Older woman younger man
IM 7/16/1945 he is 8/22/59. After 17 years together, but living a distance from each other, what kind of a future do we have. We're so connected and yet so much tension and passion yet very restrained. Where do we go or do we as I need to know what to do with this. He keeps coming back and is very jealous but yet he has a fear of commitment with me. There is a love that is very deep and we both fear it at the same time. Confused with this please help me understand what I don't understand
this relationship is crazy, you are just trying to figure it out after 17 yrs, there will never be any commitment. sorry to be so blunt.
17 years and he still has fear of committing
I personally think it's time to move on
but I will let that for you to decide
here is what I got for you, it's from a website not my own work
Sun - Jupiter
Positive aspect: Here is a couple you like to be with. They are charming, agreeable and know how to entertain their friends generously and warmly. They go well together, and love each other in a discrete and sincere way, and appreciate the joys of life together.
Mercury - Uranus
Positive aspect: No clouds in this couple's life. They have a good intellectual understanding, take pleasure in being together, in discussing and exchanging ideas.
Mars - Jupiter
Positive aspect: The couple will be in harmony, even if they are different they complement each other perfectly and understand each other very well. They go well together.
Mercury - Pluto
Positive aspect: Favorable union.
Mercury - Venus
Positive aspect: A relationship which will be agreeable, they will like to speak to each other, have a good intellectual understanding, their tastes will be very similar, they will like to share their feelings with each other.
Venus - Uranus
Negative aspect: A meeting that can only be passing and highly disappointing.
Mars - Jupiter
Negative aspect: They are too different to get on well together, they can never understand each other, and conflict and an aggressive atmosphere will result.
just need to add
I don't see anything wrong with age gap, male or female
I'm just saying that 17 yrs is a long time to make up someone's mind