Scorpio men and female friends



  • Sun in Scorpio

    Physical energy and courage. Strong passions. Regeneration and improvement. Strong sexual powers.

    He is suspicious, defiant, extremist: he has a vindictive nature. Can turn violent.

    Moon in Aquarius

    He is sociable, intelligent and lucid. Thanks to great sociability, he has many friends. He is modern, original, inventive, non-conformist and brings new life.

    he is eccentric, with sharp mood swings. Complex love life.

    Mercury in Scorpio

    Plays on words, argues, criticizes, jokes, is ironical, mocks. He is crafty and always finds a solution to a problem.

    Weaknesses: mocks, derides, disputes, constantly picks a quarrel. A really awkward customer.

    Venus in Scorpio

    Sensual and passionate, he likes love, the act of making love. Passionate loves, full of ardor and desire where the partner needs to be able to match his level or else recriminations will follow. While being passionate, he is also jealous and possessive.

    if disappointed or deceived in love, he can become bitter and odious. He hates the person as much as he used to love. Only jealousy can be as strong as hate.

    Mars in Aquarius

    He uses his aggressiveness in a social battle for freedom, or independence or adventure, but always linked to society. Likes adventure, independence. Disturbances, changes, upsets.

    Jupiter in Cancer

    Peaceful, calm nature. Fertile imagination. Likes home life and material comforts. A good cook, because he is relatively greedy and takes pleasure in conjuring up little things that are good to eat.

    He likes to eat too much, likes own home and comfort too much and has the tendency to be a stay-at-home, going out without any pleasure because home is always best.

    Saturn in Scorpio

    Observant, self-controlled, unforgiving, tough, methodical, a researcher, an investigator. Lots of courage, self-assurance and can keep his cool.

    makes no concessions or compromises. He can become a fanatic of a creed, a party, work or a religion.

    Uranus in Cancer

    He is impressionable, ticklish and excitable.

    Neptune in Libra

    Likes the Arts, music, beautiful voices, poetry. Emotional, with fine feelings.

    Pluto in Leo

    Gives him all his strength.

    Sun in III

    He has a good education, a solid grasp of facts. Socially successful, he wants to be known. He has a strong influence on his circle.

    Moon in VI

    Will never be a leader, but succeeds in being the right-hand of an important person. In most cases, he is an employee, worker etc. He likes the country, respects Nature and likes animals.

    Mercury in III

    Deep studies. Adaptable. He is attracted to the Arts/letters. He knows how to share ideas. Moves around a lot professionally. He can easily keep many irons in the fire at the same time.

    Venus in III

    Likes everything that is beautiful, likes decorum. Outstanding intelligence. He works in a trade linked to beauty, fashion. Numerous select friends.

    Mars in VI

    He works with great pleasure and flat out but meets with problems at work, where professional rivalry blocks his ideas and enjoyment.

    Jupiter in XII

    He is kindly, and does charity work. He is protected from life's rigors to which he is not immune, but he knows how to cope. He likes working in peace and alone.

    Saturn in III

    His studies will be restricted. He is serious, discrete. He takes on mental tasks that require time and concentration. He travels little even though he likes it. He has few friends, who are, however, very close.

    Uranus in XI

    His freedom is important to him, even with regard to friends. These are extravagant, original, intellectual. They are not from the same background and have a different up-bringing.

    Neptune in II

    He develops his "brilliant" but questionable ideas to earn money.

    Ascendant in Leo

    Sign of good health, vitality. Certain of success, either in sport, the Arts or something else. Very full emotional life.

    House II in Virgo

    Will not earn a lot of money through work.

    House III in Libra

    He looks for refined unproblematic people, with whom to have long discussions, without raised voices of any kind.

    House IV in Scorpio

    Heis jealous, snobby, irascible.

    House V in Sagittarius

    Likes adventure, travel, gambling, takes risks for the pleasure of it, treating it as a game. Lots of love affairs.

    House VI in Capricorn

    Works hard, unceasingly and patiently. Weak point: the cold, changes in temperature.

    House IX in Aries

    Travel with risk and adventure.

    House X in Taurus

    Trusted at work. Occupation connected with the earth, buildings, finance etc...

    House XI in Gemini

    Likes meeting, ceaselessly discussing with well-informed people, full of ideas.

    Jupiter - Uranus

    He knows what's going on at a glance. He thirsts after knowledge, and is a good organizer. He is very independent, likes his freedom of action, is a non-conformist. He is very agreeable company and is always in demand.

