Need a reading on my love situation

  • it is regarding my relationship with my ex. need to understand where we stand now and if he has feelings for me

    it was a very harsh break up . I broke up as I felt he was cheating on me.

    I do feel bad for how things turned out and how I handled the situation.

    we have known each other since last 9 years but have been a relationship since last 1 year

    threre was a very strong chemistry and we were very compatiable. we both were already in marriages before we met and we used to socialise in the same group. he approached me in almost a year ago before we got into a relationship. when I broke up everything came out into the open. ahd there was lot of fights and arguments between families and our social group also got impacted

    I no longer socialise in this group anymore so feel left out too. me and my husband our looking into moving now as I thought this would be the best thing for me

    I do still love my ex and I regret handling the situation the way I did. I felt betrayed by him as thought he was cheating on me too. our relationship although was on a false ground but we got togehther as we both were unhappy in our marriages and was an arranged marriage. he convinced me for years that he loved me.

    need to understand if we will ever reconcile or if he still has feelings for me.

    I am in a bad shape as loved him like no one else. and we are like strangers or he might even hate me now

    there is a lot of other pressures- we stay in the sub division and have lot of common friends so a lot of societal pressures..

    can some one please do a reading for me. dont know if he was involved with someone else or is. what are his feelings now, will he try to reconcile?

  • Another person can never make up to you for or save you from your own failed marriage. You need to sort out your first relationship - the marriage - before you can hope to give your love, time and attention to anyone else. Your ex also needs to sort out his marriage. Otherwise there is no future for you together.

  • I understand but what do the cards say?

  • Captain Does he still have feelings for me? do you see us coming back at all? or we will never talk again

  • I feel he has moved on to someone else, sorry.

  • he is married so are you saying he is seeing someone outside his marriage or is only with his wife.

    also what you feel is your intuition or practical feeling

  • Captain- how was it so easy for him to move on? I feel so hurt right now. what do you see for me happening in near future

    also is he in love with this other person and will it last? if it is not his wife

  • Captain did he never love me? my dob is 4/1/1976

    his DOB 12/20/1977

    I love him a lot and cant seem to get over

    is there no hope of us every reconciling- can you tell me what is going on with him and why things ended for him.

    also can you provide me a reading on what to expect for the rest of the year in terms of relationships and career

  • I do feel like he loved you at the time, but that he gets these strong but brief crushes on many people. He has had affairs before and will continue to do so.

    For you, 2017 is all about evaluating the relationships in your life, starting with your relationship with yourself where you may have to let go of old tired attitudes, regrets or fears that aren't serving you. It’s a year where you’ll be required to heighten your sense of responsibility to your home and family environment. Don’t be surprised if you need to take on some added weight with home and domestic or family matters. Embrace it instead of resenting it. There’ll be added tension around how you relate with your close relationships, however. You are likely to find your relationship with those near and dear to you growing ever closer and stronger this year, while any relationship that is no longer of mutual benefit will come under the microscope and may actually end (if it didn’t already end last year). It can be a great year for marriage if you have met ‘the one’. It’s also time to investigate if you feel empowered or disempowered in your home and domestic life. Your energy levels will run high this year, but you should watch for hasty or impetuous behaviour. Remember that haste makes waste. As long as you direct your excess energy constructively, instead of wasting your time in conflict, you can accomplish much. It is a time when you may be concerned with taking care of your home, perhaps decorating, buying furniture, or even finding a new home. It is also worthwhile to consider taking courses that focus on your well-being and balance. If you have ever wanted to paint, sing, act, or play a musical instrument for pleasure, this is also favoured in 2017. In 2018 you may feel more solitary than ever, yet you will be learning how to deal with loneliness and finding out more about yourself and what you really want from life. 2018 will tend to be a quiet, reflective sort of period where you can gain much insight and understanding of who you are. Whereas 2017 will centre around and be all about looking after others - friends and family, and your home. Next year it will be time to look after yourself and your needs and wants. Then 2019 will be your BIG chance for success and material gains. It will be the best year in a while for your career and finances if you are prepared to take educated risks and promote yourself.

