Virgo: Cancer Man Advice
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Hey I recently just heard from my Cancer man after three months of silence.
We both fell in love with each other at the time but went separate ways in our life for complicated reasons. It was his choice to stop talking to me and it broke my heart since he was the first person I ever loved. A week ago he started talking to me again and apologized for what he did telling me he had to disappear for a while to make some changes in his life but he never stopped loving. I understand crabs do this. Now he is being distant again and I don't want to repeat what happened but I have tried reaching out to him and either he says he is working or doesn't reply. What do I do? I want to move on if he is trying to do this again?
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@virgohere He wants to control this relationship, only seeing you when HE wants to. Don't stand for this abuse.
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@thecaptain, I'm sure your right but we really haven't said we are in a relationship. I don't understand why he is reaching out to me now. He pulled me out of a very bad relationship months ago and I thank him for that. We started out as best friends and realized we cared about each other later on. Now I feel alone and confused all over again. I'm angry because he never was this way. Why does he want to control me now?
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@thecaptain I want to say something to him to end it but at the same time Ive told him I don't want to get hurt by him. He says he just can't talk.
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@thecaptain Im so sad. I was doing well.
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@virgohere Have you ever told him you want to be more than friends?
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@thecaptain Yea we both wanted to date each other but it wasn't good to at the time. I had just gotten out of something bad and he had some other issues to deal with.
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@thecaptain We just always miss each other because our lives our always in different spots but when we come together it's amazing.
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@virgohere Isn't it time then to revise the dating question?