get more work out but you never know. I have recently disassociated w 2 of my moms caregivers and now doing that fulltime. It's hard on me being so close in. I'm also starting a new class that will enhance my credentials. A different caregiver will help. I see my mom's care as being long term meaning over the yrs. I was given that in a psychic impression. So it certainly could be long term. Art is therapy for me but I miss the people contact so much it hurts. My mom's health is finally stable after coming into my home very unstable from a nursing home. Many many Dr trips, a surgery and changes in medication not to mention getting her ins right. Finally stable. I can take a little break but the yr has already presented me many job opportunities just from me looking. I made the decision to stay home. I question myself on that a lot.



  • @Dallyalot you cannot change what has been done. Keep moving forward by looking only to the future.



  • @Pisces23 no I don't see this ever working out as a love relationship. The two of you are as different as night and day; therefore problems in attitude and beliefs will abound. As lovers, the two of you can arouse each other’s impatience and irritation in proportion to your desire, creating what is often an unbearable situation. You would do better as friends, particularly if you have few responsibilities or worries on your hands and have lots of time to hang out together.



  • @TheCaptain what advice do i need to know about men and their baby mothers?


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