I need your Help The Captain



  • I was in this forum long ago I am dealing with so many problem right now. I've lost my all even my family my mum passed away 2013 and my son died after 6mos. I've been waiting for long for my son I gave birth when 38yo. and till now my relationship to the father of my son was uncertain. We live each other in different country. All the promises faded away lots of fight and miscommunication.Held on him for so many years. Unfortunately it was only last year he confessed that he live with another woman. I was replace and the reason he said to me that he cant tell me the truth cos I was desperate in my life but I find it so unfair on my part but I still give him a chance. I gave birth without him next to me till our son passed away no financial and emotional support. He keep distance in me. After 4yrs he paid respect to the grave of my son and I was told the I was the only one and nothing change. We tried to work things out but I was uncertain cos its been one year till now he cant find a place for him. His work is kinda busy and I tried to understand but its only 3 mos since we catch up I fell like he still not able or willing to commit though I kew theres a lot of things to settle financial is the biggest issues.But I felt so bad cos I wanted him to move out and not living a double standard life. I was told that the woman that he live with was a mistake and he falls the axe of his face. A lot of miscommunication mistake that till now I felt not secure



  • No, this man does not want to return to you. The relationship was never ever really a strong or good one. You need to let go of this fantasy and move on. There is someone else waiting in the wings for you to be free.



  • I just spoken to his mate just right now and I was advice to move on cos if I am not I only make things complicated.I called him up though he never knew me but when I show our pictures of us and my son he can easily relate. I am so low now . But yesterday I spoke to him he said he probably approve on his knew place cos in his area theres house shortage cos mining industries now is getting better. I actually asked him to help me cos my loan in the bank was due this coming Friday but I am not sure if he will help though he asking me. Complaining his tax now. i am shattered



  • BUMPER !.!.!.



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  • How many more excuses will you accept from this guy before you see that he is not coming back? You need to move on for your own sake. Cut your losses now before you endure more emotional heartbreak.



  • I guess I made up my mind and I agree with you The Captain cut the lose cos it wont work for a trouble. I am completely and deeply hurt I left nothing in me and a lot of my stuff was in his place. Nothing more I can do now I have to let go and figure it out what life can offer to me now. Im so low and I know some how I will stand still thank you very much ....



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