Will he want to get back together

  • My boyfriend just a few days ago told me he didn't want a relationship. We've talked and he agreed to start all over again. I'm afraid this is his way of pushing me away. I don't want to leave or go anywhere. This man is amazing. I am an empath so I do feel all of his emotions. Our energy between us is very strong. I've only had this kind of energy with one other man, and he passed away two years ago. I don't want to lose him because of our energy we have and because I deserve something like him. I've been waiting for this kind of man to come into my life. Is there anything I can say or do to make him realize that he wants to be with me? I don't want to lose him. 😔

  • Can you give me both your dates of birth?

  • @thecaptain July 30, 1971 him. August 30, 1977 me.

  • Things have been great we have a lot in common, and we have fun when we are together. A few days ago he said that he wasn't ready for a relationship. I have nothing but anxiety now thinking it was just a cliche excuse to start seeing g other women. He says that he doesn't want to see other women and its the last thing in his mind. Our energy is really strong. I am an empath, and he is the second man I have only been able to be so strong with. This connection I have with him is very strong and I don't want to lose that. The last man I had this with, he passed away 2 years ago. I haven't had anyone so strong like these two men. My man has been recently diagnosed with diabetes and has been without a job because of the medical condition that caused him to get terminated. I know he's under a lot of stress and I have supported him with everything and helped him with a lot of things. I want to still be there for him and support him but he's just distancing himself with me and I'm afraid I'll lose another great man with such strong energy we have. Is there anything I can say or do to let him see or realize that he wants to be with me, and that I am great for him? I do t want to lose this man. He's a very kind man and he's so great. Please help.

  • I am sorry, but I don't see this relationship working out for the long term. You are not that compatible. Your boyfriend hates predictability and routine and he wants out. Your nervous and unstable side and the disappointment, boredom and frustration into which your boyfriend is capable of sinking can undermine the relationship. He craves a variety of experience that you may be unable to supply. If he tires of the relationship (as he seems to be doing), he may well hang in there for a while, but eventually he will seek some excitement and fulfillment elsewhere. Some of what you imagine is there in the relationship is just wishful thinking.

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