    Mercury - Neptune

    He can put down in writing everything that his imagination and intuition dictates.

    Sun - Saturn

    He likes to work alone, quietly. He pays attention to detail, is serious, methodical, patient and can take on long, difficult and delicate tasks, and complete them.

    Mercury - Jupiter

    He is frivolous and imprudent. He lacks judgement, and is full of self-importance. He has difficulty in realizing his plans, because he lacks clarity and rates his qualities higher than they are.

    Jupiter - Midheaven

    He is a high liver, likes to have fun but knows what he wants and does whatever necessary to get it. He wants to - and does - succeed socially. After a hard day's work, a good well-lubricated meal in the company of friends is just the ticket.

    Moon - Mars

    He is frank, honest, full of vigor and ambition. He is strong-willed and powerful at work. He is a little hard on himself but, above all, on others whose capacity for action is not as great.

    Moon - Saturn

    He has changeable moods, a reserved character, is stubborn and lacks assurance. His relationship with his mother is disturbing and difficult, he has considerable family problems. This is the standard aspect for children who are abandoned or lack maternal love.

    Sun - Mars

    He is violent, impulsive. He throws himself headlong into situations without ever thinking of the consequences of his actions. This can cause a lot of problems. He cannot stand still and channels badly the energy which he possesses.

    Venus - Jupiter

    He is good-hearted, generous and has a good character. He likes well-being, comfort, a life without problems. He has good relations with his circle. He is easy to approach. All the same, he falls in love easily.

    Venus - Midheaven

    He is vain and jealous. Both married life and professional life are difficult with such a character.

    Venus - Uranus

    independent in love. His love life is rich, but with passing love affairs. He tires quickly and is scared of losing his liberty. If he marries, he will regret it. He has that little something that attracts the opposite sex: he likes amorous adventures, he is romantic. He is the eternal lover and, of course, is unfaithful if he has a serious relationship. He likes art, anything new.

    Mercury - Uranus

    He likes polemic, to criticize and, above all, to contradict. He lacks diplomacy and tends to dissipate his energy. He cannot stay in the same place, likes change even if it means a backward step in his professional career.

    Mars - Saturn

    He is only interested in doing something if there are problems attached: once these are solved, he goes on to something else which has complications. He likes to overcome obstacles, is tough, does not have too many feelings, especially in business. He is egoistic, violent and stubborn. He does not always make friends.

    Mercury - Ascendant

    He is intelligent, with quick and lively reflexes. He is preoccupied by his circle, likes to exchange ideas with his friends, but also with strangers. Of an open nature, he goes out to others.

    Venus - Ascendant

    He goes to excess in his pleasures, frequents doubtful company. He lacks good taste. He is very spendthrift, but spreads his money around his circle. His friends are more self-interested than sincere.

    Jupiter - Neptune

    He is easily influenced. He is a dreamer, who lets himself be seduced by fine words, which are not always sincere. He does not see wickedness and is often fooled by people.

    Pluto - Ascendant

    He has will-power and ambition, and likes to have his own way.

    Neptune - Ascendant

    He has strange relationships. He is easily influenced, very sensitive and emotional.

    Uranus - Midheaven

    He must have a job that allows him complete freedom, something non-routine. He likes change, has a lot of energy and knows how to influence others in spite of his originality.

    Mercury - Pluto

    He has a great sense of observation and quickly grasps the situation. He is crafty, subtle and critical.

    Pluto - Midheaven

    He abuses his power, crushing others in order to achieve his objectives. He risks losing everything and having to start from scratch.

    Cuspglyph, he likes freedom and very sexual man. Scorpio as it says above, is a sign of regeneration and strong sexual powers. Having Mars or Venus in Scorpio, you can imagine how the person is sexually. His desire is powerful, and he is the type of man who will go the extra mile to fulfill it. This can be anything from career, s ex, education, financial etc. It is not to say he can't settle down and marry, it's just that he fears losing his freedom. If you want him, you will have to have huge tolerance degree when it comes to s ex, regardless it's touching or further. With this structure, it will be impossible for him not to relate physically with opposite s ex. Plus he is one that likes to get his own way it will be hard for him to contain himself or control himself once he wants something or someone. Add to that, the element he was born in, gives him vitality and great physical attribute. I won't be surprised if he is physically attractive from head to toe. Let's say he decided to be loyal, women will still find it hard not to be attracted to him. So you see, either or, it will happen.

