Four years ago I found out that my partner of 25 years had another child, From that I think I fell out of love with him and started treating him badly. Anyway fast forward to now, we have decided to separate, he has moved on with someone else. Now this is where things are weird we still living in the same house, separate rooms, getting on better than ever, sex is great. Due to old habits we have our moments which then reminds us why we are separating. We love each other so much, and both hurting which complicates things. I'm about to move out in a week and she moves in.
Were you together when he had the child, as in was he cheating on you at the time?