    For you, 2017 is associated with wholeness and, during this year, you may be aware of some aspect of your life that needs attending to so that you can feel complete. For example, you may have unresolved issues with a family member, and by speaking with them, it may help you to release a great deal. During 2017, it is advisable to be aware of which emotional attachments need healing too, so that you can bring all your energy back into the present. For example, you may not even realise you are still attached to an idyllic, romantic summer holiday you spent with a lover, and part of you may really wish you were still there. You may find that you are particularly sentimental this year, which prevents you from letting go of old love-letters, photographs and memorabilia. This process may mean revisiting painful emotions, but by facing them and realising they’re from the past, you can gently allow them to dissolve. In 2017, you may find that you get very deeply involved in a relationship, a work project or with family affairs. You may go over and over situations until you get them right or until they are perfect, and you will not let issues drop. You may open up your heart so deeply that it shifts your perspective on life for the better, so you become more loving towards others. Indeed, this is a great time to reach out to support and nourish those within your community, and to learn to love and nurture yourself too. You may be made very aware of your choices during this year, and you will need to choose between helping yourself and serving the greater good. Others may reassure you that you are making the right decisions, but your conscience will tell you the truth. The year’s energy will focus energy on relationships, on the element of friendship, and on children and family within this framework. There may be issues with commitments or collective responsibilities, which you may work through. These issues can be made easier if you keep your vision focused firmly on the bigger picture, and by remembering to put yourself into that picture as you may neglect your own needs too. There may be challenges to deal with if you just judge situations by their appearances which, as you know, aren’t always what they seem. You may find 2017 a fertile time for your creativity, and search for as many ways as possible to express it. Like buying a new cookery book that changes your relationship with food, making simple changes on how you approach your life can make an enormous impact.

  • thank you captain for the detailed reading

    yes my ex has affairs in the past too and I believe he will continue to have ..... we live in the same sub- so is there is no possibility of him reaching out in future? I do know he is attracted to me and finds it hard to resist if he sees me

    my social situation is very messed up- we both were part of the same group- where as people still communicate with him and invite his family- they have all removed us from the group. it hurts a lot. I had invested for long in these relationships- why is everyone ignoring us and ok with him where as he started to pursue me and lead me on also he had a past affair which everyone is aware of

    why I am the only one punished---- will his other affairs be revealed. why I am only punished here?

  • Well, men in society are often wrongly considered to be OK and 'real men' when they are players with multiple partners, but women who have other partners are considered to be sluttish. It's unfair of course and you do not have real friends if they treat you like this.

    Why do you want to reconnect with this man when you know he is a player and that you are only one of his many conquests?

  • I really loved and believed him

    I know him for since so many years and have been in a relationship for a year

    he spent years convincing me and was so persistent

    I broke up with him but was hard for me....

    too much time and emotions invested

    he made me believe he really loves me.... I never thought it would end like this.

  • me and my family are finally moving from this subdivision

    felt he got away with so much.... its been a very difficult situation for me

    It is so hard to believe he got over so fast.... it has been 7 months since we broke up

    last time i saw him he seemed interested but that was in April- he might have found some one new

    I left him becoz I thought he was seeing someone else while with me-her name is Payal..dont know if they are seeing each other but I told payal about our relationship as i was upset. she too is married and is 1 5 years younger than him- he took her as his sister and yet .

    dont know why I am still struggling to get over

    it was very deep emotional relationship for me and he too was deeply involved

  • You were in love with a fantasy person, not the real person. The real person started to lose interest as soon as he won you over. When you are unhappy in your situation, you can start to think and hope that someone will rescue you like a knight in shining armour. But this man was a villian, not a hero. You need to see him as he really is to get over him.

  • yes totally agree- I wish he pays for his bad karma

    I am paying for mine - but he does this too often with too many people and seems to get away with it in society and overall in life. when does one learn??? I do feel bad for his wife for being with such a person- who has flings and affairs on a continual basis. I would not have lived in a relationship like this even if there is kids involved.

    trust one day he will learn a lesson and stop indulging in these affairs and ruining others lives.

  • Captain

    can you tell me if my friend sheetal can be trusted. she is part of my group I used to associate in prior to ending with my ex. now that I am moving she came to visit and was showing she cares.

    can she be trusted? or will she cause more trouble for me.

  • can I share her photo with you? via your personal email

  • No.

  • hi the No is for sharing photo or that she cannot be trusted?

  • You should try to use your own instincts here...for future relationships. You have to become more intuitive about other people rather than just relying on emotion.

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