    Venus - Ascendant, he goes to excess in his pleasures, frequents doubtful company.

    Venus - Uranus, independent in love. His love life is rich, but with passing love affairs. He tires quickly and is scared of losing his liberty. If he marries, he will regret it. He has that little something that attracts the opposite sex: he likes amorous adventures, he is romantic. He is the eternal lover and, of course, is unfaithful if he has a serious relationship. He likes art, anything new.

    The chart is drawn based on the planetary position the day he was born

    I am sure he has undergone some changes, now that he is above 50. but then again, deep inside, one never knows. I hope this helps.



  • I have to admit German men are s exy

    they don't seem to hold anything much back and no matter how old they are, they are still flirty

    at least the ones I met

    I'm married, so I don't go sleeping around or anything

    but if I ever become single, I'd take one of those



  • LeoScorpion--what an analysis!!! Just curious, did you see my original posting that he was born November 4, 1954 at 2 a.m. in Frankfurt-am-Main, Germany? I was surprised to read that he has Leo rising, as he had let me know he was Virgo rising.

    Also, he was only born in Germany because his late father was a military man, and not of German descent, but an American. He has been living in the U.S. since 1969..In any case, I deeply appreciate the effort you put into this, as he actually proposed to me on December 23 of this year. Was that ever a shock!!! But we'd been going through a rough patch when he kept getting "followers" on Twitter from porno sites. I let him know I had no problems with him looking at porn sites and satisfying himself that way; we just had to understand why these "followers" seemed to be trying to start a 'dialogue' on his page...and then he proposed when the spam he let me report started coming up again. He even told me he was deleting his Twitter account because it hurt him to see me upset over that spam. So I guess the only thing left would be: would he expect me to 'go along' with his "theories" about sexual touching otherwise in our relationship,

    and see that as proof I was 'monogamous' in our relationship? Love, CuspGlyph



  • LeoScorpion--what an analysis!!! Just curious, did you see my original posting that he was born November 4, 1954 at 2 a.m. in Frankfurt-am-Main, Germany? I was surprised to read that he has Leo rising, as he had let me know he was Virgo rising.

    Also, he was only born in Germany because his late father was a military man, and not of German descent, but an American. He has been living in the U.S. since 1969..In any case, I deeply appreciate the effort you put into this, as he actually proposed to me on December 23 of this year. Was that ever a shock!!! But we'd been going through a rough patch when he kept getting "followers" on Twitter from porno sites. I let him know I had no problems with him looking at porn sites and satisfying himself that way; we just had to understand why these "followers" seemed to be trying to start a 'dialogue' on his page...and then he proposed when the spam he let me report started coming up again. He even told me he was deleting his Twitter account because it hurt him to see me upset over that spam. So I guess the only thing left would be: would he expect me to 'go along' with his "theories" about sexual touching otherwise in our relationship,

    and see that as proof I was 'monogamous' in our relationship? Love, CuspGlyph



  • We are engaged now, so I am seeing if this trend continues...sadly enough, bringing it up seemed to bring more distress than relief; I really hope this sudden engagement is about real love for me than 'if I don't marry this woman, she will get away and one of my "options" will be gone.."' So far, he has gone to the trouble of introducing me to close friends (even announcing our engagement and future marriage to a friend who called it "bourgeois"), and making a point of calling me "special" in light of this engagement. I let him know I didn't mind the 'look but don't touch' thing with porn sites, but it is hard to know for sure whether what we do satisfies that need for an outlet. He is anxious about 'performance' and apologizes for 'not meeting my needs', but why are other outlets the ones he 'needs' to turn to? I am more than ready to satisfy his, but he seems intimidated by that.


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  • cuspygly[h

    no I didn't see your reply. I was asking his birthtown but no reply so I posted the chart anyway.

    even if it was Frankfurt Am Main, his rising is Leo

    maybe you can ask other sources they may come up with different chart

    OK so he is not German LOL

    I always think those from europe are exotic

    good luck



  • Thanks, Leoscorpion! You have been a great help...I hope that if you ever need some feedback on a problem in this forum I can return the favor!!

    Love, Cuspglyph



  • sure cuspglyph

    take care now and take it in stride



  • Hi LeoScorpion!

    What do you think of being "friended" by a former romantic interest from 15 years ago? He has been corresponding with her long distance (her idea), and when I questioned that development (he was rather defensive about her place in his life now, and she got really angry about me when he asked her to step back a bit for my sake)...she was born 5/23/67--Sun in Gemini, Moon in Scorpio, Venus in Cancer, Mars in Libra...not to mention Mercury in Gemini.



