Older woman younger man



  • IM 7/16/1945 he is 8/22/59. After 17 years together, but living a distance from each other, what kind of a future do we have. We're so connected and yet so much tension and passion yet very restrained. Where do we go or do we as I need to know what to do with this. He keeps coming back and is very jealous but yet he has a fear of commitment with me. There is a love that is very deep and we both fear it at the same time. Confused with this please help me understand what I don't understand



  • this relationship is crazy, you are just trying to figure it out after 17 yrs, there will never be any commitment. sorry to be so blunt.



  • 17 years and he still has fear of committing

    I personally think it's time to move on

    but I will let that for you to decide

    here is what I got for you, it's from a website not my own work

    Sun - Jupiter

    Positive aspect: Here is a couple you like to be with. They are charming, agreeable and know how to entertain their friends generously and warmly. They go well together, and love each other in a discrete and sincere way, and appreciate the joys of life together.

    Mercury - Uranus

    Positive aspect: No clouds in this couple's life. They have a good intellectual understanding, take pleasure in being together, in discussing and exchanging ideas.

    Mars - Jupiter

    Positive aspect: The couple will be in harmony, even if they are different they complement each other perfectly and understand each other very well. They go well together.

    Mercury - Pluto

    Positive aspect: Favorable union.

    Mercury - Venus

    Positive aspect: A relationship which will be agreeable, they will like to speak to each other, have a good intellectual understanding, their tastes will be very similar, they will like to share their feelings with each other.

    Venus - Uranus

    Negative aspect: A meeting that can only be passing and highly disappointing.

    Mars - Jupiter

    Negative aspect: They are too different to get on well together, they can never understand each other, and conflict and an aggressive atmosphere will result.



  • just need to add

    I don't see anything wrong with age gap, male or female

    I'm just saying that 17 yrs is a long time to make up someone's mind


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