How many time can one person break your heart?



  • It is possible for one person to break another persona heart repeatedly? Also for the person with the broken heart to still love and be attracted to that person?



  • @mary-grace yes itโ€™s possible. A person can break your heart as many times as you allow. For the 2nd question, also a yes. If the person lacks in self-esteem they will continue to hold on to a relationship even though they are not treated well.



  • I think in this case the broken-hearted person is living a fantasy of what the other person is, time and time again hoping that they will miraculously transform into the type of person they want, the man of their dreams. But fantasy sadly isn't reality and they will keep on being betrayed while they cannot face the truth - that the other person is simply not someone who will change into Price Charming..



  • @thecaptain
    In life there is no Prince or Princess Charming's just men/women who have the power to hurt others.
    It seems to me that men/women who have nothing to offer glue onto men/women but those who have positive effect on men/women are butterflies.
    Men/Women who find and marry men/women in their twenties are blessed.
    Men/Women who do not meet their mate in their twenties are on a hiding to nothing.
    By the time one gets to 30 all the good men/women are taken so you are left with crap.
    Married men/women do leave their husbands/wives and marry other men/women.



  • @mary-grace said in How many time can one person break your heart?:

    @thecaptain
    In life there is no Prince Charming's just men who have the power to hurt others.
    It seems to me that men who have nothing to offer glue onto women but those who have positive effect on women are butterflies.
    Women who find and marry men in their twenties are blessed.
    Women who do not meet their mate in their twenties are on a hiding to nothing.
    By the time one gets to 30 all the good men are taken so you are left with crap.
    Married men do leave their wives and marry other women.

    Oh wow! This is so gender bias ๐Ÿ™‚ Please articulate why you would even want a man or for that matter want to be married to one?



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  • @mary-grace
    just been told that you can break your heart even when the person has died.



  • Mary Grace, you are pinning too much of your hope on a man/rescuer changing your life for the better. You must and can do that for yourself, no one else can do it for you.



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