  • Cuspglyph.

    I don’t do composite chart and I believe if he loves you, he will stay with you, no matter how strong the attraction is. I will just give you a quick look of the DOBs.

    She rebels against the conventional, be it openly or not. His Uranus conjunct Jupiter, he understands how general principles work and likes to turn them upside down. With Pluto in Leo, he is not following the society norms and boundaries. He is his own person, his own authority. This is probably how they become friends (hopefully not further), they are rebelling against the same thing.

    His moon in Aqua is not easy for him to be emotionally attached to someone or something. He values his freedom because freedom allows him to escape the possibility of being over powered, controlled and over whelmed by others. Even if he loves you, he will still give you your own space and in return, he wants you to allow him express himself freely. The problem here is : his perception of freedom may be too ‘free’ for you.

    He is focused on progress, on achievement, probably intellectual – rather than matters of the heart. Scorpio is dominant in his chart. He is very passionate, as it says in my previous reading. He can hate as much as he loves. Probably also easily jealous and possessive at times. Mercury and Neptune in Libra, he knows how to calm people and bring peace back into a conflicting situation. He can charm his way into other people’s hearts and mind. But there is no guarantee which side he is on, because in Libra, decision making can take longer. You probably have to wait a long time to hear the truth from him.

    Your moon in Cancer is at home. Moon influence is doubled here. Don’t underestimate your intuition (or guts) sometimes it is telling you the truth. Just watch for mood swings Mars in Cancer can make it worse if you don’t channel Mars energy properly. You enjoy harmony and peace domestic life and relationship, but from now on you need to learn to face the truth, even if it means harmony and peace is disturbed by your search for the truth. Jupiter and Saturn in Cap, you are going back and forth, from feeling secure to feeling insecure, from trying to be in control of the situation to letting go. Saturn is at home here, you don’t feel comfortable letting go of things beyond your control, but you know sometimes it is necessary. Venus in Pisces, you can be too compassionate, you may fall for deception. You can’t understand cruelty, insensitivity and betrayal, which is actually reality of life. You probably even feel guilty when betrayed even if it’s not your fault. Don’t let anyone pull the wool over your eyes. In every situation you have to seek for the truth and accept reality as is. Your North node in Virgo shows that you have to learn to be more calculated. Use less of emotion, but combine intuition and logic into problem solving.

    Your Mercury is in 12th house, you have problem getting your message across or probably communicating in general. Try improve your communication skill, it will help in maintaining the bridge between you and him.

    Scorp and Gemini relationship is sometimes described as sexual – service relationship. This is a possibility in their case, because Scorp is dominant in his chart and Gemini is quite dominant in hers. More than just generality sun-sign attraction. He enjoys being there for her, to provide help for her. This may lead to intimacy, but I won’t place too much confidence on charts, because I believe we make our own destiny. Charts can show us what needs improvement, but we have the ability to alter our destiny. It may actually be just a fantasy, everyone has fantasies. This could be 'the passion' that puzzles you. Doesn't mean he is acting on it, though. You know he touches his female friends, this woman could be just friends to him.



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  • Hi LeoScorpion!

    Thank you so much for your input; as usual you do an outstanding job and I am deeply grateful for your giving me this feedback! This has really helped me to be able to put things into perspective.

    I just got an e-mail reply from my fiance as to what I thought might help with communication in our relationship (to have less confusion/misunderstandings with each other about what concerns us); let's hope we can have a more harmonious relationship...you're so right about him taking his time with getting back to me, but at least he wanted to follow up with me on that. I did my best to present things in a constructive way that makes it possible to have a real dialogue...

    Thanks again, LeoScorpion!!



  • P.S. I realize his Mercury is in Scorpio, but thanks for the insight on how Mercury in Libra works...his female friend has her Mars in Libra and his Mars in Aquarius could be a reason they know how to 'fight' despite any differences.



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  • I forgot to add

    the chart I posted in 2009 is not really accurate

    that's why I gave you another reading yesterday

    His Mercury is is right in the cusp, so it's still carrying Libra influence rather than Scorpio

    but you may see a bit of Scorp influence in terms of communication and intellectual work

    you will feel intensity in his words, his intellectual work is mostly in depth

    he is probably quite direct when he speaks, that he could hurt people unknowingly

    but Libra influence will be the majority because it's just entering Scorpio at 0 degree

    so you may not see much of this

    Mars in Libra gives her the energy to fight for what is fair. But this depends on what she terms as 'fair'. If she feels she deserves him and you don't deserve him, then she will definitely fight you to win him. It really depends on her decision. Mars in Aqua gives him the energy to take on intellectual pursuit.



