Was it right to give him space to
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Ok this was the story I heard
Girl going out married man on and off for twenty years. There is a strong connection then suddenly told "to let him go". Some years later he returns but girl is now ill and life different plus she is not sure he would not breakup again so overrules her heart and does not go out. Counsellor had told her that he had to make up is own mind. Girl gave him space and he left her and disappeared.Was she right to give him space?
What about love?
He was a Scorpio?
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Is this girl taking her meds?
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@blmoon why?
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You can bet this girl wasn't - and isn't - the only one in this guy's life.
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@mary-grace there is a flaw in your thinking. You are assuming that if she didn’t give him space that they would have reunited and lived happily ever after. It is more likely that it would have been more of the same. She was most definitely not the only woman he had on the side. When she said no he just moved on to another he had on a tether. If he really loved her and wanted to be with her he would have hung in there and tried to convince her without giving up so easily.
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@watergirl18
WHERE YOU BEEN HIDING? Been thinking of you! No more white roses?
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@mary-grace Its not a good idea to get involved with a married man. Its simply wrong.
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ok ty for all you options.
there are very valid.
Now please provide you options on the question but this time he is not married.
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@mary-grace let him come back first then let the gurl have an open conversation with him. Ask him questions about what he wants. Does he still loves the gurl and want to be with her? or just is he playing games?.If he is not married anymore then it will not be a problem for him to take decisions regarding his feelings for the gurl. She needs to ask him about his priorities. Good luck
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When a man loves and wants to be with a woman, he will not leave her, and he will not ask for "space" The "strong connection" was merely the excitement of having an affair and the possibility of getting caught. It was an infatuation with never actually being able to have each other, and romanticizing a person you know you'd never actually have to live with day in and day out.
This woman had doubts for good reason, likely because her gut instinct was trying to tell her he was no good, and his past behavior was not going to change. This woman was being smart when she turned him down, and scared for good reason. When he found out she was not going to settle for a man who was 10% interested in her, he vanished because he wasn't interested in actually trying for a real relationship. This woman should pat herself on her back and never look back.
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@andidilly
Sad but true.
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@watergirl18
That is what my little girl heart and mind said.
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@andidilly
Pat on back does not compensate for his company I have been told.
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@blmoon
Can you please explain you comment ty