  • LeoScorpion,

    Thanks for that update, and observation. I have been trying to understand what this relationship does for him; no problem with mutual interests...well, uh--maybe 'having him' would be a little hard to accept <lol>!! But for the sake of what has been good in our relationship, I would hope this isn't an 'escape' from what could be worked out between us. Interesting to notice that her manner is rather demanding; I don't know if I added about when she was ranting at him via the computer and he was shaking and gobbling chocolates...it seriously scared me but I felt it more respectful of his dignity as a man not to mention that detail to him. When we started dating, he made no bones about his late mother being a demanding woman whom he felt used him to meet her needs. Also that she'd 'done too much' for him without asking him if he wanted what she did for him, and later telling him "After all I've done for you!" as a guilt trip. He was upset if I wanted to pay for anything; that was the reason I was given...that it reminded him of his mother. So this friend constantly trying to help him with every little thing and getting mad at him when he doesn't accept her "gifts" strikes me as somewhat bizarre. At the same time, she's able to give him links for his interests, including social ones. It seems to be taking the place of fun we've actually gone out and done together these days, though.</lol>



  • cuspglyph

    Moon can represent mother. Not always applicable, but in his case it can say that his mother is an erratic and hysterical personality. Her child is her possession, and so she did a lot of things for him, but when he didn't give anything back, she feels that he is 'leaving' her.

    This is why it's not easy for him to be attached emotionally, as I mentioned above. He is now with you, but he is still wondering how will it be with another woman. There might be some issues between you and him, but this is not the reason why he is still wondering.

    Her Venus in Cancer, she loves 'mothering' someone. But she also expects to receive 'mothering'. This placement is not so much about histerical tendency, but she will be deeply hurt when not receiving 'mothering'. because when she is all caring and generous, she is showing affection. So when she doesn't receive all that back, she feels rejected. That's why she is putting him on guilt trip. The problem is, she IS having that guilt trip herself, and so she will keep 'mothering' and then get hurt if not receiving affection. It's like a cycle that keeps going on and on. Soon your fiancee will feel 'stuck' and this will be the time when he breaks free from her. I don't know when, but it is a big possibility. Thing is, being passionate and sex ual, he may find another woman 'friend' LOL



  • Hi LeoScorpion!

    Yes, and I'm thankful this has been a long-distance relationship, although that can fit in with the 'safe distance' theme..and, of course some sort of outlet for fantasy (on her networking page, she posts glamour shots of herself and has a lot of guy friends exclaiming how great, sexy she is..she seems to thrive on that. Also, any female friends are practically worshipful, but her thing is being a "post-feminist" inspiration to those women. Maybe I don't seem 'worshipful' enough<lol>!!! )

    I just don't want to be naive...She met my fiance 15 years ago at the same college in California; she turned him down when he asked her to be his girlfriend, and she claims she was in a 'non-gendered space' back then to me...so her present persona is a real switch. Very excited about 'driving men wild' on her posts, sexual entertainment links, etc. She claims she has a 'great' relationship with her mother, that her father tried to get her to be a doctor but she didn't want to, and also posts ''Female-Superior-Goddess" links, not hesitating to suggest that men are 'inferior' to women...This must be a really confusing relationship for him but he's admitted to being a maso chist at times.</lol>



  • hi cuspglyph

    yes she knows how to tempt se xually --- but whether she is only attracted to one night stand or long term is not certain. If she is only interested in one night stands, then she will not be 'tempting' men for too long. she will be quickly bored and move on to tempting another man. but if she wants long term, then the long distance will not be a problem for her to keep on going. She may even find a way to relocate.

    It will all be your husband's choice. Now that you mentioned he once liked her when they were young. with moon in scorpio, I am not sure if she is telling the truth about her relationship with her mother. people with this placement, tend to be protective of their own. if she tells a story, she will tell half side, not the whole story. So take it all in stride. After all you have to consider she knows your hubby once had a feeling for her.

    the female superior thingy should tell your hubby who he is dealing with. now it's his decision.

    well I hope for the best cuspglyph. I'll go on with other threads.


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